tifany89:

Dude I want to believe that non of the suggestions made above are true coz him being married or she being married doesn't change a thing. But the truth of the matter is that your wife has guts and may be dats because of the kind of leg u v given to her. I can't even imagine my wife mentioning her ex carelessly talk more of asking me to leave a place I want to relax coz of him, haba for what? That will take her plenty of courage and audacity on her part. I still don't know why she will be worried about her ex seeing you guys, it really doesn't make sense to me coz whatever they had is all in in the past and she is married now. The worst dat wld have happened is introducing you as her husband and d dude as an old friend and dats all except maybe there is something she is hiding

But you know am not really getting this, what could it be that she may be hiding? Not seeking negative assertions oo, just saying. cos alot of people have made statement concerning that here. Lets just be blunt. Plus I was able to tell her not ask her, that thats how disrespectful she is having to ask us to leave a pub cos of her ex while I was voicing my mind over another thing she did. She replied saying, she didnt know it was wrong for her to have asked us to leave, saying she was just trying to avoid any form of approach from the dude.

ikp120:
Your wife dey play away game bro. She told the nigga that she ain't married. He ain't no ex.

Shine your eyes bro and focus on Gucci because Gucci will always be Gucci. My siggy says it all bro.

You are wrong, this same dude is married with two kids, and he knows also that she is married.

pryme:


You acted well.
But you must understand, every man every man had a past before you met them. Some handle their past well and make peace with their past and move on.
While some move on without making peace with their past.

She is your wife I believe you guys can talk about anything. So you might want to talk about it with your wife. There is what we call "closure" I think your wife needs one.

Problem here is that, I have no issue discussing it with her, in the past, when we talk about her ex based on when she started talking to him and all, and how I found out she saved her ex name as another name on her phone 4 years back always make her feel I am insecure which I aint, she has a different notion to that effect, so I always just prefer to stay quiet now when it comes to the issue of her ex.

smartty68:
Your self composure at that moment was cool but there's something your wife is hiding from you! I just don't want to conclude that she's still seeing her ex behind your back.

I'll advise that you sit her down and ask questions before any conclusions!

Well that came to my mind too that they might be seeing for her to be so nervous to the extent of having us leave. But we might never know if thats true if they are still seeing. But what exactly do I ask her before any conclusions?

falconey:

You did great,just one thing though you didn't see the dude. It would have been perfect if you did for future occurrences.

I thought at first that it was a game, so i didnt even bother to stylishly look around.

I was out with my wife at night for karaoke. 10 mins later, went down to talk to the DJ, A minute later, my wife ran to me and said we should leave, that she saw her ex, and shes trying to avoid him coming to say hi to her, I was like wow, but hes not the 1 that brought us here, she replied plz lets leave, I said chill first, continued my convo with DJ, after I was done, we went back to sit, she was like again, can we go? I was now like, ok let him come and say hi to u, if that can make u stop telling me we should leave. Next thing, she said, ok hes gone, "expresses relief. I was so mad inside of me, I didnt let it show @ all, I code am well, and didnt say anything about it further, and we acted like nothing just came up now and we enjoyed the rest of the night. Peeps, how would you have handled the situation? We know we all have different women as wives and they'll always be different in their ways, but on a general note, how would you have handled such situation? The same way I did, or otherwise? If otherwise, please share with us here. Cheers!

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