Family › Mixed Signals From My Stingy And Double Standard Landlord by AntiTerrorist(op): 11:15am On Jul 08 |
Mixed Signals from My Stingy and Double Standard Landlord
I’ve only seen the young man at the back of the compound once, fetching water directly from the well. Since then I’ve been wondering how they get water for their house.
Just recently, I was about to open the well to fetch water when he also brought out his buckets. But instead of coming to the well, he went straight to the tap. Then he asked me, "Don’t you like fetching water from the tap?" I was surprised. So he’s been using the tap all this while?
Here’s what I later found out. The same key that opens the well also opens the storex. So he’s been fetching water from the tap whenever I’m not around or without me knowing.
That got me thinking: - How did he know the well key also opens the storex? - Could the landlord have told him but not me? - And if so, why? I don’t use any major electronic appliances, and my family spends most of the time outside the state.
When we moved in April, he asked me to pay 1k for security and 5k for light. That’s 6k in total, and I paid. He said after the first payment, subsequent ones wouldn’t be up to 6k.
In May he asked for money again but didn’t state an amount. I ended up sending 4k. In June I sent 4k as well.
By the end of June, the month wasn’t even over before he asked for light and security money again. I sent 5k on the 30th because light was stable that month. The next day he acknowledged it, thanked me, and prayed for me. Since then he’s been unusually nice, and he’s been leaving the storex open all day.
Yesterday morning he told me not to fetch from the well again, that I should use the tap because it’s now open.
Now I’m wondering what changed. Was it the extra 1k I added? If yes, why couldn’t he just tell me from the start how much he expects monthly? Is 1k really that big a deal that I can’t afford?
At this point I’m even thinking, if I pay more, maybe he’ll let us use the washing machine too.
Honestly, I don’t understand what’s going on.
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Christianity Etc › Priced Above Rubies: Two Life-changing Treasures Every Young Man Must Pursue by AntiTerrorist(op): 10:17am On Jul 07 |
Priced Above Rubies: Two Life-Changing Treasures Every Young Man Must PursueThe Bible reveals that there are TWO treasures whose value is described as being above rubies. They are not material possessions, wealth, or earthly achievements, but divine gifts that have the power to shape the course of a man's life.
1 The wisdom of God
Job 28:18 declares that, "... the price of wisdom is above rubies". God's wisdom enables a man to make sound decisions, avoid costly mistakes, discern the right path, and live according to His purpose. Wisdom is the foundation of lasting success because it teaches a man how to handle relationships, finances, career, family, and every other aspect of life. A man who walks in God's wisdom is preserved from many unnecessary sorrows.
2. A virtuous wife
Proverbs 31:10 asks, "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies." A virtuous wife is one of God's greatest gifts to a man. She is trustworthy, supportive, industrious, prayerful, and committed to the well-being of her family. Such a woman brings peace into her home, strengthens her husband, and contributes significantly to his success and fulfilment. Her value cannot be measured by physical beauty or material wealth but by her godly character.
My advice to every young man is this: pay the price to obtain these two priceless treasures. Seek God's wisdom diligently through His Word, prayer, and obedience. At the same time, be patient and prayerful in choosing a life partner, placing character above beauty, virtue above appearance, and godliness above worldly attractions.
Many men spend years pursuing money, fame, and possessions while neglecting wisdom and making careless marital decisions. Yet wealth without wisdom often leads to ruin, and success without the right spouse can become a burden rather than a blessing.
If, by God's grace, you acquire His wisdom and marry a virtuous woman, you will have a strong foundation for a life marked by peace, stability, fulfilment, and lasting prosperity. Challenges may still come, but you will possess the divine resources needed to overcome them.
Invest your life in pursuing what God values most. The treasures that are priced above rubies will produce rewards that neither money nor status can ever buy. https://www.facebook.com/61585260165711/posts/pfbid0oHRBzv24ZJ1XzC1rUh45FNhM33dPc3X3HiPcGuHjBSKFktHnt6rvByFMdPfCU22al/ |
Career › Re: Why Do Companies Post Vacancies When The Posts Have Been Filled? by AntiTerrorist: 5:27pm On Jun 25 |
YoungLionken: So sorry bro, you're not the only one in all this, we are searching and hoping for things to turn around for good. That's why we must all fight this evil government next year, because what's the essence of life with undue suffering and constant disrespect.?
As for your wife, let things turn around for you and you start paying her in her coin, she would claim victim with the popular "I was with him when he had nothing.." chant. And some people who don't know what you're passing through now in her hands (mental abuse) would now come up with their unsolicited opinions against you... Don't blame the wife. Poverty is not easy and women are not creates to the the head of the house financially. |
Career › Re: Why Do Companies Post Vacancies When The Posts Have Been Filled? by AntiTerrorist: 5:22pm On Jun 25 |
Counterigbolies: u better forget white collar jobs which are modern day slavery n enter street, think transport or logistics n think big money where u can have your freedom n make big money to advance your life instead of looking for a non existent job which they can sack u anytime Thank you for this comment. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: 15 US Warships Are Blockading The Strait Of Hormuz Right Now - Trump by AntiTerrorist: 8:23pm On Apr 14 |
Daguccizgreat: A humam who was happy that Hamas hit Israel on October 7 and killed many is preaching to me about God. Your delusion is legendary I like your responses to Topman7 and other Islamic terrorists on this platform. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Begins Mine-clearing Operation In Strait Of Hormuz Amid Fragile Ceasefire by AntiTerrorist: 2:58pm On Apr 12 |
stuffs2002: Same Iran wey dey pummel and dismantle US and Israel upandan.
Stay away from FoxNews CNN and BBC so that you can see reality from the constant brainwash
Iran is hitting Israel freely now because they have long dismantled the iron paper dome a long time ago but CNN FoxNews and BBC will keep your brain washed with sponge
Iran have eradicated US bases in the middle east but FoxNews CNN and BBC will not tell you that over 23 US bases have been destroyed in the middle east |
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Begins Mine-clearing Operation In Strait Of Hormuz Amid Fragile Ceasefire by AntiTerrorist: 2:57pm On Apr 12 |
stuffs2002: Same Iran wey dey pummel and dismantle US and Israel upandan.
Stay away from FoxNews CNN and BBC so that you can see reality from the constant brainwash
Iran is hitting Israel freely now because they have long dismantled the iron paper dome a long time ago but CNN FoxNews and BBC will keep your brain washed with sponge
Iran have eradicated US bases in the middle east but FoxNews CNN and BBC will not tell you that over 23 US bases have been destroyed in the middle east It seems terrorists are living in a totally different world or maybe Allah gave them a different brain. |
Romance › Re: Missing Ondo Woman, Mrs Tilewa Olatunde Funke, Found In Hotel Room With A Man by AntiTerrorist: 6:56am On Apr 11 |
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Career › Re: 5 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay Long In A Private School As A Graduate by AntiTerrorist: 4:06pm On Mar 21 |
LordBiden: And when you finish discouraging them about private school jobs who do you want to be teaching your kids?
Maybe aliens from mars would come and teach them.
You should be teaching them creative ways of earning as a teacher like doing extra lessons for wealthy families, online teaching jobs that pays in dollars as side hustle. Don't worry about who will teach his kids? There are people who reason like you that will teach his kids and so shall it be. Amen! |
Career › Re: 5 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay Long In A Private School As A Graduate by AntiTerrorist: 3:46pm On Mar 21 |
Hoelujohn: How na, I was raking close to 400k has a primary school teacher 400k or 4m? You should be raking close to 4m has a primary school teacher. 400k is too small. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran: NATO Allies Are Cowards, Paper Tigers. They are nothing without US - Trump by AntiTerrorist: 7:30pm On Mar 20 |
pansophist: Listen to Chinese president talk. Listen to Russian president talk. Complete decorum.
They speak concisely, with clear dictions and assume that their audience is educated and can spot bullshit from far.
But Trump? The usual Oshodi tout talks politely than him. How he made it to the White House speaks very low of Americans. Like this is the best you can get?
Let me just say that the only evidence I need to determine that you are a dumbo is if you support Trump.
But looking at the good side, he seems like the perfect man to bring down western hegemony, and he is doing the job perfectly.
Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake. What would you now say about Buhari and Tinubu's supporters? People who voted for ethnic bigots, religious bigots, drug barons, thugs and armed rubbers. |
Travel › Re: Population Of Major Cities In 1963 In Nigeria by AntiTerrorist: 7:16pm On Mar 20 |
lawani: Igbos have returned home to build their land as Enugu, Owerri, Onitsha and Aba are now more populated than any city in Yoruba land apart from Lagos, Ibadan, Ilorin and Akure. According to the number of hotels and bank branches as available online. All those Eastern cities are about the same size now by number of hotels and bank branches but they are individually like half of Ibadan. Do you have reliable data source to support your last paragraph? |
Business › Re: Folorunso Alakija Emerges As Africa’s Second Richest Woman In Forbes Ranking by AntiTerrorist: 12:59pm On Mar 20 |
aariwa: What has the Forbes ranking done for her community ? Last week emoney completed completed a 10 kilometer road for his community joining hundreds of others doing for their communities what the failed government couldn’t do…no be by mouth or forb listing but by making your community a better place and increasing opportunities for others . Last year alone mighty mighty umuchu built and donated more than 100 bungalows to people in his community, Bishop ozubulu is tarring roads the whole of his community like crazy with street lights, instigator PH built 10 kilometers road and donated to his community, Clann Chief Vintage Nwaogugu donated more than 400 pieces of keke and many grinding machines to women to empower his community in Mbaise , Go abiriba, mbaise Wawa land and other communities, the story is the same and none of them is on foops magazine and countless other silent community developers doing their job in silence without any noise Beyond her business success, she is also widely recognized for her philanthropic work, supporting initiatives in education, healthcare, and community development. |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Ark: Oyedepo Building 109,000-Seat Church In Canaanland Ota, Ogun, Nigeria by AntiTerrorist: 8:09pm On Mar 16 |
Dricker: didn't say i was unhappy with nigerian Christians,let's just be better and love each other cus what we are practicing in this country is not Christianity but manipulation and hypocrisy,an average Christian is more wicked than the devil himself...we all have churches in every corner of this country yet look at how the country is..omo Christianity in this country na scam If you are not practicing Christianity but manipulation and hypocrisy and if you and your fellows are more wicked than the devil, then you people must repent and give your life to Jesus. |
Career › Re: 5 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay Long In A Private School As A Graduate by AntiTerrorist: 8:01pm On Mar 16 |
DoctorAyukebot: This is what you get when you go through education without education going through you.. Next time don't be mean. |
Career › Re: 5 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay Long In A Private School As A Graduate by AntiTerrorist: 9:12am On Mar 16 |
DoctorAyukebot: This is what the internet has turned to. Any Dick Tom and Peter get opinion on things way no concern them..
My kids go to private schools and compared to the public schools around these schools offer quality holistic education. Some of the teachers have been there for a decade and over positioning themselves as models of quality professionals. May your life become worse than what you wish for others. |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Ark: Oyedepo Building 109,000-Seat Church In Canaanland Ota, Ogun, Nigeria by AntiTerrorist: 3:54pm On Mar 15 |
Dricker: the haters of truth called nigerian Christians will soon come for you..they tell you if e reach your turn build factory If you are not happy with Nigerian Christians now, how will feel in ten years time when the wealth of the gentiles will completely become ours. You need to do the needful as early as far to save yourself. |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Ark: Oyedepo Building 109,000-Seat Church In Canaanland Ota, Ogun, Nigeria by AntiTerrorist: 3:51pm On Mar 15 |
shox: These money could have been used to build industries, take willing people off the streets .
It’s unreasonable to build such a structure to go shout hallelujah and contribute money Why can't you build industries or ask the cr!minals you are always voting for to build industries? Poor people always have ideas on how the rich should spend their money. |
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Investment › Re: CBEX Demands $200 From Nigerians To Recover Lost Funds by AntiTerrorist: 3:06pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
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Education › Re: Babcock University Expels Oladipupo Siwajuola For ₦100k Yahoo Ritual Soap by AntiTerrorist: 11:26am On Jun 06, 2025 |
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Culture › Re: Oluwo Adopts Alaafin Title, To Notify Adeleke by AntiTerrorist: 9:57pm On Jun 04, 2025 |
ERockson: Dramer king. The confusing Emir of Yoruba land. It's unfortunate the type of king the new Alaafin of Oyo wants to associate with in the name of politics. it is really unfortunate |
Politics › Re: Corruption Not Allowed In Nigeria, Says Tinubu by AntiTerrorist: 11:35am On May 28, 2025 |
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Travel › Re: Kaduna Pastor Azzaman David Dies In Road Crash by AntiTerrorist: 12:13pm On May 26, 2025 |
[quote author=Swiftbakery post=135512746][/quote]similar to what happened to Samuel Oshofa, the founder of CCC. It is not good to dismiss prophecy even if we not sure it is coming from God. |
Travel › Re: Kaduna Pastor Azzaman David Dies In Road Crash by AntiTerrorist: 9:49pm On May 25, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Uncertainty Beclouds Osun Education Sector by AntiTerrorist(op): 11:44am On May 17, 2025 |
Georgry: It's safe to say that the south West currently parade the worse set of governors in Nigeria today. with the exception of GSM |
Romance › Re: Maami Igbagbo: Adult Film Star Turns Born Again, Seeks Husband (Photos) by AntiTerrorist: 2:00pm On May 15, 2025 |
Harlots know who to turn to when the urge to have husband comes. Jesus is God. |
Business › Re: Dangote Joins Dignitaries To Shake Hands With Trump In Qatar (Video) by AntiTerrorist: 10:28am On May 15, 2025 |
dru23: Dangote is too big to attend such event.. This is why I admire Mike Adenuga , the man no get time to worship anyone or shake anyone's hands, whether rich or poor. The man stays in his lane .. Dangote didn't think like you. |
Nairaland General › Re: What Does Nairaland Need Right Now? by AntiTerrorist: 2:02pm On May 13, 2025 |
Seun: Hello Guys,
I'm throwing this question to you because it's very important. Every time I ask, "how is Nairaland?" I'm told that it is fine. If I ask what are the challenges I'm told there are none.
So I need to talk to you guys directly about what you think is going on and what you want us to do. I have not had the confidence to make major changes on Nairaland. I have a little confidence now because of AI.
What are your complaints, your challenges, your issues. What are the things that can drive people away and need to be nipped?
Speak your mind, but don't be rude. Thanks. Allows us to block trolls indefinitely. |
Education › Re: NUC To Introduce 12 New Courses In Universities by AntiTerrorist: 12:49pm On Apr 25, 2025 |
FutureFocus: Everything studied in school can be studied on YouTube , if you are discipline, you can challenge all the lecturers in your faculty to open debate and beat them flawlessly, some of them are still using their 1975 lecture notes
I ones challenged my lecturer to open debate but he ran with his two heels touching the back of his head
The HOD asked them to retain me as assistant lecturer but I rejected the offer, I prefer to be DVC academic so I can reorientate all the lecturers But YouTube will not give you certificate. |
Education › Re: NUC To Introduce 12 New Courses In Universities by AntiTerrorist: 12:40pm On Apr 25, 2025 |
Dhoneymix: No, get your facts right before you begin to speak from the point of ignorance.
Islamic banking needs people with such knowledge to operate optimally. Many traders are using them now because islamic banks don't take interest. Banks like Taj and Jaiz are becoming popular amongst traders (including Christian traders) just because of their interest-free loans and some other reasons best known to those traders How do they make their profit? |