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DeltaBachelor:
Itis also a very good idea. More like a “go fund me” with freewill, not forced. You will go places. Kudos!

Nice one

letskeeptalking:
I guess my real question is: knowing what you know now, would you make the same choice again?

I’m currently on the verge of divorce after 15 years of marriage and three kids.. Even though this is my decision, I feel like I have no real choice. My husband (if I can even call him that) says he doesn’t want to lose his family, but he does absolutely nothing to show it.

A lot has happened over the years, and it’s reached a point where I genuinely believe there is no future for us as a couple.

So I feel like I have two options: divorce him and move forward as a single mother… or stay, knowing I could never love him again.

I worry about my kids and how growing up with parents in a loveless marriage might shape their future relationships and choices. But then I also wonder, would they be better off growing up with a single mother?

I’m not concerned about stigma or even about finding another partner someday. Honestly, the way I feel right now, I’m ready to remain celibate for life.

If you’ve gone through this, can you please share your experience?
Do you regret your choice?
Looking back, would you make the same decision again?

It is quite challenging what you are going through. This was not what you signed for, but this is where you are. I would advise that in the face of these challenges and pains that you remain calm.

If both of you have tried everything and it still does not work, separation should be the next step. It is better for both of you to stay apart but alive than trying to stay together and lose it all.

Don't worry so much about the kids. They will understand better when come of age. It is going to be a long journey no doubt but you will be fine. There is actually no short cut to come out of it but try and have a healthy mindset.

Shey na d same Naija gal wey no fit do her hair with her full money without asking her guy for reimbursement go come go pay for accommodation.

In Naija, our gals are just too greedy. It is only a very few that are different. Anybody that wants to argue over this is doing so for fun sake.

pocohantas:
Indeed. On social media there are no struggling married men, but let women say they want financially stable men and suddenly these kinda men would go extinct.

Poco u no go understand. The world is made up of different class of people.

You have been a lady all your life and as such you will never understand how men reason

pocohantas:
Since you are guys are sure it is married men paying their rent. Maybe these men should focus more on their families because I don't understand how you go 50-50 with your wives, only to give your spare to sidechicks.

It does not affect them financially in anyway. These are not struggling married men. They take good care of their family extremely well. They are not dragging bill sharing formula with their wives ohhhh. 😂

Kalulu44:
When I dey always talk say majority of the hustle of we guys are for them ladies, una think say na joke

Na true u talk. Na guys dey fund most of the ladies lifestyle.

Those apartments are being paid for by men. How many Naija gals fit pull out 1.5m to pay for accomodations. Go to Lekki and co to see what I'm talking about. I know about 5 ladies whose apartments were paid for by men and these men are married men.

No ask me how I take know ohhhh

These vacancies are still available.

I have a manufacturing company(Air Freshener) and we need the following set of staff:

1. Production Staff (2)
Job Description: You help out in the daily production process. Knowing how to use Heat Gun Sealing Machine is an added advantage.

Qualification: OND/O'LEVEL

2. Assistant Production Manager (1)
Job Description: You work directly with the Production Manager to ensure that daily targets are met.
Qualification: OND.

BENEFITS:
1. Daily transport allowance (It is added to your salary at the end of the month)
2. Free lunch on Monday, Wednesday and Friday
3. 13th month salary at the end of the year.

Location: 15, Olakunle Street Papa Ajao Mushin Lagos. The building behind the Mosque which is No. 17.

Contact: 08061352480 - calls/WhatsApp

Note: You must live within Mushin.

FreeStuffsNG:
Don't start your first car on such high budget

Go for a well-maintained, Nigerian used, old model like year 2000 model Toyota corolla or Mitsubishi sedan car and invest the difference you save in Treasury bills or shares. Car is a liability so don't rush into it

You will use the more affordable car to acquire experience and maintenance budgeting. You will also learn basics of car and tricks of technicians with such easy to maintained car.

Trust me, you will have scratches more frequently and it will cost less to fix with such car models

You've spoken well. Maybe one day, I will share my experiences as a first time car owner. The experiences can't be bought. I'm glad that I didnt buy a very expensive car as a first timer.

@Op, I think you should heed his advise.

GodThankYou:
pm me.. we just started business, if you know someone in need of this type of cars let us know, Chassis and everything is in great shape

The man is asking you to put price here. You are talking about starting business new. What really is the big deal in publishing price along with the items?

Ijoba85:
You are really penguin, oya go and make Tinubu lose Abuja. You think 2023 would be like 2027, dey play. Jagaban has touched every geopolitical zone. Corp members are collecting 77k , you can go to the university on loan from FG so you don't say you have nobody to send you to school over school fees. You guys should forget 2027, Tinubu has won already. Prepare for 2031

Why are you dancing naked in the market Square?

ObaOfYorubaLand:
Airpeace only. Argue with your keypad.

Enemies of Nigeria will soon come to say otherwise.

Someone is asking for a reliable airline and you get mind mention air peace. 😆 🤣

Ibom Air is reliable.

Your car looks well maintained. Nice ride. Happy sale.

They should have used the money for the phones to pay those who have applied for refund for more than a year now after their flights were cancelled

Why are they all looking so unhappy. They may end up killing themselves. Very pathetic situation

IamANigerianMan:
Satap making excuse for criminals, death by firing is the only solution to today's crime

How could you miss out those solutions that he clearly outlined?

Firing squad alone can't solve the problem.

nedekid:
Any update on the TV and dickstore?

The guy has not responded. He is a bad fellow. I will get him soon.

flokii:
I'm still trying to figure out how a party with only 1 Governor out of 36 States and FCT can be claiming they won 2023 Presidential election.. una be wetey o.

Okupe should stop stressing himself.. no vacancy in Aso rock till 2031.

Are you aware that if the Governorship Election had happened the same day with the Presidential Election that many Governors from the PDP/APC would have lost their slots?

Jagznation:
have you sorted the issue out with him?

No.

Can I get this bus in Lagos or Benin-Edo State

Brand: Fiat or Duraco(J5)
Engine Type: Diesel
Model: 2000-2003
Body Type: Long Frame(Boxer)
Condition: Toks

My budget is 5.5m

DRICKSTORE WHERE IS MY TV?

I saw his Smart Tv advert here in the month of August this year(2024). I contacted him and we concluded on the price and the delivery process. Due to the nature of my work, I told him that I don't have time to be calling him to report issues that he should bring me a good TV. He gave me the assurance that he would give me a good product.

He brought the TV as promised and I paid - 220,000. He set it up and left. A few hours after he left, the TV went off on its own. I thought maybe it is low current issue, so I switch it off completely and went out. At night, when my kids wanted to watch their cartoon, the same issue came up. I still didn't bother that much. I put back the old TV for them.

I reached out to him about the issue and he asked me to get a power surge adaptor which I did, but the issue persisted. After some days of back and forth of trying to fix the issue with no solution, he sent his technician to come and pick it for a repair. The guy came and pick it. A day later, I called the technician to know what the issue is. He told me that the power board is bad and a replacement will be needed(it will cost 50,000) I reported same to drickstore. I told him that I will not pay for fixing it since I have not made use of the TV, he argued that I should be a part which I agreed to part with 20,000.

A few days later, I called back and the technician told me that he has fixed it. I called drickstore to inform him and also told him that I will pay the technician the 20,000 that I agreed on the day of pick up.

Surprisingly, from that day till this moment, it has been stories upon stories from both the technician and Drickstore. Recently, the technician told me the screen has broken.

I only brought in the technician into this report for the purpose of making a complete report. I really dont have any dealing with the technician as I was not the one that invited him.

Drickstore(Seun) be rest assured that you will be fished out as long as u are still here in this country. It may take time, but you see that 220,000. You will not go free with it. You will pay for it.

08185993014 drickstore number

Thank you all.

DRICKSTORE WHERE IS MY TV

I saw his Smart Tv advert here in the month of August this year(2024). I contacted him and we concluded on the price and the delivery process. Due to the nature of my work, I told him that I don't have time to be calling him to report issues that he should bring me a good TV. He gave me the assurance that he would give me a good product.

He brought the TV as promised and I paid - 220,000. He set it up and left. A few hours after he left, the TV went off on its own. I thought maybe it is low current issue, so I switch it off completely and went out. At night, when my kids wanted to watch their cartoon, the same issue came up. I still didn't bother that much. I put back the old TV for them.

I reached out to him about the issue and he asked me to get a power surge adaptor which I did, but the issue persisted. After some days of back and forth of trying to fix the issue with no solution, he sent his technician to come and pick it for a repair. The guy came and pick it. A day later, I called the technician to know what the issue is. He told me that the power board is bad and a replacement will be needed(it will cost 50,000) I reported same to drickstore. I told him that I will not pay for fixing it since I have not made use of the TV, he argued that I should be a part which I agreed to part with 20,000.

A few days later, I called back and the technician told me that he has fixed it. I called drickstore to inform him and also told him that I will pay the technician the 20,000 that I agreed on the day of pick up.

Surprisingly, from that day till this moment, it has been stories upon stories from both the technician and Drickstore. Recently, the technician told me the screen has broken.

I only brought in the technician into this report for the purpose of making a complete report. I really dont have any dealing with the technician as I was not the one that invited him.

Drickstore(Seun) be rest assured that you will be fished out as long as u are still here in this country. It may take time, but you see that 220,000. You will not go free with it. You will pay for it.

08185993014 drickstore number

Thank you all.

TheWinterBird:
He scammed you. I'm sure he knew he sold you a bad tv. You shouldn't have paid any further money to fix it either. He should've paid the technician, as that was his responsibility as the seller, not yours. So now your money and tv are gone. At this point, OP, you should ask for your money back (the 220,000 you paid him +20,000 you paid the technician) back. Do you have receipts?

Go to the Police if you must. I don't like scammers.

Drickstore (https://www.nairaland.com/drickstore), why did you scam this man like this? Do the right thing and return his money.

I have not yet paid the technician the 20k as such was to be paid at the point of picking up the TV. I have all the documents for the transaction.
Thanks for your input

Foodqueen:
Copy one of his thread here, or u go and comment on one of his thread, so that people will be aware of what's going on.

I will do that. Thank you

He may not say anything here.

I saw his Smart Tv advert here in the month of August this year(2024). I contacted him and we concluded on the price and the delivery process. Due to the nature of my work, I told him that I don't have time to be calling him to report issues that he should bring me a good TV. He gave me the assurance that he would give me a good product.

He brought the TV as promised and I paid - 220,000. He set it up and left. A few hours after he left, the TV went off on its own. I thought maybe it is low current issue, so I switch it off completely and went out. At night, when my kids wanted to watch their cartoon, the same issue came up. I still didn't bother that much. I put back the old TV for them.

I reached out to him about the issue and he asked me to get a power surge adaptor which I did, but the issue persisted. After some days of back and forth of trying to fix the issue with no solution, he sent his technician to come and pick it for a repair. The guy came and pick it. A day later, I called the technician to know what the issue is. He told me that the power board is bad and a replacement will be needed(it will cost 50,000) I reported same to drickstore. I told him that I will not pay for fixing it since I have not made use of the TV, he argued that I should be a part which I agreed to part with 20,000.

A few days later, I called back and the technician told me that he has fixed it. I called drickstore to inform him and also told him that I will pay the technician the 20,000 that I agreed on the day of pick up.

Surprisingly, from that day till this moment, it has been stories upon stories from both the technician and Drickstore. Recently, the technician told me the screen has broken.

I only brought in the technician into this report for the purpose of making a complete report. I really dont have any dealing with the technician as I was not the one that invited him.

Drickstore(Seun) be rest assured that you will be fished out as long as u are still here in this country. It may take time, but you see that 220,000. You will not go free with it. You will pay for it.

08185993014 drickstore number

Thank you all.

gofigurena:
Hi again, everyone. I'm happy to announce that despite the fears and my mistake, everything turned out perfectly fine. Won't be heading back to the East today because we concluded late. Will take off morrow morning.

Congratulations bro

Barbiturate:
He didn't back out. He was contemplating. Now he has agreed and he has made it even more easier. You drop 100 and he drops 300.....which is fair.

You can do this bro. You're a big boy! Don't mind anybody.....just go ahead and pick someone

But the guy no get the 100k na. How him wan take do am.

@Corner, abeg forgive Jackson ohhhh. He was only playing with u ohhh. He didn't mean it. Abi u no wan make Jackson go village this Christmas if him take all him money do giveaway.