Badgers14:


Hello dear.... Do not use any medicine, drugs or etc...

Check my response on the first page... It is a bit long but you will learn alot from that.

I talked to a Dr friend.. Graduated from university of Chicago medical school. Although.. He laughed at the
Responses here. Especially the ones that adviced u to go see a dr so they could break your hymen.

Nothing wrong with you sweetie.. He said jokingly, it might be dick phobia..once your V gets acclimated to penetration... You will feel alot better but the initial now is perfectly normal. Not only to virgins but women with a tight V and a guy with huge dong.. The lady will always feel that pain for a while.. Hymen have nothing to do with it.

Hmm. I hope so

Yieldings:
OP, the hymen is a thin membrane close to the front, so thickness isn't an attribute. Also, I'm not sure why you still call yourself a virgin. Since you're already having sex, you're no longer a virgin. Plus, your hymen is {likely} also broken. Exercise and sports alone can break some hymens, so it really isn't all that difficult to break. The pain you feel often comes when one starts having sex and because you've just started being active it's likely caused by tightness as well, but it should lessen overtime.

Pardon me for asking but I just can't help but be curious: Since you're going to get married in December, may I ask why you and your fiance couldn't wait?

Read where I said it just hasn't worked. If it did, I wouldn't have any reason to post this here. And yes, I know it's supposed to be thin but there are cases of some being thick so I dunno if I fall into that category.

carmag:


Don't be hot tempered you brought your case on public forum to get a solution so don't expect everyone to sing your praises, you should be open for bashing as well as possible solutions

I've recommend my own possible solution for you above, even the guys are more experienced in this regard as some of us had broken girls hymen more than once and still counting

cheers..

I'm not hot tempered. I'm just tired of people making the same statement you made . So what if previous guys spent one or two bucks on me, is that enough reason to give up sex like it's just a common thing. Anyway, if you must know. I'm not a leech. I have my own money

napa:
Just relax and try to take your mind off the pain, if possible drink a little red wine to get you in the mood and have lots of fore play then get a good lubricant though it might not be a day job but you'll finally get there. Pele and congrats in advance for your wedding. The pain is really no big deal, it's like that for some.

If I could relax. I wouldn't have brought this issue here

ItsQuinn:
Dont mind all these guys giving you wrong advice. You need to see a gynechologist or a doctor for your problem, they are the professionals not these guys on NL and they will give you professional advice for your problem

Thank you

carmag:


your ex you dated without sexual commitment hope there were no financial commitment from his part as well oder wise.............................?

Get off from here

bukitt:


U will go with hospital? Then where is d pride then n hopefully d same hospital will impregnate u when d time comes. U seem like a boring girl.

I said I'll consider it. And he who wears the shoe knows where it's pinching. So don't you worry yourself if you only want to judge

Sugarhugs:
If you can't bear the pain. Go to a hospital.
Tell the nurse or doctor your problem, tell them to make you sleep and let them break it for you. (That's what I did)
If you want to economize money.
Then get a sleeping drugs to knock you out and let your boyfriend deflower you by using his fingers since they are harder and stronger, he should bring the index and middle finger together and insert gently.. It will be easier for him instead of using his dick.

Tnx a lot for this. I'll consider it

donbenedict:
I decided to poke my finger into it...






Ur finger? why didn't u use cucumber?

Please do not make fun of a delicate issue. Tnx

carmag:
and this just remind me of why minimum of two years experience are preferred by employers

I have to mention that I don't regret in anyway keeping myself for hubby. When this is over, it will be a joyful thing for the rest of our lives. Cheers

Tnx for your responses. I think I should see a gynecologist to rule out any medical issues. Also, I heard about using lidocaine for numbing. I dunno how advisable it is

I decided to post this here cos I know there are a lot of matured and empathic people in this section. I'm a 25 year old Virgin due to get married December . I've dated guys before but we never got to that extent. I have to mention I've never had anything go down there before except when I tried to insert my tiny finger. There was some resistance but it went in eventually . Recently, I've been trying to have s*x with my fiancee but it just couldn't work. I don't want to give gross details but It practically felt like It was blocked or sth despite the whole lubricant and relaxation . He's a very loving man and patient with me. I was crying yesterday cos I was confused and wondering if sth is wrong with me. My friends said it was a bearable pain but I just couldn't bear it. Please, I need useful advice. Could it be that the hymen is too thick or sth else is wrong?