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brain54:
She was also schooling...


In a private school. The fees are expensive.


Maybe she had other commitments and responsibilities with her money.

I believe she was working two jobs for a reason!

Samantha125:
No, I haven't and I'd like to believe that I'm also clean and hygienic because people used to compliment me back in varsity regarding how neat my bathroom was at all times and how nicely put my closet was as well... I also wash my pots and plates immediately after using them because I know that I might get lazy to wash them later on... I don't keep a pile of dirty underwears, I wash each underwear after bathing, I bathe and brush my teeth twice in a day.

And since I'm not a morning person, I usually clean the house in the evening before I go to sleep... So yeah, I haven't dated any dirty person before, I'd be lying if I say I did... My husband is the cleanest man I've ever seen and I'm very much thankful for that.

brain54:
I dated this beautiful yellow sisi nurse girl one time...

The day I visited her I was shocked. Never imagined anyone so dirty.

Cooking pots were literally on her bed. Her room was so dirty with everything out of place and order.

Scattered items everywhere I am sure she hadn't cleaned her room for like a year.

She was just shoving dirty laundry away from everywhere so I could find somewhere comfortable to sit.

Her room was a huge contrast to her looks.

In her defense though I never asked her...she was working two shifts at two different hospitals and still schooling (one of those medical course upgrade they do) at a private university in ogun state at the same time.

I don't know how she was able to combine all of that. But girl was always so tired she was always yawning and falling asleep during conversations.

That alone made me overlook her dirty habits.

But the straw that broke the camels back was falling asleep while kissing with her. As in falling into a trance(that's not sleep abeg) and even letting out loud groaning sounds that could pass as snoring.

At that point....!

BlackMenDumb:
This your number 2 point, I don't really understand it.
Please what do you mean by that?

Gerrard59:
Many Nigerian men, especially those in the south, find it hard to accept the reality that the ideology behind "we are polygamous by nature" fuels the hookup trade, and as such, it would be difficult to have virgins. We cannot have men who pursue teens complain in five years time that there are no virgins. As long as men hunt for women to have sexual pleasure without marrying them, there will be an equal number of women who aren't virgins. These women don't sleep with themselves.

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PurityOrNothing:
Purity Or Nothing Global Movement

DAILY PURITY DIGEST


Four Simple Ways To Avoid And Overcome Sexual Insubordination

"Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak." Matthew 26:41

THE PURE WORD:

We all should already know that sin is deadly and fatal. Sin has immediate consequences (which hurt one's body while still on earth) and eternal consequences (sending one to eternal damnation in hell). Therefore, every human who loves him/herself should be committed to avoid committing sin. We all should strive living a sinless life, overcoming sin (you overcome satan when you overcome sin).

As humans, we are always prone to falling into sin (due to our inherited Adamic nature). Therefore, we always rely on God's Grace. Nevertheless, we were told in the above scripture passage (Matthew 26:41) to "Watch". This simply means that, even while relying on God's unfailing Grace to overcoming sin, we also have our own parts to play.

Here are four simple ways that helps.

1. AVOID PEOPLE THAT CAN MAKE YOU COMMIT SEXUAL SIN

Not every human you see around are 'ordinary human'. A lot are satanic agents used continuously by satan to make people fall into temptation and sin. Many handsome guys and beautiful ladies you see out there are directly working for satan. They are from the marine kingdom, they have familiar evil spirits, evil witches and wizards, belongs to demonic occultic societies, etc. You won't recognize them easily (except if you've got The Holy Spirit in you). Also, many other humans aren't from the marine world, neither are they in evil societies, but they are indirectly working for satan. How? Their lifestyle is making many people fall into temptation and sin. You need to avoid them.

Avoid people who encourages you to sin. Avoid relationships and associations that makes you sin (boyfriend-girlfriend relationships, bad friends, etc). Avoid people who are not God-fearing and sees nothing wrong with doing bad things. Don't make friends with those whose lifestyle is not in conformity with God's Word: The Bible.

Instead, be God-fearing, and make friends with God-fearing Christian brethrens. They will always influence you positively.

2. AVOID THINGS THAT CAN MAKE YOU COMMIT SEXUAL SIN

If you are a spiritual person and God opened your spiritual eyes and reasoning, you will see that many of the things tagged 'innovation' today, are actually tools that were formulated in the realm of darkness to make people commit sin.

Avoid anything that makes you sin. Avoid porn/romance movies and books. Avoid secular ungodly songs, bad clothings, websites not giving Glory to God. Avoid anything making you commit sin. If the internet is what is bringing sin into your life, make a sacrifice, you should dump your internet-enabled phone and go for a phone without internet. Remember Jesus Christ said that it is better to cut an arm making one to sin and go to Heaven, than your whole body should burn in hell.

Instead, read the Bible often. Read good Christian books and other edifying materials. Watch Christian movies (they are superb). Enjoy listening to gospel songs (trust me, they will give you joy)

3. AVOID PLACES THAT CAN MAKE YOU COMMIT SEXUAL SIN

God is everywhere but He chose not to manifest everywhere. There are certain satanic-infested places with sin-odured atmospheres (club houses, brothels, lousy night parties, drinking bars, etc) that are satan's domain. God hates such places, and you being a child of God should hate them too and shouldn't be found there.

Instead, enjoy going to church. Go to Christian gatherings. Go to good seminars that can help you positively in life. Go to God glorifying places only.

4. AVOID SITUATIONS AND CIRCUMSTANCES THAT CAN MAKE YOU COMMIT SEXUAL SIN

Irrespective of your anointing, there are certain circumstances and situations that when you put yourself in them, it is extremely difficult not to commit sin. An example is when you are sleeping on the same bed with a member of the opposite gender who isn't your married spouse. Avoid being all alone in a closed place with members of the opposite gender. Avoid circumstances and situations that can make you sin.

I pray God will give you all victory over sin, satan, and this world. Amen.

*Confession:*

I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

NokiaN8:
Never marry a lady that is not brilliant or not working..

Axis313:
If I pick twenty pieces to cook at home,the manager no go miss anything.
Na where we day work,na there we dey chop.

Gerrard59:
Polygamous men still patronise sex workers and keep concubines. Polygamy does not stop a man from still going outside.

NwaAmaikpe:




Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.

How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.

You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?

Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.

So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.

If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.

Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.

As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.

To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.

If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.

FameGlory:
Please how can I stop my brother from marrying a very ugly girl?

Like she is crazily very ugly

I'm scared.

tensazangetsu20:
People always say the worst mistake a man can make is marrying the wrong woman. I actually feel that as a man it can only be the worse mistake if you allow it be the worst mistake in your life. Men have leverage and men can always walk away from any situation. Men easily abandon their wives and children and move on like nothing happened. Out of 10 men at random, 9 men will easily abandon their families and feel absolutely no guilt. It’s completely different for women. The worst mistake a woman will ever make in her life is marrying a bad man. I used to be so judgmental to women especially with how hypergamous and all they are but with what I have seen so far, women aren’t even brutal enough with regards to the choice of partners they have to make.

Look at my father, I have never seen someone in my life that is so useless. Honestly, I ask myself how my mom even married someone like that. It would have been better for her that she never married or she even became a single mother because that’s what she is. Would you believe that since I came to chile my father never sent me one dollar 😂😂😂. Your only son went to study in another country and you couldn’t even send him money. The money I used to come here was my savings from when I was working. If the fool dies today, family members will be disturbing me to perform rights as an only son for someone who never did anything for me. To think my story isn’t even unique. There’s so many like me and so many married women that are pretty much single mothers. So many Nigerian men are completely useless and that’s one of the reasons Nigeria can never get better. It’s not just the politicians. The average Nigerian man living in Nigeria is completely nothing to write home about. Completely useless and extremely stupid.

I also remember my neighbor. Very beautiful soul. Came from a middle class home and married a poor man for love. She lived in poverty until she died. It wasn’t even up to six months after her death this man was already showing another woman on his status. Her first son now steals and does yahoo. Her younger son was just expelled from secondary school for homosexuality. I just pray her daughter is alright. It’s not even up to a year and the man can’t even hold his family. Doesn’t drop any money at home doesn’t do anything. Not even a year. Like what was the point. Wouldn’t it have been better for her to never have gotten married at all

concho:
“ ….We also thank you for accepting us as your parents “

How ?

concho:
“ ….We also thank you for accepting us as your parents “

How ?

dreamxhaser:
Can you send a screenshot

dreamxhaser:
Can you send a screenshot

dreamxhaser:
$20 registration fee on Fiverr?

Never heard such! You sure it’s not those scammers?

dreamxhaser:
Guys I think y’all should look into Fiverr

Lowkey money Dey dat platform. I now rate it better than Upwork.

There is no stress of hunting clients or buying connects. Just run fiverr ads, turn on your briefs and wait for the magic.

No stress at all

In fact Upwork chop my $100 in connect this January and I only got a $20 job from a Pakistan who wants to Milk me.

I just quiet the contract and focused on my Fiverr! Guess what? In February I landed a 1k dollar contract.

folake4u:
You've been mentioning me for a while back to back and I've been ignoring you but it seems you aren't phased by that. I am bored tonight and will answer you.

These types of topics are way beyond your mental reach. I'd advice you stick to trolling on irrelevant/unintelligible conversations on Nairaland. That is your forte.

Eweeeehhhhh I hail you Folake forever your fan

eepeepook:
I’m surprised she can drop a healthy child at forty.

CoronaVirusPro:
Why it’s always good to never settle down with the lady you hustled with.

You only marrying her out of pity!

Cos when you got money, you will see better choices.

Just pay them off and move on with life.

tensazangetsu20:
AI generated car use with apple car play

folake4u:
You're not worthy of being the omelette chef to my eggs.

gabbyfarms:
u r right, i pray and hope our leaders see the blessings God have blessed us with and make good use of it for benefits of mankind.

gabbyfarms:
Dragon fruit cutting and seedlings (Red & yellow colour) is available, location: ibadan.