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ChildOfDoom:
I started womanizing to help me overcome my addiction of Betting.

It has helped to an extent as I spend majority of my time in a brothel, Eating, drinking, relaxing and fvcking (my mind leaves betting).

The issue now is that, since I started three years back, I have been treating one infection to another. Currently having skin reaction that brings out small inflammation and rashes on my body like my favourite olosho.

I can't help it. I have tried switching to drinking to take over womanizing, but it won't work.

Except I go back to betting (which is worse). In the past, I would sit all day in a bet9ja shop wasting away - gambling with my money, people's money and my belongings. Then I lose focus and don't work

But with womanizing, at least I get some pleasure, and get to use my money little by little. The rate at which it finishes is not as fast as betting.

The thought of having to choose between different bannies to lash at night keeps me motivated during the day to work harder for cash. Just the infection part as condom do burst at times while there are some I only do raw.

I know my lifespan is short, I just want to enjoy it with a sane mind and not fleeing from betting woes. My body is wired to do one addiction to stay placated/elated.

Having a girlfriend is scary. What if I invest a lot on just one girl and she cheats on me

cutecommend:
If you have stolen money or things in your office, stole from friend or neighbour, forged certificate, had children from paternity fraud, committed adultery, lied against someone, falsely accuse someone, duped people, did internet fraud, slept with someone's wife, slept with someone's husband, slept with your EX few days/weeks etc. to your wedding, killed a neighbour and covered it up, slandered someone, used a close person for rituals, poisoned someone, tied someone's destiny with juju e.t.c, when you genuinely repent from sin, do you still need to go clear your conscience by apologising to those people or their loved ones, or are you to move forward?

When you repent genuinely, God forgives you totally and you begin to enjoy His presence. But as you begin to move on, the HolySpirit will begin to tell you of some things you need to go and make peace about, stolen things to return e.t c. It could be people you hurt so bad that you need to apologize to. At this moment if you snub such leading of the HolySpirit, you become disobedient and it is sin. The HolySpirit is willing to assist you if you pray to Him for grace to make peace with those you have offended.

When the HolySpirit reminds you of something to confess, restitute e.t.c, if you refuse to do it, you will not enter heaven. And yes, the HolySpirit helps a lot if you pray for His assistance in make peace with anyone. He is a Helper in many things.

Pray this morning: Lord Jesus Christ, please forgive me all my sins, come into my life and be my Lord and personal Saviour in Jesus name. Amen.
Attend a good church also.

Happy Sunday to you.

rottable:
I was raised in a Christian household, with my father even a pastor. Throughout my university years, I found joy in attending church and participating actively in church-related activities.

Lately, I’ve started feeling a sense of reluctance, even resentment, about attending church. This has become a point of tension between my wife and me, leading to arguments every Sunday.

What can I do, please?

rottable:
I was raised in a Christian household, with my father even a pastor. Throughout my university years, I found joy in attending church and participating actively in church-related activities.

Lately, I’ve started feeling a sense of reluctance, even resentment, about attending church. This has become a point of tension between my wife and me, leading to arguments every Sunday.

Take a 3 day fast and prayer to seek the facw of the Lord for new strength to serve Him but don't stop going to church still. Iron still sharpens iron

What can I do, please?

Steep:
How can you achieve what?

Steep:
I have answered you question, the reason of making restution is not to *make* *be* in heaven but to be at peace with men even if you are not at peace with men provided you are saved you will still *make* *be* in heaven.

Steep:
Heaven is not what you make, it is the place where all who are saved by Jesus are or will be and it is not dependent on making peace with men.

Romans 12:18 If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.

The importance is to live with peace with men and not to "make heaven"

Also see
1 Timothy 2:2 For kings, and for all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty.

The same reason believers are to pray with rulers in other to live peaceably, it is not a requirement to make heaven but to live in this world.

Steep:
Doing things in other to earn heaven or rapture is a false doctrine.
You are actually teaching that the righteousness of christ through faith is not enough.
The reason to make restitution is to make peace with men not a step to make heaven or to be raptured.

APOPTOSIS:
This is exactly what's making you Lazy in Life...
You lack aspirations and zeal to be innovative because you believe somewhere has been prepared for you without you working to fix the place.
Your G.Os. are now investing heavily on planet earth with your meagre sweat because they know the truth.

Steep:
restitution is not a requirement for rapture.
You are basically teaching using works to earn heaven which is a false teaching.
Works in Christianity are not done to earn salvation or to make heaven or to be raptured but are done because one is saved and in christ and it is a testament of ones salvation.

LordIsaac:
Jesus is Lord!

MaxInDHouse:
There you go again!

Everything in your writeup was informative until you brought in the word "RAPTURE"

That's why i asked:



Is the word RAPTURE mentioned anywhere in God's word?

MaxInDHouse:
Please check the highlighted!

MaxInDHouse:
Checked but the word "RAPTURE" is not written anywhere!

MaxInDHouse:
Where can we find the highlighted in the scriptures?