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Etizz:
Lol.......Its high time we know that people don't disappear how much more animals.......

People don't disappear, believe what you believe.



Edited I guess

henryobinna:
there's a funny thing about traditions.

It doesn't matter if you like give her out the Congolese way, long as she's Esan she has to be given out their way because she belongs there. It's the same everywhere, unless bad people no remember you. Some don't even need bad people, the traditional issues would kick off almost immediately.

Don't advise people to take a route you know you won't take, don't use someone as a human Guinea pig just because he's seeking for advice.

He should go to an Esan/Uromi person he knows who is older and properly table his issues before them, they're in a better position to address this not some dumb Nairalanders that think everybody's tradition is a topic they must have a say in.

good luck to him, his in-law and his sister.

midehi2:


I am just finding courage to laugh, i just lost my dad yesterday, everyone still grieving, have been playing games, other things to stop thinking about my dad, i want to rest my swollen eyes, can i even stop

midehi2:
Since he don't want family member, he should forget pride price na with that according to esanland she's not married yet

midehi2:
This is just the best advice, but many people are deceiving the op here, they can't tell him the truth cos they don't know

Slimmy0:
You are the blind one here. I said he shouldn't give her out according to Essan traditional rites if her family membrrs are not involved. If you must give her out do it the church way or court way or even yoruba way. But not Essan way.

perryy:
I don siddon. But u will remember this day. Esan is the only place where they exhume corpse for proper burial when wahala start to dey shelle. I just pity the lady shall. She better have kids before getting married. Hmmmmmm. Esan , forget us when it comes to tradition jare.

perryy:
. As an Esan man, if u don't meet family members now, in the future u and your sister MUST surely look for them. Don't argue, just mark my words. Esan no be Yoruba oooo. I told my ex wife about Esan tradition but she waved it off and went into adultery, but at the end , she knew what she saw.

zealousB:
Check Ojota

Richdad50:


A so called wife you were living with long before you went for INTRODUCTION. No marriage survives this kind of foundation. This boy will grow weary of this girl before time.

Cohabitation before marriage is cancerous to a blissful union. It destroys the thrills of courtship and snaps out the joy that comes with starting a new home.

Richdad

healthserve:
Really?

Haryanaaisha:
I have available cash of 1.5M and before my next harvesting begins I have no means to use cash offering a loan with interest please email me aishaharyanaa@gmail.com

SenecaTheYonger:
It's your phone for christ sakes. It's your money. No one has any right to demand that you show them your phone, except EFCC of course. But nothing concerns an Anti-Robbery with your mobile phone. Most people don't even know what SARS means