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Here is a clear picture with both feet

Who knows what this is and how to cure it. I noticed it gets worse when she puts on shoes.

Kola5281:
1. Is there any signed written contract between you both stating the payment he was supposed to pay for the 3 month duration?
If yes, get a good lawyer and get his ass sued, he'll refund you to your last kobo.
2. If No to the question stated above, still get a good lawyer and he'll advise you what to do next.

just be calm and dont make any rash decision that will spoil this whole case.

Thank you

I need your suggestion please

How can I get my money from someone I worked for.
I worked as a teaching assistance for my boss that owns a teaching school and also helped him out with with teaching a private class. A month before the end of the contract, I had an accident and broke my arm. I went to work with the broken arm till I completed the contract. Two months now after the contract. I am yet to get paid. I reached out to the school and found out that they have paid my boss less than 2 weeks after the contract due date, but he has not paid me. I have been at home for 3 months now without work because of my hand and I have a wife that doesn't go to work and a 9months old baby I take care of. I have pleaded with my boss to pay me even if it 50k out of the 600k plus that he is owing me but he kept posting me. He kept telling me he is expecting money for the past 2 months but I have not seen a dime. I had to go borrow money from a bank which I tried not to do hoping that he will pay up before the due date. Now from the look of things I don't think he has any intention of paying me. I don't know where he lives and his school is shut down from what I heard because he is focused on another contract he got with Microsoft. Please I need suggestion on how I can get my money from him. I am thinking of dragging him and his company on social media, I don't know if it is legal. Please any advice will be highly appreciated.

Good morning

I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. I recently completed a contract with a private academic firm, but despite fulfilling my obligations, the owner has refused to pay me. It's been two months since the contract ended, and despite my efforts to reach out, I've received no response. I'm at a loss for what to do next. The owner has stopped taking my calls, and I'm not even sure where to find him as he is rarely in the office. This situation is especially difficult for me as I've been unable to work since February due to a hand injury from an accident. With a wife and a nine-month-old baby to support, I'm now facing financial hardship. Any legal advice or guidance on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

N.B. I didn't sign a contract with him this time around because I have been with him for sometime.

Truvelisback:
Yes, they are right. U should thought of ur fiancee b4 get her pregnant. I wish u Happy 2 wives.

Thank you for contributing.
However they have no right to force her into my house and this has been clarified by the family unit in a police station. You don't have to give wrong information just because u want to troll. I am capable of taking care of both ladies just fine.

Blessedmercy8:
All that don't matter now cos when you were sleeping with her, you didn't do your findings to know who and who is sleeping with her. Youre Just looking for every way possible to deny the pregnancy and shy away from your responsibility.

When they say stay in one place, e go dey enter one ear fly comot from the other one until happen. Now e don clear for your eyes.

I don't have an issue taking responsibility ma. My girl is aware of the situation and she is still with me nothing changed. I am only trying to know what is lawful because a girl can just point to anyone that he is responsible for her pregnancy because the guy is well to do and the law will back her up only for the baby to be born and it turns out he is not the father.

BritishAirways:
To be a man you need some level of honesty and a huge amount of madness.

1. You were supposed to be honest with your fiancee and not engage in having sex with that girl.
Ok, now the deed is done.

2. Solution... This is where madness comes into play. Because 2 people decides tohave sex doesn't mean one person should move into the other persons apartment regardless if pregnant or not.
The pregnant girl is better off in her parents house than yours because of your employment status. trust me.

You need to put up Alot of drama if you don't want to lose your fiancee

I have taken the case to the police and they told the girl's family that it is unlawful for them to forcefully push the girl to my house without my consent.

There is a criminal law in Lagos state called "disertion of pregnancy" which says the man can be jailed if he fails to take responsibility for a pregnancy. Before the law can jail some1 charged with this offense, don't they have to prove beyond reasonable doubt that that the said man is really responsible for the pregnancy?

I just found out the girl is also sleeping with my landlord and his brother.

Blessedmercy8:
Why do you not want her to stay? That time when the thing dey sweet, you want her to stay till day break, you didn't know what you were creating down for yourself? Now you don't want? Hahaha.. you lie!

I don't know whether they no longer teach people that sex can cause pregnancy because the way most people come here sounding as if they didn't know it will result to pregnancy and try to shy away from it like it's someone else's fault is what I don't get.

Once you start being sexually active, just get ready to father a child at any time with whoever you're doing it with ( side or main chicken) cos e no dey give warning before it enters. You have to guard against something if you're not ready for it. Not after exposing yourself to what will bring problems,. You now start running away from the problems. Face it squarely, shey na man you be? Abi na only on top bed?
Man up and take up you responsibility, Biko.

You still have mouth to be mentioning the other girl. So it's now you remember you have someone you want to marry?

This is one thing that has made me lose respect for men. No single respect for relationship again. You knew very well you were going to settle down soon, whyyyyyy... Why did you keep sleeping raw with another girl? See how you men just expose someone to disease and you want to tell the girl so she can do what? Give you a pat on the back or help you fight the other girl and chase her away? You dey reason at all...

Abeg I'm out!

Thank you for sharing.
I never said I can't or won't take care of the baby if it's mine. I only came here here to know what the law says about where she will stay while pregnant.
I have reported the issue to the police and they said there is no law that she must stay with me while pregnant. Infact the law frowns at it if the guy doesn't ant her to stay with him.

I found out today that my landlord and his brother are sleeping with the same girl.

Hello Nairalanders,

I lost my job and the next day I learnt that a girl I had sex with is pregnant (5 weeks) . The family is insisting that if I don't want to marry her, I will atleast take care of her till she delivers. I did not object to their decision.

My issue however is that they said she must stay in my house during this period which I don't want.

What does the law say about this?

My fiancée is currently in my house and we are supposed to get married February. I will tell my fiancée today when I get back from work


Thank you

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My menstruation is nt flowin vry wel nd its lasts 4 2days unlike b4 it lasts 4 4days.bt though i treatd candidiasis 4tim ago. Pls advice me,cn dis afect my chance of getin pregnat if i get maried?