₦airaland Forum

Solape1:
Nice one, if you have any family members working in the civil service of any parastatals in Nigeria and they are making things difficult for us Nigerians, it will not be well with them.

U see that na very few ppl like... If na curse for ppl in government now...millions for Don click like.... Note, am not exonerating those idiots in government ooo... Am only saying many of our people sef no dey try, particularly those in civil service and it shows they will Do worse if elected into political offices

autoez:
Good decision but Chukwueze must never play for eagles again

The will... Cos he is stil one of our best winger.... Simon is old and will leave soon

verminnel:
Get a partner and get married ,that should help.

Lol... The next post u will be reading will be from the wife.... '' I need help.. My hubby won kill me with sex"......
Then you will advise the wife to tell her hubby..... Sex is not food....
All am sayin is getting married will not solve it.... Ladies only pretend to like sex when u dey court dem.... Once u marry dem.... U go dey hear... Pls not tonight.... Pls.. I have headache.... Pls we need to talk abt this sex issue.... Is not food na... Smiles..

plessis:
Amaechi built railway to Niger Republic but did nothing for river and igbo people.

And do you know how many igbo and rivers people using that rail for business and for som other purpose ... We should out grow scoring their performance based on what they did for their tribe or locals...

Adakintroy:
Now I know we don't deserve to be at the world cup. Against a much tactically organize team That were willing do the press Structurally We just had no answer. Could not play out from the back. No wing play enough to bring out cross. Our target man was more or less a box man. Can't drop deep to pick up possession and run with it. It was just a repetitive long balls from the defense to the attackers hoping something drops luckily. Against an even more organized Europeans that press in unison. We stand zero chance of even coming out from our half. We lack a really technical holding midfielder. Iwobi de try. But he is not a natural 10. Against average team he will strive. But against natural central attacking midfielders., he will struggle to find his bearing as well as indidi Who has pass his prime. The best they can pull off is what they have. Against distinctively average teams. They not good enough against well drilled side.

Fact!!

Dpsychologist:
Let’s drop the sugarcoating and speak plain truth. Dating a single mother is not romance movie material. It’s real life. If you’re not built for it, you’ll suffer and she’ll suffer more. This isn’t hatred. It’s honesty.

I’ll keep it simple and relatable.

1. You will never come first. Ever.
If her child is sick and you’re having a bad day, guess who waits. You.
If school fees are due and you want a weekend getaway, plans are cancelled.
If you need to be number one in a woman’s life, this lane is not for you.

2. Her past is not theory. It’s active reality.
That baby didn’t fall from the sky. There is an ex somewhere.
Co parenting calls. Family ties. Old wounds.
If small jealousy already dey choke you, this situation will finish you.

3. Responsibility will find you, even if you run.
You say “I’m not the father.” Fine.
But wait till school resumes, rent is due, or hospital bills show up.
Reality doesn’t respect motivational quotes. Pressure will knock.

4. Her time is scheduled, not spontaneous.
You can’t just say “I’m outside” at 11pm.
You can’t randomly disappear and reappear.
Her life runs on routines. If you hate structure, you’ll feel trapped fast.

5. Emotional stress comes in bulk.
You’re not just dealing with her moods.
You’re dealing with a child’s emotions, an ex’s influence, and family opinions.
One small misunderstanding can turn into a full-blown crisis meeting.

6. Stability is not optional, it’s required.
Inconsistency is cute when you’re 22 and carefree.
With a single mom, it’s an instant red flag.
If you’re still “finding yourself,” please find yourself elsewhere.

7. You don’t gain what you think you gain.
She’s not there to build you.
She’s not there to fund you.
She’s not there to emotionally babysit you.
If sex is the main attraction, both of you are just passing time.

8. Manipulation can happen if you’re not sharp.
Some will gaslight you with “you knew I had a child” anytime accountability comes up.
Others will weaponize guilt.
If you’re emotionally weak, you’ll be confused and drained.

9. Society will talk and you’ll hear it.
Friends will whisper. Family will advise.
“You could have done better” will start ringing in your head.
If you’re easily influenced, pressure will push you out anyway.

10. Love alone is not enough here.
This setup needs patience, money, maturity, and thick skin.
If you don’t have at least three, you’re not ready.

Final truth:
If you can’t handle responsibility, structure, delayed gratification, emotional stress, and public judgment, don’t date a single mom. Not because she’s bad. But because you’re not ready.

And this applies beyond single mothers.
If you can’t handle real life complications, don’t date anyone seriously.

Dating is not sympathy work.
It’s readiness.

Be honest with yourself.
It will save you, and it will save her.


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Feminine gender is just something else... They are single and dey feel you have to go out of ur way to make dem feel like a woman... They are single mother... Another wahala... Making demands on you.... The demands they couldnt make on their baby daddy....... And to think they can't accept all these long espitles from a single dad oooo

Just imagine the kind insults and name calling sanwo olu for Don dey get if this had happened in Lagos

Nigerianlion:
In the 2007 elections the People’s Democratic Party (PDP) dominated most states, winning about 28–31 of the 36 state governorships, while the All Nigeria Peoples Party (ANPP) had a few and the Action Congress (AC) had Lagos.

Funny no body shouted one party state den.... Now na noise of one party state oo..

pdppower:
Atiku Abubakar and Amaechi will just be like: Is this man well at all? We that have been here all this while have come to sell pepper abi?

See you.. They k ow what they are doing... It is Atiku for president.. Obi for vice..
They are only hiding the card.... So apc dnt know the direction to attack from... Same thing apc did prior to 2023 election.... When ameachi, tinubu, Amosu, lawan, Osinbajo all got the presidential ticket and were all seriously campaigning, even when they all knew an tinubu get am...( just to Comfuse pdp den)..

Mbanda:
And this is the Nigeria you lots want Igbos to like and be patriotic to.

And what has igbo unpatriotism cause or solve... Clifford, Evans dem no be igbo.... Madness or criminality knows no gender

oyeb15:
Scientist should discover a tiny chip and implant it into everybody. Once blood turn cold,it should start giving distress signal.

Many will not accept nor embrace the idea... The fear of 666....or white won kill us propaganda..... Have u forgotten so soon how covid 19 vaccine met Brickwall?...
Africans are funny ppl... For years we have blame USA n france and we wanted dem off our matter... Yet na same USA we dey hail to come kill terrorists for us..

GanagiBitrus:
Majority of AFCON players play & earn their living in Europe. It's a big loss to European clubs when their players are absent for international duties.
He Who Plays the Piper Dictates the Tune!


Moreover there is CHAN for African-based players. You can play that every year if you like.

Before afcon period... European club see and treat African players like shit.... Once it afcon time... Dey suddenly realize how valuable they are and will Wana do all to ensure the players dnt honor afcon call up...

Dalohad:
As a medical scientist and international adjunct professor of health science, I will still earn more than Reno with all his gragra..

Naija my ppl... If the pay was high, we go stil complain and qstn why they can't follow minimum wage for them

floss:
It’s people like you make other countries think that Nigerians voted Tinubu

It ppl like you that makes it look as dou your opinion or choice is Nigerians choice or opinion.... You didn't vote tinubu.... It fine... Very fine.... But accept thatz you.... Not Nigerians... Cos weda you like it or not some other ppl did.... Dey arint less Nigerian Dan you are....

steemlord:
At adult stage, I caught it from harmful farming practice, involving constant spraying of herbicides and pesticides. Access to information and to adequate medicare saved my life. Without those two, It is a killer. I fought it for about 4 years until it completely disappeared.

What are the symptoms you had... How was it diagnose in the hospital

kettykin:
And what exactly is the Nigerian affairs, to use inept, poorly skilled, ill equipped, undisciplined security forces to fight well armed ,vicious and dangerous bandits carrying out the genocide.


This is where the real issues are, Nigeria has bot been able to curtail or stop the killings, it is time for a more disciplined, skilled force to come and stop it

Both you applaud some other African nation for cutting tides with western influence....

Kobojunkie:
Red flag #1. He dated you while you had all those friends around — your social support— you and didn't say anything, but then decided you needed to cut your social circle off completely after marriage. That is a problem. You need to discuss this with him and let him understand that he should be able to see that you need that support, particularly since he is not providing any tangible, meaningful alternative. Depression is real, and many married women in your shoes know this as their lot.

If your partner wishes you to change your friends and social circle because he is in your life or married to you—seriously controlling behavior —, that red flag should be more than enough reason for you to know you are not supposed to be together at all, under any circumstances.

Women Sha... So quick to spot a supposed red flag.... Whc to me isn't a red flag... While leaving the real red flag out...
It is a known fact in life that most times when you chance status, your circle of friends changes.... She is now married but naturaly hanging without singles should naturally stop...
The real red flag is this.... She dated him... She must have noticed his disposition to life... She went ahead to marry him..sje didn't see one of those her highly motivated friends to marry ooo.... She now want to force the guy to change over night..
By the way...... Her own motivated approach to life.. What has she achieved so far... Motion is not movement!!!

Mario619:
Task the harmless poor citizens and give to the greedy state governors and politicians to thief more. I stand for regional system of Government in Nigeria!!!! January when the whole Taxations starts, everybody go feel the hit!!! Na be person go tell you to join street

The regional government.. No be still same Nigerian /politicians go dey run tinx.... Abi na angels go come run am

Timblogga:
I’d like to own this car cos of ground clearance, trunk room and fuel economy.
But this CVT issues is what I want to avoid.

Please what year model of the Honda CR-V 4th generation came with the normal auto trans instead of CVT?

I’m interested.

Good day boss.. Hope your day has been great. Pls did u eventuality got the crv.. What is you experience with the car... How abt the cvt concern u raised.. Thanks in anticipation of your kind reply

Softmirror:
It would have been seriously used against him had those girls lost that final. I see no reason why he shouldn't use the same opportunity in his own favor. One which dispelled that myth been paraded that APC is a cursed party by God hence God will not support the supper Falcons to win.

But God did not only support them in a dramatic way, infact God proved that who ever He chooses to bless, no man can curse.

Exactly what the haters were waiting for.. make the team lose ..then they tag president as the reason for the team failure.

SmartPolician:
Oga, rest! If you are tired of one Nigeria, push for its balkanization. Until then, everyone has the right to live and vote in any part of the country. That's what the constitution says.

No ethnic group has pushed for this madness we call a country to end like the Igbos. If you are tired of the contraption too, get your legislators to do the same.

So u know it should be done by legislators!!! And not individual like Nmadi kalu or sunday igboho.... And if i may ask...why isnt any legislator or governor from the east doing it..... During the last election ..east suddenly forgot the push simply cos they thought peter obi would win the election.

9jatriot:
Yet in spite of all that, the amount of insults the man got was just too much.

The reality for President Buhari was that despite incurring massive debts to fund the fuel subsidy, he remained a constant target of public insults and accusations of economic failure.

This predicament suggests a strategic calculation by President Tinubu: since a leader is likely to face continuous criticism regardless of the subsidy's status, it is more pragmatic to endure the immediate backlash of its removal and, in turn, reap the significant fiscal benefits of reduced borrowing and currency stability.

This approach, while initially painful, aims to avoid the double bind of accumulating astronomical debt while still being perpetually insulted. It was a case of "damned if you do, damned if you don't" dilemma that Nigerian leaders face with the fuel subsidy. It's about weighing the immediate political cost against the long-term economic consequences.

Buhari was moved by passion, Tinubu is an accountant and knows how to deal with numbers more.

Perfectly said

kedeojo:
Why did his successor, Jonathan not build one. You people should go and sit down. Bitter people. Your state governor can build a world class hospital too and we will be proud of him.

U see what we are saying... Cos he mentioned Jonathan..you are angry... Na only Jonathan name him mention? .. whether u like it or not .. Jonathan is as guilty as other ..... If not even more guilty sef....

badoh:
Even if he did not open his mouth waaaaa as you said, was there provision for subsidy after June 2023? So the mere fact that Tinubu informed Nigerians that subsidy is gone is now the offence he committed?

If he had waited to say it later .. dey will stil pin it on him and say ..why didnt he mention it when he took over office that the previous gotv made no provision for it. See this country it difficult to govern. I swear .. people love sweet deceit rather than truth.

Zouzer:
Buhari had his shortcomings, but he was one heck of a firebrand, and also one of the best , if not the best, retail politician since 1999. It doesn't matter whether you liked him or not, it's a fact

Yes he does... Yet ppl dont wana accept others have shortcomings . Particularly when it a southern president......

LagosOrigin:
Fashola government did not Tinubu. Give fashola his flowers and not to the wrong person , Tinubu.

Tinubu didn't do anything as Lagos governor. I was born in this Lagos, bred here and an indigines here . So I will tell you who did what.

Some of people spreading this lies that tinubu developed Lagos aren't even indigines of Lagos but will say anything to deceive people .

Fashola and ambode gave Lagos a face lift not tinubu.

But if they didn't perform you will blame tinubu for making them governors.....same way u blame tinubu throughout buari government.

flokii:
Too be honest, I don't see any of the new coalition leaders getting ADC ticket in 2027. There will be so many quarrels and court cases that even campaigns might not be possible.
PDP will field a Southerner with Northern VP, but PBAT will emerge winner.

Atiku made another big mistake moving to ADC, just like 2023.

Na obi they won use .... One term presidency ... Den atiku takes over.... Dey don leave pdp for wike.... But dey will move their structure to Adc..... All oda noise is intentional to keep apc guesing

LagosOrigin:
Tinubu has continued from where buhari stopped by caring for cows more than he care for human being ..

How has the done dat.....cos i believe if he he had done.. north no go dey fight am

JAWBONE:


Tinubu wey dey always get problem with him deputy.

Same thing happened during his first term as Lagos Governor.

Tinubu moves like a little god who demands your worship.

That is why his supporters are slaves.

If you are not ready to roll yourself like a doormat, you can't work with Tinubu. Ask Koforoworola Bucknor.

Until Sanwo-Olu brought GAC to beg him, he was ready to beef him to the extent of ignoring him in public.

Nothing but an arrogant egomaniac. I don't blame Shettima, he doesn't want to be like Osibanjo.

No educated person should be a slave to another man.

Unfortunately that is what his boss wants.

I think it more abt what it in the Constitution.... Vp has little or no power..... Who was sambo under Jonathan.... Same thing hapen to osinbajo.... That the same reason either obi or atiki doesnt wana be vp....

emkz:
If Obi is a smart politician, let him return to PDP. No one will give him ADC ticket. If he runs under Atiku, both of them might lose.

In 2007, Atiku ran under AC. Despite being a strong politician, far stronger than Umaru Musa Yar'adua, he managed 7.45% of the votes cast.

ADC needs an aggressive campaign to etch it in the minds of the electorate. They don't have the media machinery to do so.

And i think 2 years is not enough time to do dat ?

jmoore:
ADC presidential candidate: Peter Obi

PDP presidential candidate: Yul Edochie

Lol.. wike cant be pdp presidential card ..not because he wudnt want dat. But cos dat will jettison tinubu's apc vote from south east .. particularly rivers... This is getting realy interesting....

It the systematic way he changed the narative for me....it no longer i worked against Jonathan....cos he knows dat will reawaken som ppls anger .. it now i worked against pdp...

Away from that.. i strongly believe they alrdy knows who n who gets d Adc ticket.... But they wana keep tinubu, wike n apc guessing... So they cant tuat thier strategy... Good one if u ask me..