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Thanx everyone. I am grateful for the advice.

Hi everyone,i just joined this forum becos i seriously need advice. I am in a relationship with this great guy. I am a quiet and reserved person and he is the exact opposite of me. My problem is that he talks alot and doesnt know when to stop. He can get very insultive and when i confront him on that it turns to an argument. Whenever he gets angry, he says alot of hurtful things and i usually absorb them for peace to reign and he says i am too quiet. Recently anytime he gets insultive and i attack back he calls me a nagging woman. I have tried to talk to him calmly of how his words affect me but he doesnt want to change and it is gradually pushing me away from him. Pls how do i make him undastand what his words does to me and what do i do when he gets insultive?