₦airaland Forum

Sometimes it takes as little as a listening ear and a functioning dick to keep her with you.

sekundosekundo:
Reaping what he sowed.

Some of the critics are even more confused than him

Nigerians are impossible people. Stays in Abuja to attend to national matters trouble, visits Ondo to campaign wahala. Wetin Una want sef

Allahu Akbar

wetin he do

CHRISTIANS ARE VERY TERRIBLE PEOPLE. THEY CREATE PROBLEMS WHERE THERE ISNT ANY AND START TROUBLE WHERE THERE ISNT ANY. WHO TOLD YOU THEY WANT TO DO THAT? MAY GOD PUNISH ALL THE TROUBLE MAKERS. MAY GOD FEED YOU ALL THE HATE YOU HAVE FOR ISLAM. AND MAY YOU ALL BE CONSUMED BY THE HATE.

CHRISTIANS ARE PAEDOPHILES AND ENGAGE IN ALL SORT OF INCEST. THATS WHAT THEY ARE THOUGHT IN THE BIBLE.

CHRISTIANS AND THEIR TROUBLE. THEY ARE THE PROBLEM WITH THIS NATION.

CHRISTIANS ARE THE PROBLEM WITH THIS WORLD

CHRISTIANS ARE THE TROUBLE WITH THIS NATION. THEIR HATE WILL PERISH THEM.

ejilife:
Your ignorance is truly capable of winning Olypmic gold medal. Which niGERian known law has the man broken to be made persona non grata in your so called Sophiscated South West? So, out of a sudden even those that accused him on writing the name of Buhari on both side of the Dog who can't even provide a common poorly taken picture of the Dog to prove their accusation should now be taken seriously for claiming that the trader asked that the Dog should be killed and eaten? The trader made it know that it is his alien accuser that killed the Dog when he was detention. FYI, the biggest mistake the govt of the dullard of Daura made was laying hands on Nnamdi Kanu. The coming months will prove it to you. Just watch and see! But remember to give me the credit when it happens.. f

This is insanity. The greatest threat to humaniinty is the ignorant claiming knowledge. Google Aleppo in Syria. I pray God preserves all of you evil people drumming war songs to face the full wrath of a war. slowpoke tribalist.

Has it stopped the attacks? Since their hostility towards law abiding Muslims has there been a reduction in terrorist attacks? Islamophobia isnt the way forward. Hate can only bread hate. Terrorism started after you started invading people killing their fathers and raping their mothers and sisters. I wish we could all face the problem of hate instead of festering it. Hate Islam all you like, ours is still the one and only way.

Cute makeover

It's not today that we know Christians are intolerant fanatics. If they like let them wear agbada to school nobody gives a Bleep. Bunch of retards and trouble makers.

queencalipso:
Better not to feel the love at all. bcz if you do, pray, tell you never get heart broken, then you will know that some things can be more painful than loosing a loved one to death.

Deep.

DeLioncourt:
You don't have to be in a relationship to love.

So it's not possible...except you're living with rats or dead people.

Love is subjective...nobody can define it for you.

but the romantic feeling is empty.

Paulakosu:
I believe one thing, relationships are not meant for everybody, so just live your life the best you can.

Thanks

faruz:
sure its possible.........

and can yo go ahead and still marry such a person?

Paulakosu:
I'm not in your. To find someone you love & who at the same time loves you back is even more difficult. Besides, I no longer believe love exists.

Un returned love is also a problem but we were meant to beleive that we need to have a certain level of affection for a person before we marry them.

Paulakosu:
Op, what if I told you dat love is a mirage ?

Mirage? Why do you think so? Are you in my shoe?

vchykp:
some months ago a man of God helped someone with thesame problem, its spiritual, go to a powerful man of God

Thanks. I wil work on it. Godbless

lilyqueen:
It is possible . Ask God to guide you so you won't fall in love with the wrong person.

I have started putting it in prayers. But is it possible to marry someone you don't have romantic love for and still live happily ever after?

Oma307:
Thou shall not tempt me to say what i dont want to say

Funny reply. Nobody is forcing you

Ignorance is indeed expensive.

Good day ladies and gentlemen. I have been disturbed by the above question for the better part of a month now that I find it necessary to share my experience with lovers and love experts in the house. Am a twenty-six year old male living in Nigeria. I am successful in my own little way because I have a job and I just concluded my masters programme in one of the leading universities. Life is good? Maybe, maybe mot. I have a problem, and it's simple, I have never felt anything strong for the opposite sex.
Don't get me wrong. I am attracted to their sexuality and all but I have never fallen in love with them. I could go days without calling a person that I am supposed to be in a relationship with and feel nothing. My first relationship was accidental because I did not ask her out, we just grew together and maybe when she found our I wasn't going to ask her out she asked me out. Am not saying this for any reason other than the fact that I didn't see her in a romantic way. How ever in order not to hurt her feelings we started dating. I broke her heart in the most cruel of ways and I never felt a prick.
Fast forward to now few relationships on the way and I can say with all certainty that I have never felt any love for the ladies. The irony is that I love my family members. The kind of love that makes your heart ache by the thought of loosing them, however I have never felt that way for any of thee ladies in my life at any time. This brings me to my conclusion. Is it possible to never feel love for the opposite sex? Is there a way out? Your advice will be well appreciated.

Joy1706:
What I'm driving at is this - while I'm struggling to make something out of my life and be highly successful, you as a man should be doing same. When we then come together, we'll have something positive to contribute to each other, and not just waiting for who'll come and build you.
One more thing, who your respect epp?

I don't know about you but I will marry I woman I respect, because real love has respect. Secondly, no one is too busy to help their partner grow except they have nothing to offer. Quick question, isn't there a thing your partner can do to make you grow? If yes, so are you selfish since you do not want to reciprocate? Thats typical Nigerian girl mentality. Always looking for what they can get not ready to give.

Joy1706:
Why should you wait for a woman to come and build you? Who'll build her while she sacrifices to build you?

A person who does not have any positive contribution in my life has no right whatsoever to my greatness. It's a partnership not a one way traffic and if as a lady you do not have any contribution to my success please park well. The wretched mentality of only lurking when the work is done is part of the reasons Nigerian ladies cannot have my respect.

I can't say all Nigerian girls are trash because I have a mother and a sister and hope to have a wife and a daughter, however most girls I have interacted with have shown a great sense of impatience that cannot allow them build a man. Forget bright future, most of them are blinded by material things and are not ready to help a man grow. It is rare to see a Nigerian babe that is ready to suffer with you. They only sit down and expect to enjoy the fruits of your Labour without any help whatsoever. They are gold diggers, sluts, lazy, materialistic and demonic. Some will even bring you down spiritually if you entangle with them. They have made a lot of promising guys useless and they won't stop anytime soon. They should change for the better before coming here to say nonesence about respect. I cant respect people who do not respect themselves.