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KINGwax: I dnt care what u think but i cared abt d part of a 23yrs old been smart. How so? Both of u and the ex are jes idiots and nothing else. You're gonna die over a guy of 23? He's still having fun and so should u. I'm not sayin u go fucck around but i mean, enjoy ur life, don't cage yourself.

ur probably right i do not know what he is doing in Nigeria as of right now, nd i dont know y am stressing myself over sm1 who isnt here with me, and d girl am worried about is here in d UK. either way thanks for d advice will def enjoy my life....in a gud way

ifihearam: Your problem is insecurity and inferiority complex not to mention jealousy as well,according to you,both you and the supposed ex girlfriend of his are based in england and he is in nigeria so kini big deal. So because he does not flag ur pix on his dp as often as you do or expect means he doesn't care abi?I have never for once put the pix of my babes on mma dp except during their/her birthdays or if you are a new catch u know na.
In conclusion just be urself and and don't over work urself because I foresee a terrible heartbreak on your side if you continue like this and to be honest with you they are still together. S just play cool and do ur thing. Distance in this context is a barrier.

thank you very much, ur right mayb i shld just go wit d flow, nd i usually think dat guys dat dnt put dere girl on his dp is cheating or has sma1 else he is hiding her from, but i might be wrong now. thanks
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my boyfriend and I had an argument concerning his ex girlfriend. basically they still talk and stuff, and we once broke up for a short period of time and during that time this girl hs been putting things up on her BB STATUS, "I MISS MY BOO" and put pics of this my boyfriend up! (i dnt hv her on blackberry but i knw sme1 who hv her as a contact, so she munch screen for me) i wasnt too bothered bcus we were nt together den. but now dat we are bck together, i asked him if he dey were still dating, and he said no. i bought it up randomly again, nd this time he got angry and said i do not trust him and stuffs. d next day i texted him telling him dat am sorry for making dat assumptions. Eventually we went bck to normal. but am still concerns as i still think dere are things he isnt telling me, or dey might be together. to make it worst, he is in Nigeria and an in d uk, dis his ex gf is here aswell. he is 23 and am 19, he is a lot smarter dan me and i know this, so i dnt want to be taken for a mug. i know he truly cares about me, and i do care about him aswel. he doesnt put me up on his dp like i use to put him up. so am guessing dere is sme1 else. my question is how do i tel him about this, cus i want to be very open and straight forward with him. Also do you think d girl is just putting stuff on her dp cus, well i dnt understand how sm1 in dere right mind would say things like dat to sm1 who isnt dere man!

thanks in advance guys x!

even my step sister said he is a very good guy and all, d onl problem is wot her friend( d boys ex gf) would say or think, i dnt really care about her because they are not together anyomre, how can i make my sister understand, because she seems not to.

thank u guyz for d advice, @killz, if i didnt like him i dont think i would go through all this hassle

i know her because of my step sister, but we are not friends, she is my step sis friend, but i do talk to her onces in a while whenever i see her.

me and my step sister's friend, ex boyfriend likes each other, we talk all the time and we realise that we like each other a lot, but because of my step sister and her friend we thought it wasn't a good idea to continue this relationship, but we still really like each other and we still talk a lot, without my step sister knowing. but i decided to tell her, because it wasn't a good idea to keep this from her, and she said NO, that she know the kinda person her friend is (the boys ex gf) and i should delete him 4rm ma bb nd all. my step sister talk to him as well.  the guy is 23 and am 19, and i really like him and i kknowhe feels d same way, he is flying back to meet me in the UK so we can talk about it.

what can i say to my step sister to make her realize where am coming from?
and do you gguysthink it is a good idea to cut contact with him, when we really like each other?
i really want to be with him

thanks guyz your replys was helpful *wink*

She is not my friend but I do know her because she is my sister's friend. Plus d guy himself is not saying nothin to ma sister bcus they ususally talk every now and den. And no am not in nigeria am in d uk(for d person saying sis are sharin man in naija)I am only scared bcus his ex is not over him yet, nd she wil prob go mad if she realise he want to move on.

i dont know if i shld tell my sister, because when she was him on my bb, she was like, why did he add you, so i told her that we are just friends.

i need serious advice here, he is about 5years older than me and he has dated my sister's friend before. i dunno if i should go out with him or not. plus i cant discuss this with my sister because he once dated her friend. to give a clear picture, he is 23 and am 19. i didn't know he dated my sister's friend before i started liking him. i only found out through our conversation.