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Nairariver:
You should be happy..because that means enough time to trade...and return to school like a boss.

Lol, I'm never overwhelmed by money.......I'll return as I've always been.

topsquino:
I've read all the comments on this issue.

Many guys who know their value and worth want these types of women.

I'm glad you guys know your worth

And that's why I've taken the time out of no time to post this (it's more than 2 years since I posted).

So back to the topic

Three years ago, my friends and I were in the same conundrum.

All of them are freelancers. Some are graphic designers, while others are developers, programmers, writers, etc.

The common denominator among all of us is that we are above 30 and earning six figures (more than $3000) monthly.

But the main challenge was finding these types of women you described.

My friends leveraged dating apps and social media, yet their effort was futile.

These girls are not attracted to your money (Of course, they want their boyfriends/spouse to have deep pockets).

They are attracted to guys that are tall, popular, looking good with great physique, smelling nice, working in great companies, highly linked to wealthy/rich families etc.

In sum, they want to date a guy that they will use to shame their girlfriends. Lol.

Some of my friends ticked these boxes, but you will be surprised that these girls are not ready to give them a chance because they are freelancers and not doctors, bankers, or individuals working in CBN or multinational companies.

So, what did they do to get what they want?

Seatrade, this is the solution you need.

They proceeded to private universities for their master's degree.

This might sound crazy. But this is the price to pay for you want. But it is still cheaper compared to travelling abroad or changing your areas

Funny enough, all of them don't need the degree.

But they did it. This strategy gave them accessibility and opportunities to meet many of these young, clean women from good homes.

However, some of my friends did not find success with this strategy after wasting about 1.5 million and 1.5 years in the university studying a course they don't need

What did they do wrong?

1. Looking for girls that they like
2. Not participating in social events
3. Putting their eggs in one basket. Some focused on one girl, and they got their heartbroken
4. Revealing too much about themselves. Don't tell them you are a trader or a hustler at the beginning. Let me not teach you bad things. You know what to do.

If you go with this strategy, make sure you attend church/mosque programs. Join as many groups as you can.

Try to create time and mingle with girls.

The more you mingle with girls, the more you know their friends and have a better chance.

Get a great perfume. Not all those cheap ones. Get something above 40k. Look good.

Talk less so that they won't see through you.

Most importantly, look for the ones that like you. Those are the ones that will spend on you and be willing to marry you.
Most of them are from good backgrounds, so don't be too picky, lest you get a great dose of heartbreak.

I wish you guys the best oooo

What you guys are looking for is GOLD.

And if you want to find GOLD in the mines, you need to sharpen your tools and go to where you are likely to find the GOLD. If you are in Lagos and the gold is in Ibadan, you need to leave your comfort zone and do what you have to do.

You also need to get your personal protective equipment and a lot of shock absorber to protect you from any form of heartbreak hazards . These girls you are looking for are hypergamous and very brutal. But if you they love you ehn, the feeling is BLISS. Most importantly, you need LUCK to achieve your goal .

I wish you luck my friends......

Bro, good morning. Pls, is there a way you can get my brother a job, he is a web developer too, or any tips for him to get jobs....pls help us .

Guys, I trade pretty well....I'm a student, ASUU is just keeping us at home unjustly.

Howla3:
Hi guys in the house, Please I need your advice on this issue. I don't have any girl friend, let alone a Fiancee for now and my mum is already on my neck. It is not her fault though; I have been too carried away by my work that I didn't even have time to socialize.

Where do you think is the right place to look for a wife?

I HAVE JUST SIX MONTHS

just go to Rio but na money

Guys she asked about her beauty not body shape pls don't insult my fine baby

DaddyKross:
Haaa Aye mi Temi bami
Bhet how you take know sef

we are in the mid night remember??

ahah finestbae don't talk about his family

Finestbae1:
That's your only purpose in life? bold letters.

Worn out girls everywhere...

After they sucked your pointers, you do surgery to resurrect your fallen soldiers.

fallen soldiers bitibawo?Shey ti 1960's ���

Finestbae1:
I can see low life like you thinks nairaland is a platform for displaying boobs.

Ass kisser

so everything is about big boobs man show us your own pic let's rate you

still a virgin

if he is not paying so much attention to the bestie there is no problem