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[quote author=uj_sizzle]Nah i hate lashes..think my eyes are pretty all on their own. But that is not to say it looks horrible on everyone.

Funny you preach 'moderation' now, a moment ago you were concerned with how women won't stayy natural.
This model girl you set as a standard clearly have things working for her in the hair department: full, long, dark, but not everyone else can boast of that.
When a woman dresses or uses cosmetics, the principal aim is to first build her confidence and not to impress anyone. She has to first look beautiful to herself before anyone else,least of all men.

Cosmetics and clothes go hand in hand. other than the lattet covering your nudity, it builds confidence by flattering your physique and accentuating your assets.The exact reason why a fat lady can wear dark clothes and vertical stripes to make her look slimmer, a skinny girl can wear full skirts to give the impresssion of curves, a person with lovely legs can rock it in pretty heels and a short skirt. Same reason we use body creams and soaps not just to make u cleann but leave ur skin healthy and beautiful. Everythinh works together.

Looking beautiful requires that you get the eyes of the onlooker away from your flaws by accentuating your assets...its a neat trick. It is the universal aim of any woman who looks after herself! Whichever she decides to opt for, whatever means she seeks to achieve it, the bottomline is she changes herself from her natural state to something different.
Its foolhardy to try justifying one above the other for those hanging onto it <:/

So here, beauty builds confidence and has nothing to do with inferiority. Confidence helps you take on the world .[/quote]Moderation like i said is still the only way out but unfortunately our ladies have chosen to stay blind to it. i remember admitting that i agree the fake thingy and all is a trend that has come to stay so i see it as one of those phases we evolve with.

because they neglect it you will see a babe load her face with so much blush, Pan-cake, Lip stick, etc. have you seen them gbogbo biggz babes when rain beats the hell outa 'em?.....the sight is "Classic" you can't imagine the washing that mother nature does....

abi is it when they jump 2 or three buses and sweat alittle?....Omo, white handerchief go condemn.

abi na when dem don rock 18 abi how many inches human hair....she had better not make the mistake of doing it on a white dress cuz that dress would be so condemned also #just had a flashback on my Nysc camp days #.

you see my dear....i understand when you stand up to speak out for the majority of our female folks out there (who may lack either the lenght and full ness in their hair or some other feature) and in as much as the intentions for such augmentation or accentuation of hidden features are necessary, given the times we are in, the lack of moderation makes a mess of the whole exercise. i know alot of guys who genuinely would date a gal irrespective of the loads of Puff-Poff pimples on her face or disability in the least.

Our chicks simply don't know what suits them any longer and are obsessed "i wanna be" celebrities. as often as i come in contact with them i'll continue telling who cares to listen to do fashion jeje.

from your stand point you don't fall into the category of defaulters here so maybe some advice may help them sisters do their thang right and indulge moderately like you.

#just remembered the movie Jenifa.....too bad even the enlightened ones amongst them still get caught overkilling their dressing and make-up

[quote author=mafioso47][/quote]you an artiste? Have you at some point done a job/collabo with eedris abdulkareem?

ItsModella: say what?


loool...speak esan na

you wan cause go-slow?

That level hard pass Jamb o!

That na TOEFL. . Test of Esan as a First Language.

[quote author=uj_sizzle]what you highlighted was from my personal experience. you've just described your preference, why don't you ask her how many men have offered to sponsor a trip to the salon.[/quote]actually i have preference for moderation. Unfortunately our ladies lack the sense to establish that. . . Not all of them though but majority.

You don't wanna talk about this same moderation when it has to do with fixing eye lashes! Dunno if you have fixed any but lemme quote my sis. . . 'Guy, some babes no dey try sha. .omo see as that chick be for bike! The lashes no gree her see road' we both laffed at that joke.

Now, i don't know who that chick in question wanted to impress but if she was my gf, then she only succeeded in turning me off.

many attimes i fear for their lack of moderation. I can't rule out the fact that the trend/fashion has come to stay but am pleased to inform you that not all chicks get carried away with all the hype and "i wanna be like a celebrity thingy".

#you don't wanna know the number of advances the chick i sighted as an example has on a daily basis. Non of them offer to tend her hair cuz its always neat, well packed, black and long.

free2ryhme: [img]http://img1.nairaland.com/attachments/1187422_babes__jpg69dd17ff0a89c9b5aa04ad10fa1eea0d[/img]

[quote author=2s£xy]That's because the scope of this topic is somewhat broad and does hit some core factors or elements.[/quote]#in continuation#....which infringes on the drawn-up personality and make shift comfort zone peeps should not even have imbibed in the first place.

[quote author=uj_sizzle]try going on your natural hair for a week and watch men offer to pay for your hairdo....don't acting like you haye weaves men when we know love it!


You freely give out money cos you believe its your responsibilty half the time to take care of your woma, why complain to your friends afterwards? Are you hoping one day she'll say "don't worry, keep your cash"? Who has sugar in his mouth and deliberately spits it out? Or why deny you just don't love the infamous line "I picked you out of the gutter and brushed you up"? yeah we know u just itch to use it

Oh and the sex..lol isn't that usually the driving motive of handing out the money most times? Yeah like a good number of you just love to be called benevolent.

Stop complaining o jare, there's always a reason for all you give a woman n she sure as hell pays her dues. Stop playing the victim.[/quote]sweerrie i strongly disagree with u there.

i love ma gurls on their real hair and it trips me most when the hair is well made such that i see thru to the clean scalp. #for the records i have know a chick in my neighbourhood for close to 5months now and she has never gone on any artificial hair. i asked why and she simply said she didn't like it and that she always looked better when her own gawd given hair was well dressed/made/taken care of.

thing is some chicks do the hair thing to the extreme. is the the Lenght? is it the fullness of the Weave/fake hair? is it the color?....#you go fear when naija chick dey form nikky minaj...

raytony: Shebi na him money. If to say every Nigerian be like me, hunger for don kill this boy.

rotflmao.....#wicked

acaolly1: I dont seem to accept that the FRSC is at fault in this accident looking at the 2 vehicle in the pix. I think the Edegbe bus hit the road safety vehicle from Behind if you look at the pix very well.

am glad some eyes can see beyond bias and prejudice.

@OP. can you verify those pics occured at the same scene? Because imho if they did the Frsc van couldn't have been responsible for the road crash.

Was the Frsc van running on reverse gear?

Until you can make clear these and many more, kindly withdraw your post and apologize for cheap defamation of our very esteemed Frsc *angry face*

chukkynwob: The truth of the matter is this,

My fellow bros, if a girl's interest level in you hits 49% it is impossible to save the relationship. Zip,Nada,no hope.

Instead of wasting your time,move on to a girl that'll appreciate you.

Guess the ladies should take note too cuz it applies to them shey?

[quote author=D-Explorer][/quote]Am completely in sync with your position man!! the above listed are points to be noted.