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Jobig:
I need a clear understanding of this,a married woman, calling a another man everyday even chat him

She is lonely, husband not fulfilling her needs,

Josepin:
Sincerely, I messed up big time and I never thought I could find myself in this kind of mess, please I need your advice. Not to waste time. Am married for eight years now to a beautiful woman and have 3lovely kids.
About two years ago I employed this girl to work with me, she was in her early 20's and I was 37 then. This Girl became very respectful and very committed to her job. About five months down the line we start getting too close and most time I caught her stirring at me she will smile. Each time my wife complain about her closeness to me I will assure her that there is nothing to worry about.

To cut this short, we became fond of each others and we sometimes kiss in the office and in two occasions I took her out and romanced her but I avoided making a penetration into her. I bought her phone and other things.

Early this year she gained an admission in one poly in the North. Due to her parents financial strength I practically carried all the responsibilities. My wife was aware I assisted her but not to the extend that I did.

From January till this month I send her money every month for her upkeep and other things at least 25-30k monthly. But an issue came up last month.

I saw some of her pictures and videos on tik tok which was very undecent, I called her and scolded her but I observed she wasn't happy the way I talked to her. I went ahead and reported her to her and hell got loosed. She called my wife and Informed her that I have cheated on her and that I have had sex with her twice. Which is not exactly the truth. Now my family is falling apart. My wife is threatening to end the union.

Please, I need every advice that I can get, to earn my wife trust again. Also what can I do to this girl? Can I sue her? Please bear with my grammatical bluders.

Be a man and handle it, why are you calling people to advise.Did you ask for advice before allowing your Willie control your thoughts.uselessmen everywhere.

masmnd8:
The rich man has many friends but a poor man is hated by his own neighbor.
It is not a man fault to be poor especially if he is from a poor background. It is not a crime to be poor , it is crime to be lazy. I remember when I had nothing and i was ridiculed. Even in the animal kingdom, the bravest and strongest male get to mate the female after he has beaten out his competitors. All the rich boys used to get the girls but i remember their wealth was from their parents. It is also not a crime to be rich, it is a crime to be lazy.
Thank God that some women understand no man's condition is permanent, guys look for those women to date.
Please date that broke dude especially if he is ambition, hard working and is a goal gether. Do not miss out on your future husband or baby daddy, no condition dey permanent

Only if he is kind and he shows undiluted love and is a real Christian. If he isn't don't please.they usually change once they arrive . Also look at his background ,his parents , and family dynamics, very important.