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What's your story? You'd agree with me that children who are subjected to prejudice, ridicule and emotional trauma develop negative coping strategies, and with time end up being rascally and hardened. If there's one thing I had always wanted to bring to limelight, it is the unjust treatment given to children on the grounds of appearance, gender, aptitude, skills and family expectations. It involves treating children adversely without any appropriate justification which tends to infiltrate on the child, a rigid form of mental disturbance.
Our world focuses largely on racial discrimination, but little is known about the scornful jocularity entertained by some parents on their wards, making them feel less of themselves. Family expectations, weight issues, academic prowess, gender identity and so much more are obvious trends that has placed so much dejectedness on a child's mental health. Its starts with favouritism - and that's treating a child better than others. While parents are trying to instill a sense of responsibility, this from of grooming should radiate equally among siblings.
A fine line between caring for a child and caring too much for the other are just dangers lurking around in their most insignificant form. This breeds resentment, envy and could lead to so much more - even death. Studies have shown and proved that children who grow up in a love themed atmosphere are liable to effect such feeling on others. The level of a child's empathy is determined by the appropriate parenting style used on the child. This serves as a mediator between the outside pressure and the child in question.
Proper parenting style spurs the intellectual development of a child from childhood to adulthood. Parents are saddled with the responsibility of looking out for their wards physically, mentally, emotionally and intellectually too. When a child is shouldered around a strong sensitization based on social class, equal preference and gainful knowledge on their uniqueness, these plausible features particularly influences the child's outcome. Rather than pointing the basic differences between a child and another, such parent should infuse that energy into resourceful propensities - an avenue adopted to rebuild an existing inferiority complex in such child.
Words spoken, attitudes from parent and actions taken could effect a child's behavioural pattern positively or otherwise. It is advised therefore that parent are sensitive enough to detect their child's behavioural pattern as this would help position them to profering expressive and satisfactory solutions to their ward's emotional demand. Children need love, support and all the appraisal there is to give. Even as adults, we all need to be understood, given all the thumbs up we deserve - even days we feel less of ourselves and our outcome is not so encouraging, it is exactly at that point we need all the push and drive to do better and then best.
A parenting style is indicative of the overall emotional climate in the home. Parents need to help children recognize instances of stereotyping, prejudice and discrimination.The media hovers around possible demands from everyone at a certain age, and this has given a rise to unnecessary self crucifixion, low self esteem and depression. That alone is enough to dampen a child's moral. It is then most of them need thier parents to infuse in them, confidence and respond to such social demands. Parents should praise the uniqueness and speciality of a child equally and respond to their questions accordingly. A child feels safe on the outside when he/she is secure from within. Yes, raising a happy child is challenging but it would pay off in the end. Every parent should read Laurence Steinberg's, 'The Ten Basic Principles of Good Parenting' and so many proper parenting books, podcast and what have you. Children are very senstive creatures and they observe and are learning how we do things. If they do things right, it is because we showed them the way it's done.
Parent need to be so much involved in their child's life and note even the tiniest detail. Be there for them mentally, be their for them physically. Define your terms and while doing that adopt the best value that would fit your child. What most parent are yet to understand is they can't be too loving. Accept your child's flaws and correct with love and while doing that, avoid harsh judgment and hurtful words. Make them realize what is wrong. Learn the apology skill and master the value of equal judgment between your wards. This is just the beginning of fostering a child's independence.

I'm amazed at the sudden change in the whole setting. It seems as much as we had our own plans at the beginning of the year, especially for those who do the resolution thing, the whole schedule is crumbling. Am I the only one who thinks the year 2020 is a perfect year to actually achieve some good fortune? For Academicians, Students, Business tycoons and even the regular Social worker must have worked towards putting some real good stuff in place. I wonder how these agreements and layout stopped at the moment of glorification. Maybe it's true the year had its own plan for us too--a major shocker.
There's so much pressure in the world at the moment, and to think the universe is so knitted in the webs and the hope of being free is so narrow. We are being concealed, and like the dark ages our fate is handing on one single energy--Blank Space.
Source:https://bossmeek.com.ng/2020/04/eclipse-of-the-century.html

As the world gradually heals from the recent corona virus pandemic (COVID-19), a new technology is currently on the rise and its large-scale adoption is extremely high. I can't imagine today that virtually service provider in the developed countries upgrading its techonological functionality to the fifth generation frequency spectrum. The subsequent denouement and concordance in these regions on its own is mind blowing and its simple capacity to run down existing technology is a proof of a launched idea.

Source: https://bossmeek.com.ng/2020/04/the-5g-wave-a-global-nightmare.html

My soul has travelled and swam deep into the ”dark brothers”, and at times, I’m left with almost no hope seeing the black race in misery. As invalid as some African myths may sound, the consequences of a strapped child falling off his mother’s back has ultimately left me with no steady psyche.

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