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Apologies pls. But I think he age gap is too small for convinience, esply now that she is an abroad brought up....
I will advise take marriage off the table(cos if u dnt, she will kip playing the good girl card) ... Know her first... As a friend....

My wife prefer to call me dear....at home n in d public..... But am not use to calling her Dat.. I prefer to call her first name.... But at home n in d public.... Each time I call her by her name, it reminds me of the lady I fell in love with, the lady I chase wella to get...... Dat to me means a lot Dan any pet name.... Even after millions of years, she will stil be layo to me...... After all our children grows n leave to be on their own.... Gues wot I stil ve my layo beside me... So simple yet divine...

EngineerBode:
Many times, people seem to dwell on the one single negative and forget to count the many positives. He should focus on the positives

U nailed it

Aids no get cure, yet we no lockdown sex now.... Preventive measure is also the way to go in battling coronavirus

TallPck1:
Used it and it worked perfect. My d**k was lengthy but wasn't fat. But now, make I no talk. My gf would testify!

For now long did u use it.... Did u drink or apply on dick... Or both

Everything is wrong with our electoral system.... The winner of the gubernatorial election lost his sit due to the fake certificate filed by his deputy.... Was that not enough eye opener to check and prove check all the documents n certificate of the incoming governor and deputy, after the disqualification of the winner?
An electoral system that only react, when dey should actually be proactive!!!
Embarrassing the entire state and nation!!

Yobabad:
Why must the do that? Muslims can never do that kind of gesture to any religion in the world, why being fair to them when they can never be fair to others. Most Muslims can never wish happy Christmas or Easter, but some none Muslims will be wishing them happy Salah. Muslims are very bigotry. The criticize any Muslim who wish a none Muslim well.

Let learn to let God fight for himself..... We can't fight for God..... No, we can't... We are too small and powerless to do Dat.

Never!!....... 'Wot did u do for me dat any other man cud not ve done' ..... Datx d statement u will hear after all is said n done.

HeadShot:
Even the blind can see that Buhari is a failure


Why the traitors of the south are still chanting sai barber should be added as a wonder of the world

It's baffling.... They even had to protect themselves from the marauding Fulani herdsmen
Because they dont trust the federal government they support...

It's mind boggling

If only my igbo brothers knew how we got to this point!! U won't blame the yorubas at al, rather u wud all blame ur uncle Nnamdi Azikuwe!!
He was the short sighted one!! He was the real betrayal!! He joined alliance with the North against awolowo advice!. Awolowo was jailed!!

The existing colleges, are they up to standard?? What is the Status of education as a whole in the country?? The millions of graduate out there, any plan to get dem to useful use?? Yet we Wana build more colleges!!!

Iniesta, Pirlo, Schneider, Eto,

gamapoy539:
Beautiful, the the government should increase their tax.

And mtn will also increase the call/sms/data tarrif, Weda openly or secretly...

godkiller:
He shouldn't have.

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chijokz:
The 20k is barely enough for that neighbor or anyone to survive on during this unprecedented times. It makes no sense that if that neighbor still 'pays' 2k to his pastor and then turns around after a week to seek for financial assistance from others.

N u tink not giving out thr 2k will stop her from been broke or asking thr neighbors for financial assistance in the near future? Just saying!!!

Armed robbers terrorising some part of ogun state for som days now. Ifo, oju Ore ota.

The lockdown is realy causing problem

yers6:
I swear!!!!!!!! This is the best policy in education sector in recent years. Was still discussing this very crucial issue with woman days ago!!!!

Imagine a scenario whereby some new generation 'sophisticated' parents wants their wards in JSS 1 at the age of 7, 8, 9 or 10 and by the time the kid is 16 or 17, would already be done with university! And then by 19 would be done with nysc and then start working. And for those in majority, may not get a good job at that stage and so, life problems start hitting them with so much frustration which they were not fully prepared or grounded to face and then they resort to drugs, prostitution and other dangerous vices just to keep face or survive!

And there is where the challenge starts. Because they are still teenagers with the enormous mantle of grown adult's headaches, they become so directionless in life especially because most Nigerian men don't intend to settle down maritally or even take life very serious till they are 30 years and above. FACT!

Come to clubs on the island and you would weep for the new generations our so called enlightened and cosmopolitan parents are now raising. You would see young girls of 15, 16 from mostly Christian and Religious higher institutions of learning like Covenant, Babcock (the Babcock lady giving head last year in the viral video comes to mind here), Redeemers, Mountain Top, Caleb, Unilag, Leads, Alkhima, Afe Babalola, etc, flooding some of the most exquisite, expensive and classy night clubs on the island, in Owerri, Benin, PH, Abuja every and every weekend!

Or why do you think new exquisite clubs are opening up every other day in Lagos and those cities mentioned? High rate of slay queens everywhere? Or astronomical numbers of mamalawos on IG? Or the fact that weed, codeine, and other 'get high' drugs are recording the craziest sales ever? Its beyond just the fact there are big boys ready to spend but simply because the young and willing underage girls from the higher institutions of learning abounds massively like the sands in the ocean. You see young girls at age 17, 18, 19 among them already having flapping and seriously sagged breasts**.

And you begin to wonder if they are not young girls from so called prestigious and religious universities where security was very tight, where morals were preached and impacted on all fronts, where their parents spend fortunes on them to be in so called best schools?

If you were one brought up in a strict home and responsible background and happen to see things as they are in those cities mentioned, you would weep bitterly.

Don't get get this submission wrong as this is not to generalise that all underaged kids in universities are bad or irresponsible. Far from it. Still a lot are well raised and doing remarkably well even after graduation. Because age at times doesn't translated to maturity. But the danger lies in having kids who are not raised well to fully absorb the crude shocks of life in the majority!

How can you explain so many 16 years olds in 400 level in universities but are already deeply enmeshed in drug abuse? Or the girls that have committed several abortions that they have lost counts? Or those who have been to 100's of exquisite clubs in and out of the country at age 16/17? Thats why you see so many childish comments on social media posts and forum especially on Nairaland in recent years and you begin to wonder, who are these so called young adults with terribly childish mentality? How can you then explain the highest numbers of young boys and girls committing suicides in recent years when we all know Nigerian rarely commit suicide? By time the damage has been seriously done on those boys and girls, you now see their mother's en masse in churches and other religious gatherings seriously praying and fasting for God to touch the soul of those already destroyed children.

We play and pray too much in this country!

Good n insightful....
1. But don't you think this is basically a resultant effect of bad parenting n not cos of early school entries.
2. How will they get jobs, if they graduate at 30+ with job entry age peg at 24/25

Good one. God bless u sir. God bless everyone that was part of this

For me, I tink it all boils down to RESPECT!!
When he had notin, how did u treat him!! Yes u stayed but how did u treat him!! Like a king or u talk to him like he is trash!!
He sees how u treat him, even if he doesn't say or express it!! But once his level changes, it pay back time!!

rtdCivilservant:
Stupid thread. When we are trying to fix our fragile unity somebody came up with a stupid topic to divide us the more. Rubbish.

Am happy we still have ppl on nl who cherish our national unity. God bless u

This society double standard sef! If na the wife go Bleep outside, ppl here will be fast to conclude she went out cos d husband no dey satisfy her. But if the man goes outside, he becomes a dog Dat goes after anything in skirt.. God saves men mehn!!!

Ve had som misterious dreams.
1..i was bin driven in a car by a lady, who was sitting on a wheel chair, yet driving me.. I looked suprise she cud in d dream. But he drop me in front of 2 big jointed shopping complex painted Dip n light green. Paid her n she drove off. I went into d showing complex saw ppl jumping n laughing playfully with Xmas Deco here n there.

2. I was bin chased in a dream n I had 2 golden cufflink with me. I ran so fast n gave my chaser som clear distance. Went to a corner buried the cufflinks inside d soil to kip dem. Ran back to giver my chaser a decoy. D chaser lost a track of me. So I went back to where I buried d cufflinks but I cud not get the exert point I buried dem.


3. I had a dream that am to get a deal of 50milio from a man by name rotimi Williams. I wake up n Google d name. The most prominent person with Dat name is a dead man

OlawaleBammie:
Better tell ur wife the real gist to make her sit right and u guys should work more on ur sexuality and attractiveness.

But wait, is divorce the solution to everything? cus me i dont understand oo

Me i cant divorce oo, i would rather go polygamous... Anybody that tell me polygamy is a sin should also tell me if David, Solomon, Abraham, Job, Jacob, Mohammed and the rest are currently in hellfire., If u cant tell me dat den shut whatsoever in ur mind up...

Whether or not polygamy is sin is really not the issue but the problem that comes with polygamy!! I hop u read the full story of the ppl u mention and the problem polygamy caused them. The resultant effect of one of them is stil causing problem to the world till date!!

Arsenalholic:
I am surprised at many Nigerians sha... They seem to watch back of TV like we used to say as kids.

Compare our team to that of Algeria and you'd see a massive gap. The Algerians were more tactically astute and surprisingly fitter. The Cameroonian team and South African team were a lot poorer and that was why we had any chance against them.

I have been saying this:

Genot Rorh plays an obsolete brand of football.

In this modern age hardly do you see teams withdrawing into their own half of the pitch when the opposition defenders are bringing it forward. You have to PRESS the defenders and block every expected passing option. Pep Guardiola made this "modern tactics" popular. And many teams use it now.

Madagascar used it against us and we saw the result.

Today, the Algerians did the same thing.

Since the first day of the tournament I watched out football and was immediately unimpressed. Even against Burundi we were playing this kind of obsolete football.

They play like this waiting to counter without any meaningful passing triangles. Once the opposition score, they get out of their shell and start to press. Then once they get a goal, they sit back and start to invite pressure again.

We need a coach that is up to date with modern football... And more importantly can blend our team together as a unit.

I hope Senegal now go ahead and do West Africa proud come Friday

Well said. But my fear is, even our boyz, r dey able n willing to adapt to play modern football, looking at their performances and stands at their various clubs. ndidi z etebo, chukwueze. Well most of d guyz r good. Dey just played with fear n too much respect for the Algerian, which dey saw n used wisely.

Op, please correct the punctuation error in the topic. The coma should come after Nigeria, n not before.

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Nigerians with religion sentiment! The ideal candidate for this present government would n should ve bin buari--Fasola combo but we all shouted and fought the muslem-muslem combo. Now here we are! A docile osinbajo who knows little or nothing about governance n a ride over for buari.

autologic:
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These robbers are clown! They ain't man Enof! I mean if they are let them go face the ppl in government! Steal from them and kill them!! Y kill a man who is also hustling with uniform to feed himself n family.

PaChukwudi44:
President's son is not an official capacity!!! When exactly will you people learn!!

U stil don't get it! Who cares about the capacity here! Or would you have asked of what capacity, if it was the guys funeral!