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enkayhope:
marry me

let me know u.

popiong:
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Well u neva thought things wud turn out dis way.
U must mek room for human factor(s).
They are inevitable.
Although I'll blame u 4 allowing d 2nd child com in wen u weren't ready 4 marriage.

I was ready to marry her but I didn't know she wasn't interested.

queencalipso:
Go and marry someone else na, she obviously doesn't want to be under the clutches of a man. She have made it known to you, she only need kids and thanks to you she got them.

I wonder what kind of a woman will give such redicoulous and stupid condition for marriage.

Thanks a lot. I guess I'll av to move on.

popiong:
The situation u find ur sef isn't new I've seen one many years ago She has 2 handsome boys 4 sem man Yet neva married him and refused to marry Take ur search elsewhere If not kip wasting ur tym on her
can this topic be move to FP pipu can learn from this

haven't I made a big mistake?

iammo:
Are you sure she's std free or not a rape victim, better take her to a clinic for both psychological and medical test if you love her else start asking girls out and going out on dates till you get a new lady

hmmm..

ikp120:
Sure.

Wait, does she mean that even when una marry una no go fvck?

she said no sex at all, that she realize me with all her heart to have an affair, that she doesn't mind. I'm so heavy hearted right now.

decatalyst:
When you think you have heard it all


But wait, who is their right thinking sense would want a man to do that?

You need to ask her some questions.

1. Why is she taking such a stand? Has it been her plan for getting pregnant in the first place or she just developed the feeling and mastered it?

2. Is she going through a tough phase in her life? Hormonal disorder

3. Is the place messed up or sealed?


Women can't cope with celibacy, that's for sure. So, ask her who is wants to be seeing in the marriage.

4. Better still, just run for your life!


Odikwa dangerous

she said all she needed in life is to have kids.

sinaj:
Did u ask her why? Who knows if she has a contagious disease


I don't see why u should be in a haste to get married since u gat kids, marriage isn't what u rush into.

Be

I just want to settle down n have a since of responsibility toward someone.

ikp120:
You fear God a lot and you dey fvck who no be ya wife. You even fvck her sotey she born two pikin for ya?

Excuse me I beg your pardon... Oga this your story no dey add on... This you faboo e dey madon, but who am I to take an action? Weh done sir! Weh done sir! Weh done sir! So I say Weh done sir!

apparently I know more than I know then.

brightalo17:
which kind nonsense condition can this be?Op you mean you're seeking advise on this simple matter even at the age of 32? which normal lady will allow his man or husband to do it outside?Op abeg if na joke better stop it this Sunday morning.

So she will be wife,while another lady will be intimacy gadget


Don't even listen to her,let her carry her wahala dey go make serious lady come in your life for good jari.

I swear to God, that the truth.

MrIcredible:
I think she knows you're a womanizer, maybe she just scared of you infecting her with std and other diseases...

she was the one that suggested we have kids in d first place.

TrapQueen77:



It means she doesn't really wanna marry u.. She will only wanna stay with u for the sake of the kids and nothing more..

Move on if she doesn't want to settle down with u.

I guess, but at this stage, where will I start from?

hello guys!

my story would sound strange to most of you, but to God who made me, this is true.

to cut this short: I'm 32, graduate, working and earning well. I av my own house, car, and business, in fact u can say I'm very comfortable.

but this is the issue: I have two kids out of wedlock, and I have made all attempts to tie the knot with my baby mama so has to have a stable home for my kids and make a family, but my baby mama said she will settle down with me on one condition, that we will never have sex again that anytime I'm in the mood, I'm free to go out to have sex with anybody, that she give me the permission. she said all she want in life is to av kids that all, n I've already given her two beautiful kids.
pls my brothers, I know some of you will say I'm crazy for not accepting that, but the truth is I don't av the mind. I can't be married n still av extra marital affairs just because my wife permits it. I fear God a lot , n this hasn't made me married her yet.

I can't marry her now, but at the same time I don't know where to begin to look for someone else to marry. I really want to settle down but where do I start from?

hello guys!

my story would sound strange to most of you, but to God who made me, this is true.

to cut this short: I'm 32, graduate, working and earning well. I av my own house, car, and business, in fact u can say I'm very comfortable.

but this is the issue: I have two kids out of wedlock, and I have made all attempts to tie the knot with my baby mama so has to have a stable home for my kids and make a family, but my baby mama said she will settle down with me on one condition, that we will never have sex again that anytime I'm in the mood, I'm free to go out to have sex with anybody, that she give me the permission. she said all she want in life is to av kids that all, n I've already given her two beautiful kids.
pls my brothers, I know some of you will say I'm crazy for not accepting that, but the truth is I don't av the mind. I can't be married n still av extra marital affairs just because my wife permits it. I fear God a lot , n this hasn't made me married her yet.

I can't marry her now, but at the same time I don't know where to begin to look for someone else to marry. I really want to settle down but where do I start from?