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Tallesty1:
Two things are involved here, Either the bae is madly in love with you or she's got skeletons in her coupon.


But I think it is love, she's just insecure and obsessive. What I don't understand is why she would busy your call.

She's truly in love with me of which I must confess. But anytime she treats me this way, physically I feel bad. I guess its because I've not been into a relationship like this. I'm d only one she's dating. What's ur advice pls

Precious91:
You guys are not fighting on purpose or hard things and you broke up?She wants you that's why she wants you picking her call.Sit her and you guys talk like adults and settle issues.Breaking apart is not the solution,dude

Thanks a lot. I'm grateful

Its long a bit. Pls read patiently because ur contribution might save a family to be!!!

We started off our relationship on a lighter note 11 months ago. We were members of same church. I stayed in the parsonage and saw her most times when she came around to visit our pastor. It took me 10 months and few days for me to be able to convince this sister that I wanted to be in a relationship with her. Finally she agreed. One of the things she placed on the table of this relationship is that there would be no s***x. I obliged. Though I have a strong craving for s***x but because I know it'll be difficult for me to stop if I start, I decided to accept d condition. According to her, she has not opened her legs to any man. She's 23 and I'm 29. because of my Background in a holiness preaching church. I flew from s**x because I knew I had accepted Jesus as my savior but I know the passion was there especially when I finished my NYSC. I ki***sed her most times when we meet (we lived in different LGEA after I approached her) but I made sure it never degenerated into s**x. (God forgive me)

Now the problem I'm facing:

I approached her on d grounds (in my heart) that I want to marry her (which I've told her). She's playful, loving and caring whenever we're together (I.e. When I go to visit her or she comes to visit me). BUT WE HAVE ALWAYS ARGUED ANY TIME WE'RE ON PHONE. 98% of our problem sterns from one thing: I DIDNT PICK HER CALL D FIRST TIME IT RANG. she always want me to be close to my Phone 24/7. One missed call will bring argument. She's the first lady I would raise my voice on because she'll always make me upset and angry. And when she's angry, she rejects my calls or ignore them. And if she talks when she's upset, she jam-talks. I KNOW I HAVE MY WEAKNESSES TOO but I'm scared I'll be enduring in marriage instead of enjoying my marriage.

I broke up with her today on d grounds that I love her but I was sure that LOVE ALONE CANT SUSTAIN OUR MARRIAGE. I always made her to understand that if love alone would, there will be no divorce. She makes me feel inferior whenever she talks back at me rudely on phone. It came to a point that I was ashamed of myself for raising my voice on her while on phone (because I dislike someone raising voice on me). I never knew I could be angry to this point. I do have head ache any time I think of the way she's treating me. I KNOW SHE LOVES ME AND I STILL LOVE HER. But I'm having heart ache (literally) every time she makes me feel bad. My blood pumps faster and I feel my breath choking up. I also know I cause her pains when I talk hard to her because she knows I truly love and care for her

Pls married men and women in Godly homes. What do I do? Do I go back and apologize to her and continue our relationship? Do I still stand my ground? What do I do


*** MODIFIED:
Thanks for all the contributions so far. I finally called her on phone and apologized 2 her. She begged that she'll not treat me this way again. That I can do whatsoever I want when next she treats me bad. I felt for her because she talked like a woman that may kill herself if I don't stay with her.

Now the question comes up:

Won't she start living under pretense?

I have a friend that's close to me and she has a very submissive character. I guess I've always compared this submissive lady's character with my woman's character and that's the reason I've spoken hard to her a times. Do I push this lady that is gentle and submissive away and see how to mend my relationship or I should pitch my tent where I'll have peace of mind?

**modified 5 months later
5 months after this post. thanks for
the contributions of all those who cared. I'm
grateful

Hmm

Just came across this "organic chemistry only" on google first page after searching for "studying organic chemistry in Nigeria". I commend everybody that has contributed to this point. because I patiently read everything from the first comment/contribution to the one right above me. I must say "job well done" to everyone here. I'll be learning and making my contributions too.
Thanks 2 u all

i walked across the school today and saw an advert for science teachers. i guess the applications are to be submitted to the administrator of the school. The school's website is www.aliyumustafaacademy.com

thanks

wfmcc:
Must we be learning to become teachers,why don't you think about really coming out to practicalise in your field rather than going back to use the white board marker. Synthetic organic chemistry is a very nice field.

thanks a lot

pls can i get help from those already running a Masters degree in either synthetic organic chemistry or industrial chemistry? i'll like to know the benefits of either of them over the other. i have a passion to teach organic chemistry, and i'll like to continue same in higher institution when i'm through with my masters. At the same time, i want to be useful to myself when i'm done with my Masters before i get a lecturing job. pls i need advice on which field to apply for. I already have a first degree in pure chemistry. thanks all

JIMETA, YOLA: An ear deafening sound just went off around 8:30pm Thursday, May 4. An UNCONFIRMED source said the explosion went off around the State's main market, popularly called Jimeta Modern Market. People leaving about 4 kilometres from the market also heard the explosion. Details later

JIMETA, YOLA: An ear deafening sound just went off around 8:30pm Thursday, May 4. An UNCONFIRMED source said the explosion went off around the State's main market, popularly called Jimeta Modern Market. People leaving about 4 kilometres from the market also heard the explosion. Details later

RIP

Evathyst:
I sincerely sympathise with both the friend and the family members over this unfortunate incidence.


But come to think of it, this story just doesn't add up. As much as unemployment can lead to depression, and depression on its own can bring forth insanity. But how 24hrs insanity will lead to sudden death is something that defies logic.


On the other hand, even if that so-called herbal concoction is poisoned, it doesn't have to make him insane first before eventually killing him. That is not how poison works!


I'm not saying the friend is responsible, but I strongly suspect something spiritual at play. But since the law doesn't recognise spirituality nko? This case tie wrapper no be small.


Lest I forget, RIP to the dead.

Medically: Typhoid fever has the ability to make one run mad abruptly and finally die in few hours

Laughing continues

Hmm

olakunle13:
Hugman...pls help

After following all the steps u advised particularly the last (free 10mb mtn)

My decoder is still not showing welcome to sever and **tv channels ain't showing..what seems to be wrong?

use a 3g modem. crack it with dc crap if possible. then enjoy. i had that same problem until i went to www.lemmymorgan.com

use any sim apart from Etisalat.

Amakortee:
He needs a single room within Jimeta, Yola.
Basic requirements: toilet and bathroom, kitchen
pls call now. pls call 08076168334

modified:
between 30k to 60k per year.

I'm still waiting pls. Its needed urgently

mcdc:
IN EITHER, EPUTU, ORIBANWA, LAKOWE OR LAG ASA............. 2500PER MONTH FOR 1YR IS THE BUDGET,

Pls op rewrite d topic to show where u need a house

He needs a single room within Jimeta, Yola.
Basic requirements: toilet and bathroom, kitchen and light
pls call now. pls call 08076168334

modified:
between 30k to 60k per year...

I went back to that site http://www.google.com/url?q=http://www.lemmymorgan.com/solutions-to-errors-during-after-upgrading-qsat-to-v5-other-tweaks/&sa=U&ei=fShRVZjZCornygOd_oCgDA&ved=0CAoQFjAB&sig2=nLWjY7Z5pj_rqHH1anPgmg&usg=AFQjCNFFveRyLJnverBNd9xxjfZ91Xby2g and got a little info. I'll still need more help

ligopedro:
http://www.lemmymorgan.com/
Check the website i think that will help ..

I went back to that site http://www.google.com/url?q=http://www.lemmymorgan.com/solutions-to-errors-during-after-upgrading-qsat-to-v5-other-tweaks/&sa=U&ei=fShRVZjZCornygOd_oCgDA&ved=0CAoQFjAB&sig2=nLWjY7Z5pj_rqHH1anPgmg&usg=AFQjCNFFveRyLJnverBNd9xxjfZ91Xby2g and got a little info. I'll still need more help

I bought a 3g etisalat modem, cracked it with "dc crap". Inserted an MThen sim with MB from #100 airtime. Guess what!

Boom. The channels are sho.....

ligopedro:
http://www.lemmymorgan.com/
Check the website i think that will help ..

Thanks a lot. I've always used lemmy's site for info but its blank on this particular problem. Maybe I'll forward a message to his mailbox and see if I'll get a reply. I'm grateful

My Qsat 11g has been telling me "CAN NOT CONNECT TO SERVER, PLEASE TRY LATER" for months now. I've tried all my best but it'll only reach the stage on "network connection success". Pls can someone help me! because I can't even load my new 6 months avartacam code. Pls help

If there's anybody in the house that has been able to solve this error (Can Not Connect To Server, Please Try Later) on Qsat 11g, pls drop d method u used. I've tried all sim cards and I still have this same error.

It'll connect to network but does not connect to server, I can't check my Active code, I can't even load my new Avartcam code. If not because I refuse to be frustrated, I would have soaked my decoder in hot water and see if it'll expand. Pls someone should help me out. Pls. Email will help me. Simba4us@gmail.com

adanduka:
This mentality is what is killing Nigeria.
Why should a person pay money to get a job and it is called registration?
I am aware of at least 7 batches of at least 100 recruits in Rivers State alone as of 2010.They all paid 25,000 for registration. 25000 x 100 = 2,500,000. This was done in 36 states and FCT. I understand these monies were used to settle members of the house so they can vote in favor of the bill. Alas, the bill was denied.
I must say that the vision and purpose of FSS is a good one but the way they are going about it is wrong.
Imagine a graduate parting with 25000 in 2010 in the name of getting a job and then you tell him 'a patient dog...'
If a dog were patiently wwaiting for a bone since 2010, don't you think the dog would've died since. Or is he going to eat the fattest bone in the grave?
Truth is, in Nigeria a lot of things go and even become formality. That doesn't make those things right.

Well, with crossed legs; Let's see how real it would be in days to come. But I was made to understand that d money collected for registration is used for the day to day running cost for each FSS state secretariat, excluding the uniform, documentation and other things involved in d registration. But I guess people like me will be patient and follow the National director that has followed this matter up, long b4 year 2000.

adanduka:
Guys be careful o.
FSS made unemployed graduates pay almost N30,000 in the name of recruitment.
The bill for making them an establishment was denied in 2010.
So they are still ripping Nigerians?

As of October last year, it became #50,000 for registration. While as of today, registration has been suspended in almost all the states except in the National secretariat at FCT.

From 2010 till 2015 na small thing? No be so some of my uncles talk about Civil Defence? Them the shout say #6,000 (six thousand) too much. Some of them no gree wear their kaki again. Others no even report for office. Today, where these my uncles and friends dey when the patient dogs don the chop better biscuit bone!!! Shine ur eyes o

The National director Dr B. C Ihesiulo of the nigeria-food-safety-service has just given the directive that every region, zone, state and LGA should start field work immediately (1 May, 2015) as workers salary account with Access bank would start from May 2015. Old and new members of staff who have been trained are those to start work immediately.

guy go check for the office if them still the recruit ooo

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Oh Faithless generation!!! u had the chance to register and you ignored it. They are officially starting off all over the nation from May 1, 2015 with salary account opened with access bank. workers salary is meant to commence from May 2015. if people like you did not register then and would like to join today, you'll have to follow the process NIS is following today.

sepals:
everyone pls shine ur aiz on FSS they cane to where i stay i.e katsina and i spoke with them most their reply were not satisfactory. I also called NAFDAC katsina since they say they will be taking over the food administration of NAFDAC,they denied any such thing.

rabs:
Nigeria food safety services are fake and extorting money from the public,please report them to the nearest police. NAFDAC says so.

flagging off commences today, 19th March 2015.

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