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I have a conference to attend in South Africa 18th to 21st of July. I am going through sponsorship and I submitted my documents on 29th of last month hoping I will meet up cos I was told that it's 5 working days. I submitted all required documents including the ones given to me by my sponsors. Am to leave this coming Sunday and I was told that my document is still under assessment. I have worked on a research topic that I have to present there. Please what can I do?

Hi everyone
Am currently confused now as regards my relationship. Let me not say confuse but just job and finances.

My man and I love each other so much and I need no one to tell me that before I know. He his a cool guy, honest, loving and caring. He has always been working in his father's company before his father died and I met with him after his late dad died. I didn't know much about him and I can't just start to jump into his finances. The company was shared because he his from a polygamous home and all that he has worth 6million plus in capital with a car worth 1million. Since his father died he did no job and his plans was to travel abroad but things didn't work out fine. We became close after a year in the sense that I know everything about him. He didn't get job in all places he applied for n finally got a job of 30k per month. He told me he wants to get married this year but I told him no problem though am considering the income based on the fact that I am not working and a final year student. I told him to wait but he said he his not getting younger. He his doing a thrift of 15k montly, company remove 2k and he comes home with 13k. The money is not enough to take care of himself let alone other expense. He thought of selling his car but I advice him not to because no business idea yet. I told him I don't like his job that it's a waste of time, then he told me he want to sell him and his brother property worth 12m so they can share it and live well but I still don't support this, then he asked me what he should do? I don't like people settling for less and to me he doesn't have any business idea than travelling and I can only encourage farming which he doesn't have the strength for. All these are affecting the sweetness in my relationship... Please I need help