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Oh! my baby. I feel your pain man. To say the truth BOY, you bleeped up BIG time. Happy to hear that the BIG ocean between you is closing up. I am so sure the friend she moved in with is a wonderful woman who holds secred the institution called marriage. She must have spoken with her real good.

Contrary to the opinion of a lot other women in da house, I admit what my guy did was bad but not enough to warrant her seeking or even thinking of seeking a divorce. I however she did all that to shake Mr. Chatter to his roots (laughs). If my man thinks me this wonderful as he has said here, his crime wouldn't be enough for me to want to walk away. I want to believe though that there is more to wanting a divorce than the poor husband knows.

In any case, "Bolarge" stop all communication with the lady in question. Her friendship cannot be more important than your marriage.

I think I'm begining to feel guilty for my little adventure out of my burning desire? I didn't think I will be judged. I wish I knew better, I would have kept my little secret to myself and be happy all the way. Now all the excitement and the joy of satisfying my yarnings with no strings attached, has flown away. People!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I didn't ask to be judged.

Anyway, thanks for your contributions. 

Yes I work at GT Bank, and also yes I made sure he use a condom cos I've worked too hard to be where I am to loose it. I also know that AIDS is real 'cos someone I know so well died of it. But does the knowledge that AIDS is out there stop the feeling? HELL NO!

Guess? I didn't give the guy my number and I tore the paper where he wrote his for me cos I don't want to be tempted to call him to say hello. He served the purpose I wanted him that day and he's gone with the wind.

Yes I work at GT Bank, and also yes I made sure he use a condom cos I've worked too hard to be where I am to loose it. I also know that AIDS is real 'cos someone I know so well died of it. But does the knowledge that AIDS is out there stop the feeling? HELL NO!

Guess? I didn't give the guy my number and I tore the paper where he wrote his for me cos I don't want to be tempted to call him to say hello. He served the purpose I wanted him that day and he's gone with the wind.

I know this is going to sound crazy but I felt like the real thing and had to do the silly obvious.

I broke up with my boyfriend 4 months ago and ever since, I decided I wasn't going into anything new till further notice. I was with him for 3 years and couldn't take his rubbish any further. After the break up, my night was filled with loneliness and no water to quench my fire when it burns. I picked up a Love Machine at one of the shops in Ikeja but you and I know it can't be like the real thing.

Now guess what? On Friday night (18-08-06) after work, I was feeling so lonely and so hot that I really really needed the real touch. I thought of so many options. I thought of calling one of my fine couleage at work but changed my mind because of the shame it will leave me. I couldn't bring myself either to call any of my EXs. So what I did was, I dressed to kill, went clubbing as I live on the Island. Danced with a couple of guys and when it was time to go, there was this cute guy I really danced with and I asked him if he could drive me home as I didn't come with my car. He offered to help after I managed to convince him I am no danger to him. This was after I showed him my staff ID. When we got to my place, that was around 4am saturday morning. I asked him to come in for a drink. It was in the middle of the drink I told him point blank what I wanted. I wanted a good f**k. I made it clear I didn't want any attachment just the f**k now. And I was very happy I did. It was good and I have been so vibrant and active at work since yesterday.

It was the excitement that pushed me to want to share this experience and nairaland came to my mind as I've known about it for sometime now.

So ladies, tell me. Have you ever have to do such a thing?