We expect also d likes of premium times n Sahara to join d criticism to get Ds govt up n running.crises in d senate is also affecting committees set up in d senate.whn will d senate b ready to receive budget n whn d govt b ready to present budget.whn wil d budget be passed n assented to?ds govt wil start running only by mid next yr.mark my word.

optm:
handling dis kind of case requires d expertise of a specialist in vision training (an orthoptist ). i tink he or she wld b in a better position to mk decisions on d best treatment options. nd i hv no idea on hw much a contact lens cost bt i knw its more challangin to use dn d normal glasses

tnx u optm but do u think we have orthoptists at specialists.d ones we met at Nat.hosp are mostly optalmlgst.

optm:
i got frm ur oda post dt one eye wz said to b amblyopic. since an eye is amblyopic den d refractive power
in both eyes definately shld differ (anisometropia )
hence using contact lense in ha case wld b better
to prevent xperiencin
disparity in retinal image size (anisekonia ). bt u
may hv to wori abt d amblyopic eye turnin
stabismic (half pst 4 eye)hence causin cosmetic disappeal.

u r right it's -2 against -12.and Fr d stabismic,she unconsciously exhibit dat often.wat is d cost of contact lens pls.meanwhile,anoda view suggests we produce 2 medical lens,1 Fr day activities while d oda fr indoor activities.d reason given fr d disparity is to use d indoor own fr correctional by blanking d gud eye then stimulating d lazy eye.

yomi007k:


Pls I think ur daughter is innocent.

She has an infection probably toilet disease. Take my word for it.

Do d necessary tests n get approprate medications.

All d best.

anoda doc just said it's likely a toilet infection since she is in boarding sch though we r waiting Fr d urine n swab culture.tnx,i ve bn torn by ds report.tnx so much.

Laredojohn:
The Dr says soo, doesn't mean its so, you could seek a second opinion from another hospital, if they say same, you need treat her first and go do a background investigation in her school, guess it's a boarding school the way you narrated the story, it might not b what u think or the Dr's thought, tear can come from penetration not associated with the opposite sex, dnt b disturbed, just take the steps one at atime

tnx.so much.much consoled by ur words.

yomi007k:
Whitish discharge and pain during urination are obvious signs of infection.

It is possible to have a tear also as a result of infected vagina mucosa.

Did she run temperature also? Recurrent high body temperature?

Any excessive urination?


Do a HVS pls.

Relax n take it easy

yes,she is running a high temperature but doesn't pee frequently.

90love:
I've dated my husband for 5years but only traditionally married for 5 months. For most of our relationship we have had financial difficulty but always manage to keep our head above water.

I'm pregnant and have gestational diabetes meaning sometimes i get very weak so I've been unable to work properly, I am also a final year nursing student. The truth is 80% of the time it's me that bail us out of bad financial crises, my husband has not been able to keep a stable job for as long as I've known him and when he gets his fast money he lavishes it, he doesnt think of the home rather he thinks of clubbing, drinking etc. I never look into his pockets as i think its rude to count people's money but the minute he swindlea his money away he starts to count my money to fund his things such as petrol, club, hosting his family coming from nigeria.

And he has 5 sisters, his young ones are very ill mannered dont do house work or even say good morning. They all take turns throughout the year to come to my house and spend 2weeks to one month Including his mother though i can't complain about her because she's his mother even if she was the worst i can manage her.

None of the above has really bothered me until i came to the realisation that im going to be a mother in less than 18 weeks and i have someone else to care for that is more important. I'm starting to think this man doesn't really love me because when i was terribly sick before finding out about my low iron and diabetes i couldnt get out of bed but he never checked on me instead he would spend all evening and night out with friends and all day sleeping, watching tv and looking for quick money.

I decided to return to my parents and have been here for 2+ months. I am properly looked after and it's only 20minutes away, my so called husband never calls to check on me, he has only initiated phone calls twice and he's asked me for money both times for one thing or another. He has never called my parents to greet them or thank them, it's like he abandoned his responsibility, he openly tells me not to come back because he can't cope with my illnesses.

He's very dissmissive and uncaring but he is also like that with his own family. He never calls them. They're always begging him to call them or i beg him to at least call his mum. I always blame his upbringing because he grew up very entitled with everything handed to him, he doesnt know the value of hard work.

Now we're in a major financial crises because he decided to leave his job. We can't pay the house rent and i have no way of bailing us out because i haven't been active at work due to sickness. I have been looking for a way out but he can't even hold a conversation with me about it. The minute i say something about our current finances, he starts threatening me to switch off the phone and raises his voice (i equally raise mine I'm not innocent because I've had enough) I'm so fed up of him and even the marriage. I don't see how he can ever grow up and i feel like im dragging a dead horse.

Whenever there's crises he becomes very mean and he can't cope, I'm always the strong one and have to find money just so he can be nice to me, which sounds pathetic. He comes from a very good home but blames all his emotional problems on not having his dad in his life but i am not excited to see the kind of dad he will be for his own child.

I feel like i made a mistake marrying him. I have been as supportive as i can be, i dont rub things in his face, i always try and maintain a happy home but I've had enough! How do you fix a situation where you don't respect your husband anymore? I don't believe he deserves my respect apart from him being a financial burden, he's also a serial womaniser i just got tired of doing csi so i turn the other way. I am so fed up and spiraling into deppression the disappointment to both of our families will be huge I've never imagined having a child in a broken home. If this is worth fixing i dont know where to start because my heart is resenting him. How do i explain to people that im leaving my husband of only 5 months?!!!

be honest was it his cuteness or ur old age made u married him?he didn't just develop d attitudes in 5 mnths,as a mother,i recommend u mak d man u want out of him.quarel ,shout,bone if need be but show him respect.b financial disciplined n strict twds him but don't deny money Fr his basics.yes u r on top now but i see ur hubby been on top soon n wil mak reference to ds ur present situation n d blessing cald wife God blessed him wt.except u don't see him beyond his present self.e no easy ooo sis.

drsteroid:
you are welcome

pls would u advice a 12 yr old girl to wear contact lens.she has refractive error cald aumblopia or something like that.

lagmostkuit:
Hmmmmmm

and nothing more.

eghuan1:
I believe you should give her time. she may not talk now cos of shame and fear, so continue with the drugs do the necessary tests and I believe with time she will talk and please no shouting or attempt to beat cos u will never get the whole truth out of her that way. make her your best friend and she will eventually open up.

tnx a lot.im so emotional abt ds whole situation n d pain she is going thru.can't sit,can't walk properly,can't pee without pain.

jamex93:
this mata strong oo



sit her down

like father and dauta

discus with her apologies to her

and ask her wat she tink is wrong with her


ask her technical questions, and if possible try to know dat person she is close to in skul

and secretly call d person for questioning

she might b going tru some thing much more worst dan u tink

honestly,i don't have d nerve to continue questioning.she is wat every parent calls perfect dauter.so loving n carin twds others,so peaceful,wise n brilliant,carries out her duties.i go extra mile to defend her whnvr she is hurt cos she doesn't hurt anyone.dis is just to giv a short bio abt d child in question.

I'm in a dilemma right now.i got a call from my dautr's sch to come pick her dat she is sick,i quickly rushed to d sch n applied for her release n whn my daughter walked twds me,i noticed d difficulty in her movement n before she cud sit in d car,it was wt much difficult too but i thought it was as a result of d fever.we got home n as she walked to d house,i noticed she cud barely walk n i asked wat d problem was n she told me she feels pain in her vagina n whn i checked her wat i saw was painful.whitish discharge wt patches n i wept for my daughter n cried why she didn't cal me via her guardian to inform me.i rushed her quickly to hospital n after diagnosis,d doc told me dat thr was a tear in my dautr's vagina as a result of penetration dat i shud ask her but i didn't allow him to finish dan i shut him up.i ve asked her bfr we started coming n she said nothing of such.d doc insisted anyway dat i shud do my work.he prescribed cefuroxine,diclofenac n flagyl n recommended for hvs then we left.on my way,my daughter asked if i believed wat d doc said n i said there is atom of reality in wat he said n is left for her to convince me n my daughter said "I'm disappointed".i felt disapointd in myself n decide not to ask further even when doc said he is interested in d case dat he has seen such cases as a paeditrician n it usually happens to innocent,quite girls just like my daughter.wat do i do?

D worst wil b d effect of Tsa.to file a document of 100# in cac,i was asked to go n pay in d bank.watch out for crunchy economy.

midolian:


http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/presidential-aide-buhari-is-shy-around-the-opposite-sex/223525/

nothing wey person no go hear al in d name of defending a man who doesn't even want to b defended."old wine in new bottle.they shud shut their mouths already.we hav more pressing issues pls.

PassingShot:
What?

APC has done a better job than how PDP handled their first one year in governance. Between 1999 and 2003, internal tussle made PDP to produce three senate presidents in Emwerem, Okadigbo and Wabara as well as two national party chairmen within the same period.

During PDP, ministerial screening that we're witnessing now was always fraught with bribing of senators with dollars to do the presidency's bidding. Whereas, PMB and the presidency have largely allowed the senate to do their thing. No Ghana-Must-Go filled with dollars and no victimization of any opposition party member.

So, APC has faired better than PDP if judged by the first five months of their respective governance period.

there has always bn leadership tussle in d senate but not in d party leadership as witnessed in apc.hope saraki lasts up to 6 months.u think pmb isn't interfering in d N/a fight,u ar getting it wrong why has he told apc senators to toe party line while d senate has made its choice.isn't interference?

Aufbauh:
David Mark is the senator representing my constituency and i know what he is thinking;
He is just absent minded about the screening, probably thinking of how irrelevant he has become in this present administration.
His sober looking connotes his thought, how time have changed from being a decider to be a mere senator who receive order from Akpabio of yesterday not to question a nominee.
His pale look signifies his remorse for bringing himself to ridicule by coming back to the 8th Senate as a floor member and being taunted like other PDP senators by the ruling APC senators through spiteful questions.
Then paramountly calculating the kind of lies he will go back to tell his people to stay relevant in order not to be overshadow by Chief Audu Ogbeh.

life is turn by turn.his time has certainly expired but it was too late for him to recognize dat but Fr audu ogbe to outshine him,i disagree with u cos wateva mark has achieved in his lifetime,audu can't n wil never considering his age.

Don't get me wrong.im not asking pdp should return to power,i believe in giving apc chance to know which is better for a common man.but since apc tuk over leadership,it has bn enmeshed in one leadership tussle to another dat it's bn rumored dat Tinubu is nursing floating another party.in d other hand,pdp has not mastered d game of opposition which to me is easier than being in ruling party.d much awaited amaechi's screening has led to renouncin n denouncing of d party by one of it's staunch allies Mr fix it.apc was very vibrant n really kept d Gej's media men gasping.d likes of Lai mohmd,Joe igbokwe,el rufai,Dino melaye et al made d job strenous Fr Gej.in spite dat,pdp was more organized n formidable in leadership til d later end.who shares my opinion.

spirit88:
This is not a big issue at all. Since he can do at least. Because that one is the hardest. If u are serious and not the normal joke on this platform. I just got one herb for a friend that has this same issue. Its in 3 bottles, 2 liquid and 1 powdery form. Bought it for N600 only and with sure guarantee. Infact, ur guy can eat sugar every day, it won't affect his performance and he won't last less than 40mins minimum on bed.
let me know if ure interested.

I'm interested bro.is it readily available?

DonCrust:


I disagree with u on that. Premature ejaculation is related to 3 things, viz: addition to pornography, untreated STI and psychological imbalance.

I had the same experience early this year which caused me my 3 years relationship. I was away from my partner for about 3 months during when I watched almost all the Indecency movies on the internet. Each time, I look out for something new and when i eventually hooked up with her, I couldn't take her to Orlando cos I came 20 minutes earlier than normal. I guess I didn't get that 'something new' from her. I didn't realize the cause on time and over a period of 2 two weeks I was psychologically down and depressed. Things became worse after 3 months and even though we watch Indecency together just maybe it'll ginger me up, I could only last 5 minutes tops. I had to seek medical attention and the cause had been depression all along.

We broke up eventually cos she cheated with 7 guys who couldn't even match up with my worst performance. Then I met someone new and lasted almost 2 hour without taking alomo or burantashi.

@OP help ur man to overcome depression and u'll enjoy him like u used to!

really?7 guys?is she a pro? Tnx Fr ur advce though.

abeniagbon:



Flagil 4 tablet 200mg .

seriously?flagyl?

El rufai tall pass

prettythicksme:
I feel ur pain babe!!since u decided to mix something to his drink,y not try buratashi?

Babe do u always change position with him during sex?try dat!

change position ke!babe no b if sleep don dey sweet,u go begin to snore.he is challengd by missionary whc is simple n less audacious.abeg o.honestly,I ve lost interest in sex.

noblemails:


add one tablet of viagra to his drink... what u see u take

lik wat bro?I thought abt dat but I learnt it's for old pple whose erections are weak.

Edoblakky:
I wish I knew your man to give him a book he needs to read on how to delay his ejaculation. He needs to master his puboccocygeous (PC) muscle. This is the same muscle he uses to stop or hold back urine. He needs to master how and when to use the PC muscle to delay ejaculation until you are fully satisfied. But this muscle needs to be trained to achieve the desired result. I wish I could open a thread to teach men how to effectively use this muscle irrespective of their joystick size to satisfy their wife.

pls do bro.it's needful.

halfrica:
Bae u gat mad curves?
Work on ur sef nt on ya man he myt
Nt b sexually attracted to u ok


Either u try to b sexy,or u just quit sexxx. Must u giv him sexxx on his birthday ow bou havin a simple nice time nd evaluate ur man nd commend him bou his previous attitude over d last years, talk to him on how he can be a better man then all things would be added onto him even sexxx drive cos ur man wud b like i value my woman so mch to satisfy her in all places,ways and means

Bt wen u tink of mostly sex he wud loose his sex drive cos it seems dats all u av to offer



It might shock u to kno dat a the man u complaining bou his sex drive is banging anoda girl who commends his sex drive *EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS RELATIVE*

u hav a comprehension problem.get off my thread,Ode.

akinloluwao:
Rush to an agbo / herb seller and explain to them. Beg / persuade / compel him to take it and come here with testimony.

2 mins is an overstatement actually and it's affecting our sexual relationship. It has diminished his ego and as For me, I don't ever wish to have it with him honestly, It is not only embarrassing but frustrating.

But i feel like surprising him on his birthday. So I'm wondering if there is anything i can add to his drink; drug, herbs without his knowledge to enable him last longer to his amazement and making him feel it's natural. Or is there an ointment/cream I can use to massage him. I need to spice our marriage sexually.

chommyAngela:
op, wot channels can we watch dance with peter and time

hop u were able to watch it yesterday on ait.who is ur fav for now.MTV base shows it wed 7pm.c fly n his lady were d best.

Adortem:
Can't believe this thread is as dry as this,or is there another thread?

now dat they r in d academy,and wit yesterday's performances,who are you looking out for.my fav now is tom tom;he is gud.

I'm having problem posting or creating a thread on NL due to technical error DNs.ait shows it on sun 3pm.pls kip d thread alive.i commend d organizers for Ds wonderful opportunity to showcase our talents.peter has always bn d creativ one in p.sq n he just proved it again.

Amaechi :wike pls hold Ds position for me,I wil come for it aftr 8yrs.
Wike:same here.
Politics in nig is d more u luk,d less u c.