Romance › Re: "How Much Is Your Groom Price?" Lady Asks A Young Lawyer She Admires by Amajerry83(m): 12:40pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
This girl is not good for this guy. |
Family › Re: US Court Reject Wife Swap by Amajerry83(m): 9:27am On Dec 13, 2017 |
It's their work o |
Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky Youtube Channel by Amajerry83(m): 4:40am On Dec 13, 2017 |
Bob u haven't slept? bobrisky222: yes i always c wat al u guz say about me. nairaland sha is good |
Foreign Affairs › Re: 5 Most Celebrated Freedom Fighters And Revolutionaries In Africa (Pics) by Amajerry83(m): 4:36am On Dec 13, 2017 |
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Celebrities › Re: See The 5 Famous Women Banky W Dated Before Marrying Adesua Etomi by Amajerry83(m): 4:26am On Dec 13, 2017 |
Dated and crush  I cannot fathom how they relate |
Travel › Re: Inside Emirates' New First Class Private Suites With Virtual Windows (pics) by Amajerry83(m): 4:22am On Dec 13, 2017 |
Money |
Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky Youtube Channel by Amajerry83(m): 4:17am On Dec 13, 2017 |
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Celebrities › Re: Beyonce's Super Hot Look On Vacation With Jay Z by Amajerry83(m): 4:12am On Dec 13, 2017 |
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Celebrities › Re: "All Politicians Are Rogues And Thieves, Catch Them And Beat Them" - 9ice by Amajerry83(m): 4:07am On Dec 13, 2017 |
9ice abeg cast the first stone |
Celebrities › Re: Hot!!! Actress Mercy Aigbe Stuns As She Rock Her Red Jumpsuit by Amajerry83(m): 4:03am On Dec 13, 2017 |
Ok |
Politics › Re: Ijaw Freedom Fighters Give Obaseki & Oba Of Benin 21 Days Ultimatum To Apologize by Amajerry83(m): 1:15pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
Rubbish gregyboy: craze dey like ijaw bioz by olamide
psychatric dey for benin land by osamede
neverthesless am a benin and i really want this fight i want the ijaws to teach the benis lessons because an average benin mans idea is to travel out of the country to go die for another mans land he doesnt see nigeria or even edo state as a place he can succeed u hardly find them in other state even in thier state thier economy is been controlled by non indigenes mostly ibos ...this are d advantages of over migration and lazyness on the benin thats why ijaws can claim gelegele because benins are not fishermen there only the ijaws so they can claim it and even fight for it because they have been there since what goes out and come in .in the river than the real owners Binis ...now they found oil oba whants to come and reclaim it by force aint done that way ...even if is an adopted child the real parents cant come and collect the child easily no it cant work ...it has to be a win -win for both parties and not war ..if is going to be a war sorry my brothers benins won't match with this people they have weapons than we are are they even a good number of youth population in benins presently that can fight for benins...no they aint all are in ghanas and libyas and italy ...
note :even benins decide to drive the ijaws the benin man is still very lazy to even work in the gelegele you will see other tribes dominitating it ..lets not even talk of the benin moat is nothing to write home about
lastly i will support a win - win for both party than war but enacting a king in benin who is not subjecting to the oba is a war already |
Politics › Re: Ijaw Freedom Fighters Give Obaseki & Oba Of Benin 21 Days Ultimatum To Apologize by Amajerry83(m): 1:06pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
U think say Edo na Urhobo or Itshekiri? ruggedised: edo state governor is toying with ijaw, seems he wan them to bomb edo out of nigerian map |
Health › Re: Family Of 4 Show Their HIV Status: Wife Positive, Husband & Daughters Negative by Amajerry83(m): 12:42pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Photos Of Beautiful Child Beggars In Calabar Go Viral by Amajerry83(m): 9:35am On Dec 08, 2017 |
He wrote Let’s tweet until something is done about taking kids off the street! He was not referring only to her. jeffizy: The 'ugly' ones gotta be given a chance too. No child should ever be made to have to beg before eating. And to think there's one lazy adult in a corner waiting for returns from the child labor he/she has subjected the kids to.  |
Nairaland General › Re: Photos Of Beautiful Child Beggars In Calabar Go Viral by Amajerry83(m): 9:34am On Dec 08, 2017 |
He wrote Let’s tweet until something is done about taking kids off the street! He was not referring only to her. BeeBeeOoh: They are pretty ain't disputing that fact, but are they different from other beggars all over the streets of Nigeria or because they are pretty they should be taken off the street and leave the ugly ones on the street to continue begging?? |
Romance › Re: Is It Normal For A 10 Yr Son To Lock Lips And Grab His Mum's Butt Like This? by Amajerry83(m): 8:14am On Dec 07, 2017 |
Nothing wrong. Africans and taboo, poor mentality |
Crime › Re: Alexzy Markson: "Yahoo Yahoo Saved My Life, SARS Should Stop Disturbing Us" by Amajerry83(m): 10:35pm On Dec 06, 2017 |
Make sense bro. Too many politicians stealing money every seconds without any harassment.
They should free the boyz to hustle. The country too hard.
I still support that sars should remain. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Bisi Alimi: "Pastor Adeboye Is Irresponsible And Vile" by Amajerry83(m): 6:15pm On Dec 06, 2017 |
We all are God's creation. You are also a man of God just in case u don't know. thesicilian: Why the sudden lack of respect for Men of God? |
Romance › Re: "I'm Proud To Be A Ndebele" Beautiful Lady Shared Photos Of Her Breasts On Fb by Amajerry83(m): 1:06am On Dec 06, 2017 |
I love those boobs. They look so clean and fresh. |
Crime › Re: 4 Politicians Sponsored Billionaire Kidnappers Evans (list Of Their Name) by Amajerry83(m): 12:05pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
Where their names? |
Celebrities › Re: Juliet Ibrahim Too Pretty In Makeup Free Photos by Amajerry83(m): 12:04pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
She try |
Music/Radio › Re: Wizkid’s “Manya” Video Taken Down From YouTube (See Why) by Amajerry83(m): 11:30am On Nov 29, 2017 |
Ok. Abeg who get wizkid number I wan hear from am. |
Celebrities › Re: Banky W Exposes Adesua Etomi In Her Nude State Mistakenly (Photo) by Amajerry83(m): 10:28am On Nov 28, 2017 |
Loooooooookl |
Health › Re: I Have Ocd And Some Other Mental Disorder... I Hate Myself... Please Help... by Amajerry83(m): 3:31pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
My advice is that you should make more friends. Meet more people and interact everyday. Avoid being lonely. Always come out and meet people. It will help u. Just like the bible say an hidle mind is the devil's workshop. LancelLogan: I have chronic OCD coupled with other mental issues like ADHD, chronic depression, extreme anxiety, bipolar, Low self-esteem, Perfectionism(OCPD similar to OCD) and the Fantasy Disorder (i waste hours fantasizing about a character rich fantasy world i have created in my head for almost a decade now) and (i don't know) i think i'm autistic... It kills me inside... I have contemplated suicide but i'm afraid it will be too painful or unsuccessful (since firearms are not sold in this country)...
My mental issues started when i was around 5 years (or maybe since child birth)... My depression heightened during my secondary education at a military secondary school (Nigerian Navy Port Harcourt).
I stay in Port Harcourt and school in the University of Port Harcourt (Uniport)... I'm repeating my final year because my mental issues did not allow me focus on my project and two difficult Maths courses.. i find it hard to focus (ADHD) and study... If i am not battling with that ever present inner OCD voice, I'm fantasizing about another world inside my head...
Everybody thinks i'm rude because i am never smiling and i don't know how to talk to or reply people (I'm always anxious even when i'm familiar with the person trying to talk to me)... no matter how i try i will always say something awkward or I wouldn't be able to say anything at all (my heart will always seem to be racing and my speech stuttering)... So i just detach myself from people generally to save myself from embarrassment...
What my OCD and OCPD has obsessed and compelled me to do over the years is just so much i can't write all about it here... It's more than the regular "wash your hand before and after you touch anything if not you will be infected or fall sick" or "if you press the wrong letter while typing a document, you must clear the whole page and start again if not the document file will be corrupted"]... If ever i try to resist the OCD voice, I'll feel so uncomfortable, anxious, disturbed and drowsy... i won't be able to concentrate on anything at all...
Also, it has made me abusive to my younger brother... If he does something I(or the OCD rather) don't(doesn't) like ... Example, if he doesn't wash his hand before touching things in our room or doesn't follow a couple of sequence i normally carry out while cleaning our room... i get so angry, i yell or sometimes(rarely though) physically abuse him... Any little thing he does irritates me even if he is just playing music, making a call or even laughing at a joke he read on his phone... This makes me hate myself but i can't stop this behavior...
Side note:[I have nothing against Christians or religious people... Please, don't be offended] I recently stop believing in religion (Christianity in my case)... I see it as a mechanism implemented to make people behave and make people be motivated to live and enjoy life... I also don't identify as an atheist because most atheist these days are just religious about their non-believe... They will undoubtedly support theories like The Big Bang Theory and yet criticizes Christians for believing in the Creation Story... I don't believe both of the aforementioned theories(stories)... I can say I'm agnostic because i do not know about the origin of existence.. Although, when i was still an ardent Christian, my OCD voice will compel me to give large portions of my personal savings to "God" so that i'll receive a specific blessing or answer to a prayer request... lol...
I have not talked to anyone about my issues because i know they will not understand... during my secondary school days, i told my parents i was contemplating suicide... they beat me up and took me to church for deliverance... lol... so there is no point talking about it to my family...
I will appreciate talking to someone who understands... Please reply or email me...
Thanks... |
Politics › Re: IPOB Should Be Converted To A Political Party - Kanu’s In-Law And IPOB Prophet by Amajerry83(m): 10:57am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Ipobians and their dreams that will never come to pass. I sorry for una. |
Politics › Re: Presidency Clarifies Funding For 2nd Niger Bridge As N2bn Not $2bn by Amajerry83(m): 9:04am On Oct 25, 2017 |
No blame dem. They are used to dollars and not naira. |
Crime › Re: Policeman Breaks Electricity Worker’s Leg For Disconnecting Ex-ig’s House by Amajerry83(m): 10:44am On Oct 23, 2017 |
Police and Nepa na same. Make dem settle dem matter. |
Crime › Re: Kidnappers Kill African Church Priest In Botched Rescue Operation by Amajerry83(m): 10:38am On Oct 23, 2017 |
The hunger in the land is too much. People sort after anything no matter what it is just to provide for their families. Government is not helping matters. Reason I don't vote. |
Romance › Re: Where Did You Meet Your Current Lover, Husband Or Wife? by Amajerry83(m): 10:10am On Oct 23, 2017 |
As in ehn I think say na only me dey observe this. Too many small pikin for NL. By their comments u can easily spot them. chinedubrazil: sometimes, what i see on nairaland, makes me feel like shutting down my NL account. it is quite obvious that NL is full of kids. mtchewww for goodness sake this is serious, if you dnt have a serious thing to say rather don't even open the thread! |
Celebrities › Re: Prince Nico Mbarga Of "Sweet Mother", His Song Is One The Biggest Ever by Amajerry83(m): 7:54pm On Oct 22, 2017 |
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