EmmyMaestro: “Sex spoils good friendships” — BBNaija's Tochi advises men to keep female friendships platonic
Former Big Brother Naija housemate Tochi has sparked conversations on social media after advising men to cultivate non-sexual friendships with women, arguing that such relationships can offer valuable support without becoming romantic.
The reality TV star shared his thoughts via a series of posts on his Instagram Story, where he encouraged men to appreciate the benefits of platonic relationships with women.
According to Tochi, maintaining healthy friendships with women can positively impact a man’s life, while introducing sex into such relationships often creates complications.
Tochi shares relationship advice In one of the posts, Tochi wrote, “As a man, learn to have non-sexual friendships with women. You’ll be surprised how much value and support they add to your life. Most times, sex spoils good friendships.”
He followed it with another message directed at married men, stating, “He that find a wife, finds a good thing and should leave other women alone.”
His remarks quickly attracted attention, with many users debating his perspective on relationships and marriage.
Mixed reactions trail Tochi’s comments The posts have since generated mixed reactions online. While some social media users agreed that platonic friendships between men and women can be beneficial, others argued that such relationships can be difficult to maintain because of emotional or romantic attraction.
Others also praised Tochi’s message encouraging married men to remain committed to their spouses, saying it promotes loyalty and respect in relationships. The discussion continues to trend across social media platforms.
Simp advice. The only sex less relationship i will ever advice is the one the lady is also assisting the Man with financial support/Money and vice versa.. Not they type the lady will be asking for financial benefits often with nothing in return. Na so one babe de do sexless friendship with me I de give am money often until I needed help from her and she ignore me...
Amaggedon: One of the most foolish thing anybody can do is to bring war into their homeland, no matter which way it goes you did still going to be a loser . Lot of people will still be wondering why israelis will make HAMAS and anybody that has a hand in that Oct 7 attack continue to pay for that day at what ever opportunity they have.
Iran should seek peace and ask for removal of those sanctions so they can enjoy their oil like their neighbours..
When person pass you theres no shame in seeking for peace. Iran should under that China and Russia will never fight USA for any stupid reason..
None of your neighbours has nuclear bomb so why u want...
A lady has gone viral after making a controversial claim about why many men are eager to get married. According to her, men's obsession with marriage is largely driven by the desire for "free sex and a chef" at home.
Her remarks have sparked intense reactions across social media, with some agreeing, others strongly disagreeing, and many weighing in on the realities of modern relationships, marriage, and gender expectations.
Is her opinion rooted in reality, or is it an unfair stereotype? Watch the full story and join the conversation.
This is nothing like free sex.. No family will give their daughter free To any suitor ..also no women will open her legs to any man free
Ofunaofu: They Recycled An Old Letter From Trump, There's No Letter Of Commendation From Him In 2026 - Onochie
Lauretta Onochie, a Chieftain of the African Democratic Congress, ADC and former presidential aide has dared the APC to publish the said letter of commendation extended to President Tinubu.
According to the statements which were shared on her official X handle on Thursday July 23rd, 2026 she pointed out that the presidency recycled an old commendation letter to score cheap political points.
The presidency, it can be recalled, had announced that president Donald Trump extended a commendation letter to President Tinubu on his achievements in the fight against insecurity.
However, while many disputed the content of the letter, Lauretta Onochie, a Chieftain of the African Democratic Congress, ADC took to her official X handle to drop a bombshell.
In her statements, she accused the presidency of recycling an old commendation letter, which she believed was extended to President Tinubu between 2024 and 2025 in response to his congratulatory message to President Donald Trump.
She further dared the presidency to publish the said commendation letter, arguing that no letter of commendation from President Donald Trump was received in 2026.
"There no letter of commendation from Trump in 2026. The letter they are referencing was written in response to Tinubu's congratulatory message to Trump in late 2024 or early 2025." she wrote.
My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Had Vitiligo – Graphics Designer
Blessing Opeyemi Oduola says one of the most painful experiences she faced after developing vitiligo was losing a relationship because of the condition. She is now sharing her story to challenge misconceptions and… pic.twitter.com/tpQrEls3L4
Goddyrichie: it’s a lie bro things wasn’t this bad yes they is corruption and they do it low key but now they rub it in our face now they even mock us join back then mist most of dem resigned but since 2015 nothing like that
Fiscus105: If you married a lady that you love without being reciprocate the love back, you are heading for crisis in marriage, and if you married a lady that loves you, without you loving her back and inch, it's just as if, you housed your own gender at home.
Nevertheless, if I'm asked to choose only 1 between these two ladies, I would go for lady that loves me.
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This time, I visited a young Nigerian entrepreneur who is doing exceptionally well in maggot farming, and he openly shared practical insights about the business — from getting started, feeding, breeding, housing, management, challenges, and the opportunities in maggot production.
Maggot farming is one of those agricultural ventures many people overlook, yet it has huge potential when done properly.
If you have ever considered livestock farming, or you are simply curious about how people are building profitable businesses from agriculture, this is a video worth watching.
Exceed15: If you have a wife who has bad mouth,don't beat her. Just send her back to the parent. There's nothing more shameful than this. And don't accept her back on time.
most women and most family have no shame
If you are tired of a woman just return her.. Yes u have invested in her but is better to let her n than to commit murder
Wotowotoman: This thing be like film trick to Messi. He must be thinking to himself - ‘omo, no be wetin me and that useless Infantino discuss be this na’