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RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 8:14pm On Oct 20, 2025
Juliearth:
He subconsciously put the phone there, hence when he cannot remember. When you are in a state of panic, your body secretes adrenalin. This might cause you to act irrationally, hence the reason why he asked you to search your bag and all that.


My point is that, it's like an honest mistake and you don't habe to end the relationship unless if he has other flaws that you cannot forego.
No it wasn’t a mistake dear, he knew what he was doing , that’s why I just want to know the motive behind it, he had this evil smile on his face while searching for the phone, like someone who knew what they were doing and that’s why I was more confused myself and had to sit down and just looking at him.
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 8:12pm On Oct 20, 2025
nnamdi640:
I pity you, because he his driving car doesn't garranty that he will make a better family, She rather date a guy without car but responsible than dating or marrying an irresponsible man just because the man has car and money at the end, she will regret.
That’s right.
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 8:10pm On Oct 20, 2025
Double0h7:
He was just fvckin with her head. If it went his way he would’ve accused her of stealing and broke up with her. He doesn’t rate op at all. I don’t know why op can’t see it though. A man who insults and belittles a woman is testing how much shi she’s willing to swallow. Calling her by another woman’s name is his way of telling her that she’s not special to him. I think he’s jealous of her and that’s a dangerous man to be with. I bet he uses her for money and a warmth. Op! Please learn from this and teach people how to treat you instead of being a “forgiving” girlfriend.
You’re 100% correct , because I noticed the smirk on his face when he was searching, like someone who knew what they were doing. Just I couldn’t wrap my head around it, it really disturb my brain for days, I was in a shock mode.
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 8:09pm On Oct 20, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Op. Are you sure he isn’t hiding something in the phone🤔 cos if you’ve never done it, there no need for him to feel that way. Maybe there’s something he doesn’t want you to see.

Have you ever checked his phone??
Maybe.
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 8:08pm On Oct 20, 2025
Tenrack:
Dude isn't into you. He's prolly tired and wants an exit for reasons known to him if what you're saying is the undiluted truth, why are you still wasting your precious time with such an anus hole?
I thought as much as well.
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 8:06pm On Oct 20, 2025
Helpout12345:
The guy wanted to get rid of you. He had insulted you, called you another woman's name and probably did other things to get you out but you refused to get the message. That's why he didn't apologize to you on this.

Has he called you since the incident last week?
I waited for three days to see if he will apologize for the embarrassing, he didn’t so I blocked him.
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 5:27pm On Oct 20, 2025
Meedon:
Don't listen to broke boys and girls oooo

It is better to cry jn a Lamborghini than to laugh in a hut grin grin grin

Hold that guy tight. Street no friendly at all.
It’s the other way around, I just don’t want to talk about that.
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 5:26pm On Oct 20, 2025
marlow1962:
Ok let's hear from your boyfriend. One sided event like this is suspicious, especially when it comes first from a female.
What happened is what I have narrated, I didn’t add or subtract from it. I don’t know if he’s on this platform.
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 5:25pm On Oct 20, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Hope you’re not fond of carrying his polo🤔
You ladies should stop that. It doesn’t speak well of you.
A lady once told me if she comes, she’ll take two of my big polos. I told her to bring “Ghana must go”. She was laughing but I didn’t find it funny. I had to take all my nice polos to my bro house and she ended up taking the one I wore. She was even planning to take my EarPod in the name of girlfriend.

If you can avoid it, it’s nice but if you can’t. Take one in 3 months and it will look romantic. Not everytime coming to take my shirt in the name of “bae”
🚶‍♂️
He doesn’t wear polo, I haven’t taken any of his things before and I don’t ask him for anything. I don’t wear peoples cloth even if we are dating, This didn’t happen in Nigeria, thanks.
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 5:23pm On Oct 20, 2025
Tenrack:
Na the money dey her eye. The comfort wey she no follow the guy build. In her mind she's prolly pictured them married to eachother in the future. cheesy
This didn’t happen in Nigeria, He’s been wanting to marry me asking me to do his papers for him but I wanted to be sure of his love for me, he asks for money from me regularly, I’m the one who fuels his car, we both reside in Canada, that’s why I’m surprised why he did this because I’m more than this, I’m a nurse here , I didn’t want to mention all these before but I feel like I need to because some people are mentioning I’m with him for money, if you want to leave a lady there are other ways to do it other than this, this is the lowest of the low.
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 5:19pm On Oct 20, 2025
Tenrack:
The guy is rich and probably spends or doesn't spend on her but the fact that he is doing well.....e go hard o. Do you want her to lose this opportunity?
Nope, It’s the other way round, I just don’t want to dwell on that so it doesn’t seem I’m boastful, I just want to focus on the matter on hand, why will a guy in a relationship set up his girlfriend for theft,that’s all.
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 5:17pm On Oct 20, 2025
Tenrack:
Your boyfriend is richer than you. Endure he would eventually change, okay? Better to cry in a car than to cry outside one abi how dem dey put that quote sef. Endure the barrage of insults, it's a very small price to pay, after all you're gonna secure the bag. smiley
It’s actually the other way round, I won’t say more than that.😊
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 5:16pm On Oct 20, 2025
Mariangeles:
To be honest, at some point, I was afraid he framed you for the theft of the phone. 😰

Secondly, ruuuuuuuuuuunnnnnn away from him, and never look back. 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

The guy does not respect you, neither does he value you, and that is the truth.


You’re right, when he asked me to check my bag I was thinking or did he put it there, but it wasn’t there.

Unless you went with your bag, the bolded was kinda careless of you though.
He could've framed you.
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 5:15pm On Oct 20, 2025
PerfectStranger:
Maybe he hasn't seen what you're bringing to the table aside coochie so he tryin discharge u.

But as a female simp you go still go back becoz the guy seems to be okay and living well.
Nope, you’re wrong, I equally contribute to the relationship, I didn’t want to mention but I’m actually more “okay than him”.
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 5:12pm On Oct 20, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Dude is already fed up with you and just finding every means possible to chase you out of his life undecided. But it seems you're finding it difficult to decode the message he's been trying to convey to you undecided
He could’ve just told me instead of setting me up for theft, or better still stop replying messages or calls then I will get the mesage .
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 5:11pm On Oct 20, 2025
Mariangeles:
To be honest, at some point, I was afraid he framed you for the theft of the phone. 😰

Secondly, ruuuuuuuuuuunnnnnn away from him, and never look back. 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

The guy does not respect you, neither does he value you, and that is the truth.



Unless you went with your bag, the bolded was kinda careless of you though.
He could've framed you.
Yes i took my handbag with me when we were going to check the car outside and I ensured I stepped out of the house first.
RomanceRe: Please Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 5:10pm On Oct 20, 2025
chatinent:
He's toxic.

The most important thing is that you "are done" and your sanity will be in tact.

Stop being with toxic and stupid people because nobody knows tomorrow.

By the way, how did the phone ring if no sim??

He probably did a Find my iPhone using the laptop.

It means that the phone is probably connected with the house WiFi or hotspotted from his other phone. Either ways, it was connected and your ex boyfriend felt you took the phone to check the chats.

This is my theory tho.

But it shows he's toxic asf, and that your were in an unhealthy relationship. He probably hit you sometimes you don't didn't wanna talk about. Even if he didn't, it's impending.
You may be right, thanks .
RomancePlease Kindly Share Your Thoughts. by Angiewhite(op): 6:54pm On Oct 19, 2025
Happy Weekend to everyone. Please kindly share your thought about this incident.

My boyfriend did something that up till now I’m still in shock because I don’t understand why he did that and the motive behind it.

I went to visit my boyfriend last week and just when I was about to leave he started shouting that he couldn’t find his second phone, I was surprised because he usually keep this particular phone on charge he doesn’t go anywhere with it and I saw it where he usually keep it when I arrived three hours earlier, I told him we should call the phone maybe it fell somewhere but he said there’s no sim/network on the phone. So we started searching for the phone.

I was confused because none of us had been out of the house since I came and he didn’t receive any visitor, we searched under the bed, under the chair, scattered wardrobe everywhere! I became tired and went to sit and just looking, I don’t understand what’s happening, it was when I saw him going to check kitchen cabinet, trash bins and inside toilet that’s when I started suspecting something fishy, then he came back and told me to check my bag, I couldn’t believe it, anyways I checked my bag and nothing was there, then he said maybe it’s in his car outside I said it’s not possible because I saw the phone myself when I came where he usually keep it. I said we can check the car but I’m not leaving until we find the phone.

We checked the car outside it wasn’t there so we came back inside and he brought out his laptop and did something on it because it’s an iPhone and the phone started vibrating from inside the chair he was sitting. Firstly that’s the chair that he had been sitting throughout that day I never sat on the chair or even go close to that particular chair that day, secondly the way he dipped his hands into the chair to bring it out shows the phone didn’t fall there it was intentionally put there becuase it’s a leather chair so it’s very tight and firm there’s no a way a phone can fall inside it, even if you sit on the phone it can’t go all the way in like the way he had to dipped his hand to bring it out. And when we were searching the whole house he kept saying “This kind of thing has never happened in this house before , even asked me to search my bag”.

I left that day and he didn’t apologize for the embarrassment, but what’s puzzling me is that why would someone intentionally hide their phone and make us to be searching for it? Turning the whole house upside down? Searching kitchen and even toilet , asking me to search my bag and you know exactly where this phone is! I noticed when we wanted to go search the car he took some minutes before coming out because I went out before him and was waiting by the car. What’s the motive behind this ? Why would he do this? I haven’t spoken to him since then. He had done all sort of things to me that I keep forgiving, from verbally insulting me to calling me another woman’s name, but this is it!, I’m done!. I have never been insulted like this before, I just want to know why someone will do this, just for the sake of future relationship/friendship.
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Christianity EtcRe: How To Get To MFM Prayer City From Lekki by Angiewhite(op): 9:02am On Dec 29, 2022
Sammyashol:
from lekki take iyana oworo, from iyana oworo take berger, from berger take mowe ibafo then tell them you dropping at mfm prayer city
Thanks
Christianity EtcHow To Get To MFM Prayer City From Lekki by Angiewhite(op): 3:10am On Dec 29, 2022
Good morning everyone, please how can I get to MFM prayer city from lekki.
RomanceGood Morning, Advice Needed. by Angiewhite(op):
Good morning everyone ! Pls I have an issue bothering me and I haven’t slept for days, I need advice please. I’m a 30yrs old lady who is dating a guy of 35yrs old that’s the only child of his mother, his parents has separated since he was young and the mother later remarried but got divorced,the mother has been trying to have another child ever since then but she couldn’t. When we met after talking for some weeks he suddenly ghosted me for two years for no reason, no quarrel no nothing! He just stopped talking to me. Then after two years he resurfaced and started disturbing me again that he wants to settle down with me, since I had no one I was dating I accepted, he told me he had always wanted someone who he’s at least 10yrs older than so the person can respect him but since he likes me he doesn’t mind the age difference between us,I was surprised one day when after a little argument on phone over something that will actually favour him when he started yelling saying “ this is why he doesn’t like dating ladies who are 28,29,30 or 31” that they will be pressuring him for marriage that to be honest with me what he told me about dating someone he’s 10yrs Older than is not because of respect but so that by the time he’ll be ready for marriage the lady too will be ready that for example the girl his mother introduced him too is just 23yrs old and currently doing her NYSC and by the time she finish and ready for marriage he’ll be ready too” , I’m surprised at all these because I’ve never pestered him for marriage before even when he ghosted me for no reason I never asked why. I think the reason for such decision is because he once told me even up till now he’s mother who’s in her late 50’s is still trying to have a child, and that he had decided not to get married until his mother has another child because his mother will be lonely if he gets married but since time is going and his mother can’t conceive yet that’s why he has now decided to marry .
The following day he apologized, so I observed he has anger issue, he gets angry easily a lot and usually say a lot of mean and hurtful things after which he will start apologizing that he doesn’t mean any of what he said. He’s also a talkative, he talks a lot and he usually tell his mother EVERYTHING WE DISCUSS, at first I had no issue with that because since he’s the only child so I feel like he’s the only one the mother talks to, but there’s no privacy in the relationship at all! I mean even things that are meant to be between us he divulge everything to his mother.He also told me that immediately after we get married his mother is going to move in with us because she will be lonely, he didn’t say when she gets old and maybe needs someone to take care of her , he said IMMEDIATELY after our wedding meaning it’s me and his mom who will move in with him at the same time. As if that’s not enough we planned how he’s going to take me to his father to introduce me to his father and his relative , we’ve planned everything and I’ve even bought things I will take for his grandmother only for him to inform me that his mother said he shouldn’t take me there yet so he cancelled the whole thing, I was surprised but not hurt I felt his mum knows better.
But the one that happened now that has been giving me sleepless night and I’ve cried my eyes out , he called me some weeks back to inform my family that he wants to come with his people for introduction, which I did , only for him to come back again and tell me to inform them again that he’s not coming because his mother said it’s not yet time that when it’s time they will come and do it for him on his behalf, it really pained me because I’m an orphan and I had to call all my family members together I did a lot of traveling to pass his information across to them , so me now going back again to inform them sounds like I’m unserious and just messing with them and these are elderly people for God sake! I actually did that since he insisted that’s what his mother said, it really pained me and I cried and cried, he’s been telling me since then not to worry that when it’s time he’s sure according to what his mum said they will come and help him to do the introduction. Please advice me I’m tired, I really love this guy but this is getting too much, I would have said maybe his mother doesn’t want him to marry me but his mother talks to me everyday. I’m not desperate at all and I’ve already decided before I even met him that if by 35 I’m not married I will adopt and live my life since I’m doing well for myself, so It’s not like I’m desperate. Please has this happened to anyone before? I even overheard him on phone with his mother one day his mother was telling him not to over show me that he loves me that he shouldn’t love me too much I was surprised because this is same woman who talks to me everyday. Who has gone through this before or who has the slightest idea of what is happening?.

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