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Sirmwill:

Okay
Sorry if it felt somehow

I typed all of these here because of any other person who reads what you said and have a similar reason or any reason at all to not forgive anyone 🙏

The time u took to respond to this would have been used to respond privately.

Sirmwill:
OP Amingol


Jesus said

"Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us"

Except you are perfect and sinless

If you don't do the simple act of forgiving, your sins are really not going to be forgiven

A woman who was totally seen as a sinner by everyone came to Jesus and applied oil to his feet with her hair.It was a way for her to show love to Jesus and for this she was forgiven all her "much sins"
See what Jesus said at the ending

"I tell you, her sins-- and they are many-- have been forgiven, for she has shown me much love. But a person who is forgiven little shows only little love." (Luke 7: 47)

Pls reach me privately and all stop these. Pls.
This isn't how to counsel someone

Sirmwill:
OP Amingol

OP!

Do you love Jesus?
Do you know what actually can make Jesus love you

Jesus said
21. Whoever has my commandments and keeps them, he it is who loves me. And he who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and manifest myself to him." 22. Judas (not Iscariot) said to him, "Lord, how is it that you will manifest yourself to us, and not to the world?" 23. Jesus answered him, "If anyone loves me, he will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him. (John 14: 21-23)

I believe u can see what I'm sending to you?
U can se ur notifications

Sirmwill:
Hey Op Amingol

Are you a Christian?

Yes

correctyourself:
Two of you are not different because he was arrested for such offense and you had the mind to keep it away from his parents, why should they trust and allowed you into their house with such mind, again who knows what he has done again that he is stranded?

For me i would move far away from you.

Lemme block u ASAP

okoIYAyin:
If you're located in Ibadan, or can move to Ibadan. PM me, I have an opportunity that could change your life.

We should be mindful of the things we promise.
You were going to send me a VN to explain everything. Since then, u never bothered to keep to these words. Its not funny sir .

Integrity is very important!

Please, the intent of this post is NOT to Garner sympathy or pity. No.

Some years ago, my cousin(Male) who also doubled as a close friend betrayed and severed our brotherhood. And I vowed Never to have anything to do with him again.
His father was my Dad's elder brother and was a bit wealthy but passed on about 7yrs ago due to heart failure. Though I lost my own dad 12 years before my uncle's demise. I was meant to live with him and his family after my dad's death but it later didn't work out because of the terrible woman he Married. The woman hates every member of her husband's family & would stop at nothing to get rid of you if you try to go close.
9 years ago, my cousin almost went to jail, he was at the police headquarters in my state for 3weeks. What was his offence?. A gun was found in his car. He was arrested at a party alongside five of his friends. The police put all the five friends, including my cousin in their van. And when they arrived the station, the claimed to have found a gun inside my cousin's car. All his friends denied owning the Gun, so the police concluded that it was the owner of the car that owned the Gun. The next day, two of his friends were bailed out, two days later, another friend was also bailed by his people. At a point only cousin was left in the cell(Dark Cell). Being his closest cousin, he had to phone me & informed me. He told me not to tell his mum who was in another part of the state. So, I didn't inform anyone. Everyday, I was going to check on him with food & other items. The transport alone was something else. I would lie to my boss just to get permission and leave for the station to see him. The IPO in charge of the case would call me to demand for bribe so they would kill the matter to avoid been taken to the court. IPO would say I should "Water the ground". I emptied my savings as a result. No family member heard about this.
An idea dropped on me at this point, and I asked, "Why was the car not searched at the scene where u guys were arrested" ?. Also, why did none of his friends sit in the car with the police? So it was possible that the policemen planted the Gun in the car. Eventually we hired a Lawyer and took the case to court, we won. When he came out, he knelt down and was thanking me for standing by him. I almost got locked for defending him.
In the end, he confessed to me that he was the owner of the Gun cos he's a cultist. But at the time of this incident, I did know he was a cultist.

The Main Issue:
Three years after this incident, I became stranded, had no place to stay. I was at level Zero. I had been thrown out of my apartment. I was schooling and working, and had no funds left after paying my fees. I have no parents as well. No elder ones either. I ran to take refuge in my cousin's mansion which his late father built, but he refused. His mum refused. I knelt down and begged, but no way. Even the village elders told the wife to allow me live with them but the woman influenced the son not to allow me in. That point, I felt like my life had ended. I was hopping from one friend's house to another each night. I wasn't even bathing. I would bathe today and bath next in two days time. I was frustrated with life. Had to sell my Android phone to feed. I began to work as a garage tout to get daily money ahead of sch resumption. I was so bitter that I vowed never be called his cousin again.
Today, myself and him are in an entirely new state. Same state. He's stranded and has nowhere to live. He's on the streets now. He has called and sent messages apologizing for what happened many years ago. I don't pick his calls and I don't reply his msgs Either. I've tried to let the past go, but I totally can't. This is a guy that you can be with him this night and he would be traveling to another far away state/city and he will not tell you about his trip. Then, when u go to visit his house the next morning and u ask about him, they will tell u he has just travelled to Lagos. He did this twice , then I began to ask myself so many questions. Imagine how stupid I would look before everyone considering how close we were.
I was deeply hurt by people that should love me, I was never loved as a child and somehow, it had a psychological and mental impact on me. I lost all confidence in humanity. I see people as wicked. I concluded that since I don't have parents, I'm just the only one left in this entire world. It is me against the world. I haven't made it yet, I'm still struggling. But thank God I have a decent accommondation to sleep in. My background has made me to turn an introvert. I don't have a close friend. I don't trust people. I don't believe in relationships. I can't open up to people. I see everyone as betrayer.
The Most painful part was that same cousin threw my Bag out of the house. I already took my travel bag with clothes there, kept them in the parlor and waited outside till himself and the mum returned from where they went, he saw my bag and threw it out. This hurt me badly.
My only desire and prayers now is for God to connect me to the right people so I can get a job and enjoy every fruit of my hard labor over the years. I have suffered a lot right from birth as if I was cursed. I've been through a lot over the years and I wish I could get the necessary support from you. Support to Help improve my life and general wellbeing.
Thank you to everyone. God bless you all.

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Kizolalah82:
Good morning family.
My child will be one year soon i am thinking of the first gift(toy).
I have considered few items.

1…origimo 16 opad
2…baby car
3..what do you feel I should buy please less than 130k
Thanks

God bless your child sir .
May God grant him or her more years in Good health and prosperity.
The world will celebrate your child .

Pls sir do something for me. Country hard

Sadly, No Insurance cover.

These Chinese men can be inhuman at times

makavalley:
See how comment was deleted 🙄

Good evening

Too much Egusi soup, I guess

sweetval:
I have just read the news here in America. What does where you are matter?

I wonder o 😂😂

Markets should be reopened please

Ponmoalata:
No wonder Paul said he doesn't suffer for a woman to teach..

Women no suppose dey in any leadership position.

Dey don turn everything to gossip

Pls check mail

makavalley:
Lack of contentment

Good morning Sir, u can check ur mail now

makavalley:
nelsboug@gmail.com

Ok

onadana:
When death comes it comes.It was time.Early hours of yesterday morning around 3am I got up to ease myself in the restroom and I slipped the previous night I took a drug to make me sleep to ease my severe migraine and lower my blood pressure.The effect of the drug was so powerful it made me so drowsy I collapsed in the restroom and hit my head on the bathtub.If I had hit my head on the toilet sit it would have been fatal it would have been all over with a smashed skull.When death comes,it comes.Now we live on.

Oh my God. Sorry about this. I hope you are fine now?

God bless VDM and all generous people out there.
God pls cause ur favor to shine upon me. I have labored all my life, from childhood to adulthood without a family to lean on. God pls take away this hardship from me. Bless the works of my hands.
Imagine going to bed on an empty stomach and waking up the next day without hope.?

God is this your will for me?
God, this wasn't the agreement we had.

makavalley:
Whats up with you

I sent u some PMs but u weren't responding

I thought they wanted to call it KASONGO

jmoore:
1,000 shops times 700k.

Ok

Sheuns:
If this is true. That’s over 700M naira paid by some of the traders.

How did you arrive at 700milliion Sir?