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Juliearth:No it wasn’t a mistake dear, he knew what he was doing , that’s why I just want to know the motive behind it, he had this evil smile on his face while searching for the phone, like someone who knew what they were doing and that’s why I was more confused myself and had to sit down and just looking at him. |
nnamdi640:That’s right. |
Double0h7:You’re 100% correct , because I noticed the smirk on his face when he was searching, like someone who knew what they were doing. Just I couldn’t wrap my head around it, it really disturb my brain for days, I was in a shock mode. |
SpencerForbes:Maybe. |
Tenrack:I thought as much as well. |
Helpout12345:I waited for three days to see if he will apologize for the embarrassing, he didn’t so I blocked him. |
Meedon:It’s the other way around, I just don’t want to talk about that. |
marlow1962:What happened is what I have narrated, I didn’t add or subtract from it. I don’t know if he’s on this platform. |
SpencerForbes:He doesn’t wear polo, I haven’t taken any of his things before and I don’t ask him for anything. I don’t wear peoples cloth even if we are dating, This didn’t happen in Nigeria, thanks. |
Tenrack:This didn’t happen in Nigeria, He’s been wanting to marry me asking me to do his papers for him but I wanted to be sure of his love for me, he asks for money from me regularly, I’m the one who fuels his car, we both reside in Canada, that’s why I’m surprised why he did this because I’m more than this, I’m a nurse here , I didn’t want to mention all these before but I feel like I need to because some people are mentioning I’m with him for money, if you want to leave a lady there are other ways to do it other than this, this is the lowest of the low. |
Tenrack:Nope, It’s the other way round, I just don’t want to dwell on that so it doesn’t seem I’m boastful, I just want to focus on the matter on hand, why will a guy in a relationship set up his girlfriend for theft,that’s all. |
Tenrack:It’s actually the other way round, I won’t say more than that.😊 |
Mariangeles: |
PerfectStranger:Nope, you’re wrong, I equally contribute to the relationship, I didn’t want to mention but I’m actually more “okay than him”. |
Sonnobax15:He could’ve just told me instead of setting me up for theft, or better still stop replying messages or calls then I will get the mesage . |
Mariangeles:Yes i took my handbag with me when we were going to check the car outside and I ensured I stepped out of the house first. |
chatinent:You may be right, thanks . |
Happy Weekend to everyone. Please kindly share your thought about this incident. My boyfriend did something that up till now I’m still in shock because I don’t understand why he did that and the motive behind it. I went to visit my boyfriend last week and just when I was about to leave he started shouting that he couldn’t find his second phone, I was surprised because he usually keep this particular phone on charge he doesn’t go anywhere with it and I saw it where he usually keep it when I arrived three hours earlier, I told him we should call the phone maybe it fell somewhere but he said there’s no sim/network on the phone. So we started searching for the phone. I was confused because none of us had been out of the house since I came and he didn’t receive any visitor, we searched under the bed, under the chair, scattered wardrobe everywhere! I became tired and went to sit and just looking, I don’t understand what’s happening, it was when I saw him going to check kitchen cabinet, trash bins and inside toilet that’s when I started suspecting something fishy, then he came back and told me to check my bag, I couldn’t believe it, anyways I checked my bag and nothing was there, then he said maybe it’s in his car outside I said it’s not possible because I saw the phone myself when I came where he usually keep it. I said we can check the car but I’m not leaving until we find the phone. We checked the car outside it wasn’t there so we came back inside and he brought out his laptop and did something on it because it’s an iPhone and the phone started vibrating from inside the chair he was sitting. Firstly that’s the chair that he had been sitting throughout that day I never sat on the chair or even go close to that particular chair that day, secondly the way he dipped his hands into the chair to bring it out shows the phone didn’t fall there it was intentionally put there becuase it’s a leather chair so it’s very tight and firm there’s no a way a phone can fall inside it, even if you sit on the phone it can’t go all the way in like the way he had to dipped his hand to bring it out. And when we were searching the whole house he kept saying “This kind of thing has never happened in this house before , even asked me to search my bag”. I left that day and he didn’t apologize for the embarrassment, but what’s puzzling me is that why would someone intentionally hide their phone and make us to be searching for it? Turning the whole house upside down? Searching kitchen and even toilet , asking me to search my bag and you know exactly where this phone is! I noticed when we wanted to go search the car he took some minutes before coming out because I went out before him and was waiting by the car. What’s the motive behind this ? Why would he do this? I haven’t spoken to him since then. He had done all sort of things to me that I keep forgiving, from verbally insulting me to calling me another woman’s name, but this is it!, I’m done!. I have never been insulted like this before, I just want to know why someone will do this, just for the sake of future relationship/friendship. |
Hi, please what business can one start with 2 million naira, asking for a friend. |
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Sammyashol:Thanks |
Good morning everyone, please how can I get to MFM prayer city from lekki. |
Good morning everyone ! Pls I have an issue bothering me and I haven’t slept for days, I need advice please. I’m a 30yrs old lady who is dating a guy of 35yrs old that’s the only child of his mother, his parents has separated since he was young and the mother later remarried but got divorced,the mother has been trying to have another child ever since then but she couldn’t. When we met after talking for some weeks he suddenly ghosted me for two years for no reason, no quarrel no nothing! He just stopped talking to me. Then after two years he resurfaced and started disturbing me again that he wants to settle down with me, since I had no one I was dating I accepted, he told me he had always wanted someone who he’s at least 10yrs older than so the person can respect him but since he likes me he doesn’t mind the age difference between us,I was surprised one day when after a little argument on phone over something that will actually favour him when he started yelling saying “ this is why he doesn’t like dating ladies who are 28,29,30 or 31” that they will be pressuring him for marriage that to be honest with me what he told me about dating someone he’s 10yrs Older than is not because of respect but so that by the time he’ll be ready for marriage the lady too will be ready that for example the girl his mother introduced him too is just 23yrs old and currently doing her NYSC and by the time she finish and ready for marriage he’ll be ready too” , I’m surprised at all these because I’ve never pestered him for marriage before even when he ghosted me for no reason I never asked why. I think the reason for such decision is because he once told me even up till now he’s mother who’s in her late 50’s is still trying to have a child, and that he had decided not to get married until his mother has another child because his mother will be lonely if he gets married but since time is going and his mother can’t conceive yet that’s why he has now decided to marry . The following day he apologized, so I observed he has anger issue, he gets angry easily a lot and usually say a lot of mean and hurtful things after which he will start apologizing that he doesn’t mean any of what he said. He’s also a talkative, he talks a lot and he usually tell his mother EVERYTHING WE DISCUSS, at first I had no issue with that because since he’s the only child so I feel like he’s the only one the mother talks to, but there’s no privacy in the relationship at all! I mean even things that are meant to be between us he divulge everything to his mother.He also told me that immediately after we get married his mother is going to move in with us because she will be lonely, he didn’t say when she gets old and maybe needs someone to take care of her , he said IMMEDIATELY after our wedding meaning it’s me and his mom who will move in with him at the same time. As if that’s not enough we planned how he’s going to take me to his father to introduce me to his father and his relative , we’ve planned everything and I’ve even bought things I will take for his grandmother only for him to inform me that his mother said he shouldn’t take me there yet so he cancelled the whole thing, I was surprised but not hurt I felt his mum knows better. But the one that happened now that has been giving me sleepless night and I’ve cried my eyes out , he called me some weeks back to inform my family that he wants to come with his people for introduction, which I did , only for him to come back again and tell me to inform them again that he’s not coming because his mother said it’s not yet time that when it’s time they will come and do it for him on his behalf, it really pained me because I’m an orphan and I had to call all my family members together I did a lot of traveling to pass his information across to them , so me now going back again to inform them sounds like I’m unserious and just messing with them and these are elderly people for God sake! I actually did that since he insisted that’s what his mother said, it really pained me and I cried and cried, he’s been telling me since then not to worry that when it’s time he’s sure according to what his mum said they will come and help him to do the introduction. Please advice me I’m tired, I really love this guy but this is getting too much, I would have said maybe his mother doesn’t want him to marry me but his mother talks to me everyday. I’m not desperate at all and I’ve already decided before I even met him that if by 35 I’m not married I will adopt and live my life since I’m doing well for myself, so It’s not like I’m desperate. Please has this happened to anyone before? I even overheard him on phone with his mother one day his mother was telling him not to over show me that he loves me that he shouldn’t love me too much I was surprised because this is same woman who talks to me everyday. Who has gone through this before or who has the slightest idea of what is happening?. |
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