Mushyhills:



Firstly am introverted...I'm shy, boring atimes...Buh girl you have a man that will put u first... If he's a good matched introvert

Check his temperament... Try to understand him more...

I'm Virgo... I'm proudly introvert and if I marry an introvert... She would be the happiest...

Don't forget to pray though... God is with you...

NB: EVEN AN EXTROVERT CAN MAKE YOUR LIFE BORING...

tanks

arki:
OP, u have to acknowledge the fact introverts are good husbands cos he'll love u,care for u,make sure u are happy,won't cheat on u etc. It's beta to be in a relationship with an introvert guy who'll give u his time and care than an extrovert who'll not give u his tym. I am an introvert that had same issues like ur guy, when I discovered this, I started working on it by joining the choir in my school, singing in a large crowd etc though it wasn't easy at first. U should be grateful u have such a rare kind of guy who will love u. My ex too was like u who wanted an extrovert though an introvert, but today she's regreting for leaving me. Jst show him and not tell him that he needs to build on his confident issues,if he truly loves u,he will change but not totally. Have a nice day.

tanks so much buh wat abt wen we start having kids,i hate to have kids dat are dull.....i love sharp and smart kids.
Btw,i have always wanted to be someone who wld be able to face a large crowd nd frm ur suggestion........am nt xtian...so, I nid advice on other ways I can boost my confidence

classicB:
I am also introvert. People will call your marriage boring, but i tell you, youre gonna enjoy evry bit of it. Trust me, there wont be case of infidelity in your marriage, youre gonna raise kids that would grow up in a peaceful home(introverts most likely will not nag and cases of noise and fight will not be glaring). Most importantly r u sexuqlly compatible? Cos introverts are shy to express their sexual feeling.
All the best dear

tanks a lot. Are u married, is ur hubby an introvert? Pls I just want someone who has dat kind of marriage to enlighten me.

Mafking:

4 your mind now, you don make sense.....smh

I wonder.......i don't know y some people won't just prefer to kip their mouth shut instead of spewing trash.

missdebs:
seriously facing the same issue. pls advice

am really glad someone understands exactly how I feel

theMusicNerd:
U guys can handle it, if U really wanna

I'm an ambivert... Both intro and extroverted.
U guys should find common things u guys like, books, games, argument topics - philosophy, politics and etc movies... And thrive on 'em to bond more

Get outta ur fvcking shell! u guys should task urselves to do something new... Maybe visit a cinema or park with time, u'd get used to it

U guys should go all crazy in the house!!! When home alone, pillow fights, cook 2geda, sex on the kitchen floor

When u're out, maybe do an analysis of everyting u see! 'Hey babe, see that nigga's head like a watermelon' hahahah.... Just yab ppl and say crap.. A lil' alchohol too.. U guys 'll go haywire

Make ur indoors ur outdoor, intellectially stimulate each other... Puzzles riddles quests adventures

Basically, u guys should get extroverted with each other, let others see u guys as introverted, buh u guys are extroverted insider each others mind


Life's too short!

we are much more than these when we are together, I luv 'us' but d problem is the way we are to other people. I mean being shy

Hello Nlanders,i need your advice as am in a confused state of mind. I have a guy who loves me so much that I wonder if I could ever get such love from anybody else again and I also love him as well but the issue I have with this guy is that I am an introvert and he is also one. Prior to meeting him,i had always wanted a guy that is outspoken, bold nd courageous but on the contrary, my guy is a very shy person (more than I am), not bold, cant face a crowd which I also can't do which makes me wonder what happens if either of us is to do something of such in future amongst other things. Please I would like to know if introvert/introvert relationships work. Please matured minds or married ones here who has been in this situation should let me know how they dealt with it.