Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by anonimi: 8:35pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
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Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by anonimi: 8:32pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
Fkforyou: Did wizkid stop her from going to school?
Did he stop her from earning money.?
Did he call her inferior? oh! its the stinky womanliness, well guess what, ladies also insult men's ego by calling them cowards, small dick, not man enough, and so on and so forth, you don't here them calling for sympathy or feeling victimized.
All I see here is 2 people having a spat and trying to hurt each others ego, obviously one was more pained than the other and decided to play the victim card. Did you read where he said he will ask his cousin to beat the shit out of her?Please read again. It is free. |
Politics › Re: Timi Frank Blasts Oyegun Over Saraki's Fate by anonimi: 8:28pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
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Politics › Re: Timi Frank Blasts Oyegun Over Saraki's Fate by anonimi: 8:26pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
midolian: E tire me o! Or could it be that he got his SUV b4 other senators? I did not know that Timi Frank is a senator. Since when has he been a senator  |
Politics › Re: Timi Frank Blasts Oyegun Over Saraki's Fate by anonimi: 8:24pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
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Politics › Re: Timi Frank Blasts Oyegun Over Saraki's Fate by anonimi: 8:20pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
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Politics › Re: Timi Frank Blasts Oyegun Over Saraki's Fate by anonimi: 8:17pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
Activa: Have you heard of when trees fall on one another...?
What's your stand on the Saraki matter?
You're not supporting Saraki or attacking Buhari yet brought up a different matter? Strange. Inconsistent I am asking that the ultimate leader be clean in order to have the MORAL justification to chase anyone otherwise his fight against corruption when he is actually very CORRUPT himself makes a mockery of our intelligence.Ebola Owu did that for eight years and left us worse off. www.nairaland.com/attachments/2467944_obasanjotransparencyrating2004_jpegf577f3dadf99ddddb409ec370bb5548d |
Politics › Re: Timi Frank Blasts Oyegun Over Saraki's Fate by anonimi: 8:09pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
Activa: Before I know the right response for you:
1. Are you trying to defend Saraki?
2. Or trying to adopt Tu Quoque (a fallacy in arguments) to attack Buhari?
3. Or both?
Speak! 1. No. 2. No. 3. No. Have you heard that he who comes to equity must come with CLEAN hands? |
Politics › Re: Timi Frank Blasts Oyegun Over Saraki's Fate by anonimi: 8:08pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
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Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by anonimi: 7:47pm On Apr 17, 2016*. Modified: 8:14pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
lastpage: First, it was her who put the "personal life' of another humanbeing, a Musical Star, online, ridiculing him about what is not her business but trying to put him in bad light, which for a Musician, can end his career! Reporting about eviction notice of a star is ridiculing him? Wow? And that puts him in bad light to end his career? Wow again? Ever heard of libel? What stopped Wizkid from suing her to court for libel if what she published is not true?Perhaps you know and are willing to share with us. Instead he announced publicly that his cousin will beat the shit out of her.Not so  |
Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by anonimi: 7:42pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
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Politics › Re: PDP Tweets About 108 Suvs Saraki Bought Senators by anonimi: 7:38pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
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Politics › Re: PDP Tweets About 108 Suvs Saraki Bought Senators by anonimi: 7:35pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
charliboy654: Have u seen me blame jona b4. Jona has misuse his turn, now its buhari, if he also misuse it, its his luck. Anoda person will replace him, all we can do is wait. I have to agree with you. |
Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by anonimi: 7:33pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
niggadee: you drunk abi when wizkid convicted for domestic violence? Where in the post that you quoted did you see the word CONVICTED? Abi you dey manufacture words for inside your niggadee head ni  |
Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by anonimi: 7:31pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
willibounce1: No wonder she is not married. Who will marry a cunning witch. See how she painted the whole story to gain sympathy. It has now turned to violence against women because she knows she will get sympathy support from weak, lonely and bitter women like her. Did he threaten her as she reported or not  She sounding all nice like she has nothing against wizkid, but deep down in her evil mind, she wants the boy to go down. She wish his endorsement will be terminated. No body got time for a lonely witch like Linda. Why not go to Pepsi and glo and beg them to terminate his endorsement. All your evil wishes for Wizzy will not manifest. Like he said, you will marry your laptop at the end of the day. Old hag, Madam gagu. She keeps talking as if she is a virgin... I don't do runs, I work for my money, blah blah blah..who send you. That is what is done in places that are so attractive to our folks we do night vigils, fast & pray to get visas so we can go work there as voluntary SLAVES while forming diaspora. Not true  |
Politics › Re: PDP Tweets About 108 Suvs Saraki Bought Senators by anonimi: 7:26pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
charliboy654: From what have observe Saraki is more a PDP than APC. PDP senators also benefited from the SUV so. This is a combine thief of both APC and PDP. But iPob and wailers will always blame buhari. Did you not also blame Jonathan under similar circumstance  |
Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by anonimi: 7:17pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
Love Machine: Who has taken her to the police for the same offense? Who has stopped anyone from taking her to the police IF she committed same offense? Na you  BTW, can you cite an example of the same offence that she committed? Thanks. |
Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by anonimi: 7:16pm On Apr 17, 2016*. Modified: 7:49pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
zakimon: Linda Ikeji is just a hard core feminist. Must everything always b about the "man oppressing the woman"? It says so much about the kind of home she is from. Deal with Wizkid as a person and don't bring these ur "feminist" drama into it. What is hardcore feminist about reporting a yeyebrity who announces to the public that his cousin will beat the shit out of you?Could it be that you have comprehension challenges? |
Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by anonimi: 7:13pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
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Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by anonimi: 7:12pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
bumi10: You see, violence against women and threat of violence against women is not okay. Threatening harm to someone in a public space is a criminal act in every country of the world, including Nigeria. I bet some of you didn't know that, yeah? You can not publicly threaten someone with harm. You will only get away with it if your victim doesn't report to the authorities. If they do, you will have a case with the police and I promise you, the police take these things seriously.
I reported this case to the authorities because I want our young men to know this is not okay. You should not raise your hands on a woman. You shouldn't even threaten to raise your hands on a woman. Wizkid wrote that he would send his 16 year old cousin to beat the poo out of me. Letting Wizkid get away with it is basically telling our young men that this is okay...and it's not!
After Wizkid made the threat to me, I saw a lot of teen boys hailing and applauding him. To them, this was okay. If their idol can threaten a woman with harm, and use derogatory words, they also can do it...and that's how the circle of abuse of women continues. Women being called 'smelly Kitty-Cat' trended online for a day or two! Little boys were happy to use the words. Sad!
It is appalling to me that anyone, especially women, would cheer Wizkid on. When he wrote RIP Linda, I saw a few young girls write same, laughing. This is not a laughing matter. It doesn't matter whether you like me or not! This is not about Linda Ikeji. This is about abuse of women which has eaten deep into our society, so deep that it has now been accepted as normal. Men do it all the time and get away with it. So many women are battered by their husbands and they refuse to speak up because of the stigma. They refuse to seek help because they are afraid of what people will say. I am sorry, I am not one of those women. I refuse to be victimized. And as long as I have my voice and my platform, I will speak up.
We women have to come together to lend a strong voice to the plight of women in our continent. When we see a woman being physically and mentally abused, let's act. Let's speak up. Let's not laugh and say she deserves it. If we continue to keep quiet, the circle of abuse will continue. And one day, You, yes You, will find yourself in the receiving end of a thundering slap, followed by heavy blows. If not you, then maybe your daughter? Let's condemn violence and threat of violence against women! This is not acceptable!
Young men like Wizkid, a father of two young boys himself, should never advocate violence against women. One day, he will have a daughter, how would he feel if another male threatens to put hands on her or even calls her a hoe?
I can't count how many times Wizkid called me a hoe in his rant against me. That's what boys do. When they get into a fight with a woman, they try to slut-shame her. Smelly Kitty-Cat, hoe, ashawo etc. You call a woman, who gave another young woman, whose real name she doesn't even know N500,000 just because she said she would rather work by carrying cement than prostitute herself, that's the person you call a hoe? When your mind is so warped you can't differentiate between a woman and a hoe, then this is what happens. Except you drive to Sanusi Fanfuwa at 2am to pick up a prostitute, who proudly describes herself as one, then you shouldn't call any woman a hoe.
Even Tupac who was a well known thug could differentiate between the types of women he dealt with. When asked in an interview why he called women bitches, he said people shouldn't confuse things, that he wouldn't address a mother or a sister the way he would address a Dam, that the bitches were the ones he dealt with in the clubs who behaved like one. He reiterated that he respected women!
In more civilized countries, Wizkid would have lost his endorsements and spent the next year or so apologizing and being in the fore-front of promoting anti-violence crusades against women. It took Chris Brown years to get back on his feet after his assault on a woman. Up till today, he doesn't have any major endorsements and some countries still deny him entrance into their country i.e Australia for something he did 7 years ago. Yes, violence against women is serious!
And there's the case of incitement. When you have power and influence, you have to be careful what you say in public. Because you have such power, something you say can influence your followers. A fan can commit acts that even you may not support or might not even condone. But because it came out of your mouth, they think you mean it. So it is irresponsible to say things that might be inciteful. In Law, you can be held responsible when people act based on what you said in public. Tupac was charged to court and indicted after some thugs killed a police officer. The thugs went to court and mentioned that their idol encouraged violence against LA police officers in a song where he said 'Drop a cop'. So, we folks with some measure of influence should be more careful with our utterances. People are watching and listening!
The second reason I filed a police report is to encourage other women in similar situations to do same. My dear ladies, if a man threatens to puts hands on you, and you feel the threat is real, report to the authorities. Don't wait until he does it. What if you don't survive it? If he's picked up and may be charged to court (yes, you can be charged to court for making threats...it's a misdemeanor with a prison sentence), then he will think twice before making threats against you in the future or any other woman for that matter.
I went as far as I did for me and for other women. This is to pass a strong message to our young men that these kinds of behaviour towards women will not be tolerated. Should not be tolerated. If you assault or even threaten to assault a woman, the law will come after you if she chooses not to be silent. Women, don't be silent. Let's break the circle. For your sake, for my sake, for the sake of our daughters, grand daughters, great grand daughters and all other women that will follow them.
http://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2016/04/my-issue-with-wizkidwhy-i-took-case-to.html?m=1 Thanks Linda. Hopefully our country will have more civilised people as its inhabitants. www.nairaland.com/attachments/3241776_9ja_jpeg26589d6b9bd10c6732bda31ad0aad178www.nairaland.com/attachments/2995823_img20151001045439_jpegab04322a9213336241039a1276e3723a |
Politics › Re: Wole Soyinka's Woeful Silence by anonimi: 6:30pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
joshrare: Funny thing is that...immediately I clicked on d topic the 1st thing on my mind was.. Who will replace soyinka when he's gone?
Can somebody help? What about you? |
Politics › Re: Wole Soyinka's Woeful Silence by anonimi: 6:08pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
theV0ice: No you didn't.
Any other observation? It is good to see you acknowledge your error of saying he fought for an individual. Cheers. |
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