CrazyMan: Yes of a truth, you really need help.

I would suggest that you should ask God for forgivness cos homosexulity is a sin, then look for a beautiful lady. And I'm sure that as both of you get along, those natural feeling you said were gone when you're with the opposite sex, would begin to appear.

How do you suggest i get help? Have you ever had feelings for the same sex? if u have i will do what you just said and live a lie

The view is a lot different when you are in some 1s shoe

I dont remember where and why it started ... I wasn't molested by a wicked male relation or raped by a school mate

I fell madly in love with his swag, his charisma, his pride...
His dark toned skin and flawless smile drove me mad with lust
Just in junior secondary ... i stumbled and was tripping badly 4 my first CRUSH!
it wasn't the cute girl who sat besides me in class...or my heavily made up sexy young female teacher
I was head over heels in love with the most popular boy in school.

the only problem was ...

I was a boy!!!

Sick...Mad...Stupid...Idiot... Retarded...

you can look for all the insults to call me
better still You could make it more Nigerian

Ode...Malu...Ewu...Onye-ara

It didn't and I don't think now it would change the fact that I wanted/want to snap a picture of him and keep it in my most treasured place

I AM A GAY, I AM A gay, I AM A QUEER, I AM A BATTY BOY, I AM A HOMOSEXUAL, I AM A NIGERIAN

I have not tried to have sex with a woman. I have not dated a woman. i have not had a girlfriend

Then how do i know i am a gay?

before i answer Let me ask you this question?

Have you tried having sex with a person of the same sex? have you dated the same sex ? have you had a lovers relationship with the same sex ?

No? Why Not?

I dont feel a thing if i touch a girls cleavage? I get all hot and red if a guy (I like) takes of his shirt and reveals his bare chest

I barely notice a hot female model walking past me

I get dizzy if the guy I admire walks up to me and says Hi

Don't ask me if I wont get married or have children

I can get married, I can have children, but I am still gonna be liking the next male body in my sights

We don't chose our feelings We choose how we want to live life.

I can live a lie just for you My Nigeria, To serve Nigeria with all my Strength

I can lie to my wife and children, To uphold our Honour and glory , Nigeria

All For the Fatherland , All for my motherland, A lie is all I must live

So Help me...

What is Marriage in the 1st Place...
i think that is the 1st question that should be asked?

Wikipedia defines marriage as a social union or legal contract between people called spouses that creates kinship

it is a union that tells the public so and so persons are together

I am Gay for the record

I do not believe that I will 1 day walk down the wedding aisle with a man hand to hand

But 1 thing I know is I am attracted to Guys and not Girls

And when u say time for marriage? is there really any time 4 it..

In the north girls as young as 14 yrs get married and some women even get married when reaching their menopause.

Marriage is the thing that brings sanity to relationships and humanity.

it eliminates promiscuity

Gays every where are fighting for marriage equality ...to me i feel its not just about marriage but its about ACCEPTANCE

We want to be accepted for what we are, what our feelings are

you feel sick if you see 2 Males kissing... For Me I shudder in fear when i think of making love to a woman

You get angry when i say i am gay ... I get irritated when a girl is trying to flirt with me

I am a human and you are to, I am an individual and you are to , I have my own likes and you have yours to, I am gay and you are not

I want to be recognized with my own partner and you want to be recognized with your own wife ....

Thank you very much 4 paying attention

God Bless