Dshocker:


Did you say 100% faithful? ........Ogbeni calm down.

of course. She is

MiaB:
she chose you cus she doesn't know you're a cheating ass Sissy

thank you, but ignoring you seems to me the most viable option now

MiaB:
she chose you cus she doesn't know you're a cheating ass Sissy

tnak you, but ignoring you seems to me the most viable option now

Baddiezz:
He obviously didn't admit he's been cheating to her. Only said they should go for medical checkup. Wish I had her phone number. Dang

just ONCE. Drop it already

stanliwise:
But come let me ask you??
How sure are you that you girl is a "saint". have you also thought whether the gonorhea was from her??

I don't think. We've been ******* before, and nothing like this happened. I went to bed with this other girl, and a day after I did, baby came around and we went down. A day difference is too early for gonorrhea to manifest na... So it's definitely not her.
Thanks for your input

Blue3k:
AnonymousXYZ

Be a man let her know what happened. Take her to doctor and pay for expenses. There's nothing more to it.

Alright. No problems

Yoighaman:
@Op, inform the other girl and plead with her to run HIV test, if for any reason she agrees and it comes out negative, lucky you, thank her for the nice gesture, phase 1passed.

Phase 2: Call your girlfriend, tell her you were feeling funny and went for a test and tested positive for hepititis b (or whatever jargon you can concoct), make sure it's what an antibiotic can cure, bamboozle her with all the street and emotional intelligence you got, have her take the meds, never tell her you cheated and contracted gonorrhea, you risk losing her if you did that. She'd take the meds and be fine afterwards.

Phase 3: Avoid taking too much alcohol going forward, it makes we humans do crazy stuffs (see what your Etinosa actress did). Vow there would never be a re-ocurrence of this incident.

Phase 4: Fix whatever issues in the relationship that got you attracted to cheating on her, alcohol only brings out preconceived intentions, I feel it's the easiest vice that make guys go gaga, and if it's something else, check it, whatever it is, psychological, emotional, whatever.

...and to all those insulting or cursing you, don't give a Bleep, you only came out plain and sought advice, they act like them holy pass but nobody holy pass.

Cheers bro.

thanks a lot for this bro. I appreciate

stanliwise:
Be a man and bear the responsibility of your actions.
In reality you don't have to win always. You were responsible for your actions, take the responsibility and the pains with it.

Tell her to forgive you and give her reason why if you're lucky she may comeback to you after she leave you for only but a short while.

The only reason you should lie is if you know deep down you don't want to change your ways and you still have the intentions of having sex else where at some point in time. Aside this, no other reasons are fit.

I hope you think this through.

I've thought this through, over and over again. I ain't going down that lane... Ever again... Now and forever

Saffi:
Thank God you have a push over girlfriend. Some women will accept anything just to have a man smh. Good luck to you and your future cheating endeavours.

I'm not her only choice. She has TONS of guys flocking around her,but she chose me. Right, call me a cheating b*stars, but doesn't change the fact that I love her. Pssst*

Saffi:
Thank God you have a push over girlfriend. Some women will accept anything just to have a man smh. Good luck to you and your future cheating endeavours.

Baby has accepted the proposal too
Relieved... Just pray it ends here, and well. I'll never CHEAT again. An eye opener.
Thanks all

RiyadhGoddess:






Please get her treated so you don't contact it again.
Don't take to the advise of putting the blame on her. Don't please!
Talk to her naturedly making her see reason to go for check up. If she's positive, stand by her till she's clean without blaming her. I know she will be shocked and confused on how she got it. If you think telling her the truth will jeopardize your relationship, then continue to tell her that what's important is her getting treated. If she's fine u are fine. U still love her bla bla bla.
But if I were u, I will tell her the truth and then seek her forgiveness. If u really love her and see her beyond a girlfriend I mean a lady u want to spend the rest of ur life with, u won't let her go till she forgives u.
Op, please the two of u shouldn't be fornicating in the first place.
As u have learnt ur lesson, please flee from every sexual sins.
If you can't stand the sexual heat or urge, then get married...

thank you very much maam

arnoldogiamien:
this is to tell you that your girl has no other man. if she does, the man will tell her'

of course I know. I've built in a way that her faithfulness isn't a problem. She's 100 loyal

tee59:
Tell her you both need to go for regular check up or test to know if you can straff raw without using protection and both you can also be saved from any infection, and if detected, the affected partner can get treatment immediately. After getting her treated, change your words by saying, you don't want any unwanted pregnancy for now as you need to plan well for her and her baby. So you starts using protection for sex if you wish too.

thanks a lot for this

blissgregory:
let her go to d hospital asap.Peace be wit u

Amen

Update folks: I've sent her a message on WhatsApp, explaining everything to her. If una no hear from me, know sey ee don sup.
Lefulefu
Sherylbakky
Blissgregory
And others who contributed

lefulefu:
op i think u should take dis advice.

I have. I'm negative

lefulefu:
Stop nacking every random girl u see in eateries,ATM stands and car parks in other to minimise contacting stds and also carry ur girl and urself to the hospital. If u no fight the disease now remember that untreated STD can render a man impotent.

thanks a lot bro. I'll definitely stick to her 100%. And ironically, that was the only incident I cheated on her.
Phew!

Baddiezz:
Admit to her you cheated. Coward. She deserves better than you.

What makes me a coward? Admitting my wrongs and trying to rectify this without hurting feelings makes me a coward?
Please SWERVE

ShawttySoFyne:
Tell her ASAP. If you accuse her wrongly your karma is doing pressup

the option of accusing her isn't even in my head. I just want a less dramatic way of telling her/we to go for checkup.
*sigh*

Shibaraba:
Oga tell her you nacked another girl and got it from her.... Na girlfriend no be wife. If she stays she stays if she goes continue banging aunty gonorrhea

harder than you think...

ThothHermes:
Blame her for it. Shout to the heavens and let the whole neighborhood hear your voice. She will start apologizing immediately

doesn't make sense.. At all

tee59:
Tell her you both need to go for regular check up or test to know if you can straff raw without using protection and both you can also be saved from any infection, and if detected, the affected partner can get treatment immediately. After getting her treated, change your words by saying, you don't want any unwanted pregnancy for now as you need to plan well for her and her baby. So you starts using protection for sex if you wish too.

great. Thanks. I'll put this into play

sherylbakky:
Awwwwwww, see men oooo.

At Op....Are u sure she also contacted it? There's at least 20% assurance dat she may not, dont wanna go too medical here.

Dont tell her unless u notice she has it too or she complains or confronts u.

If she does, apologise...Hmmm but anytin can happen to ur relationship oooo, but d wise tin is just to keep it unless she brings it up.

I hope u'v learnt ur lesson, stay away frm infidelity.

lessons definitely learnt. I actually used Google, and I think women don't exhibit symptoms if they contact gonorrhea. At least for a looong period.

KendrickAyomide:
go for HIV test

I am clean

Officialgarri:
Put the blame on her and thank me later :

that's not fair. It's obviously not from her own end. She's FAITHFUL. 100%

Hello folks. I'm at a dilemma right now.

Had to create a new moniker. Pretty popular here.
I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. A girl everyone would want to have, but I've goofed... Big time.

I had a random fling with a girl I met sometime at an eatery, and as we were ******* the condom tore, and I just proceeded like that, throwing caution to the wind.
After a few days, my GF came, and we had unprotected sex. Amazing stuff and all.

A day or two later, I noticed discharge from my manhood: which meant only one thing; I had contacted gonorrhea. I went for tests, and It was confirmed. I was given antibiotics and 3 shots of injections, and everything was back to normality.

I'm feeling guilty as of now, and don't know how to tell her she's contacted the infection.

I'd appreciate any advice on how to go forward with this.

No bashing please. Thank you