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England...... Brazil vs England final.... England to win it

Thatz women for us..... They reaffirm that financial responsibility is the husband's duty but fail to realize house chores is their.... They manipulate and gas light u into helping with house chore:
1..I can't wash his cloth... Am not his maid...
2..i can cook, am tired... If u are hungry.. Go to the kitchen...
3. No more sex, cos am tired cos of house chores... If u want sex.. Get a maid or assist me...
Marriages are stil working cos men decides to take all these without being emotional abt it, unlike the female gender.....

Woah!!!
Very laudable from Mayorall
First of it kind on nairaland...
I hereby write to register my interest. I realy need the laptop for two major reasons.

1..As a biochemist, I work as a production supervisor in an fmcg and have for some years long to take my career even further by learning ERP( enterprise resource planning) skills. This will help me better manage my production activity and well as position me for career growth.

2. As a father with 2 growing kids ( ages 8 & 5).. It is my desire to introduce my kids to the IT world early. I would realy appreciate if mayorall can help me achieve this... It will mean a lot to me and my family....
Thank you and God bless.

Liver n kidney function tests should be made normal routine checks in Nigerian hospitals.... So all these are noticed untime

Samantha125:
The thread is about men who avoid marriage and not about those who survive one... Know the difference between avoiding and surviving.

Are you saying u dnt know one of the reason why men now avoid marriage is reducing rate of successful marriages?... Or what are you sayin exactly...

Samantha125:
That time there are always weddings or engagement parties every weekend in my community back home... And as I speak now, I have like 10 wedding invitations from now till September.

Note there is a wide difference between wedding and marriage... What % of dos wedding invite survives the first 5yrs togeda as couples?

We all think atiku is selfish... I think he knows he won't win.. He is only printing his name on the people's mind and lip prior to 2031. Because by 2031 several other political might wl stil come forward to contest.. But by then atiku Wil be the household name cos he has contested several times....

hassan4:
Typical of him. Why not Protest now that things are out of order? Let me guess, a Yoruba man is in power so no need.

And has anyone stop you or pastors of ur tribe to go out and protest this yoruba government like he did?....
Let me guess... U guyz lack the balls needed to... You only prefer to complain n bully on social media...

PigTormentor:
The worst tribalists among us are the ones that cry the most.
The people who are rhe worst of the worst, who sees tribe a d religion in everything are the same people who are always quick to bring tribalism into any discussion.
Imagine these people calling people tribalistic just because they prefer a different candidate.
It's pathetic and sad what you people are doing to your heritage and lineage.
You have opened up your secretive tribalistic tendencies and j9w we all know that everything in your life revolves around tribe and religion.
I already knew this a while ago, but I think most Nigerians can now see how bad you are.
I was buying all Range Rover parts from an Igbo guy back in the early 2000, this was when Range Rover and the parts we're not that common like now.
The day I bought one part from a Yoruba seller, the guy had the audacity to ask me if I had bought that one thing from the other guy because he's Yoruba. I was so pissed off that I stopped doing business with him. Imagine someone that have given 95 percent of the business to, complaining .

You dey mind dem... They hate and call yoruba who support fellow yoruba tribalist, even when the reason behind the support is far deeper Dan the mere sentiment of tribe .... But they love n want igbo to support fellow igbo...
Live and let odas live.. U can't bully or force a choice on ppl... Let everyobe make dir choice...

Tjra:
You mean Atiku is coming?


Let me quote this comment so I can come back to laugh again in few weeks

Since dey are were able to convinced kwakwaso.... It simply seems that unified presidential candidate is obi....and kwakwaso as vp
.... Atiku is stepping aside to take d baton as 2031.... He will Rada wait to do 8yrs...

They are only been smart... They can see several of their customers have swap to glo.....

But why the unnecessary hate towards this man... He was minister.. Una dey call him out... Now he Don resign... Another wahala...
Even when we all know the problem in that electricity sector.... Those before him, where they able to solve the electricity problem? As smart as fasola was, he couldn't.....
It was easy for Mr president to replace finance minister.. But am too sure it wouldn't be that easy to replace power minister... Cos everybody go dey avoid the wahala...

Gerrard59:
Una dey try o.

Walai! I don't envy married men in Nigeria. Una dey try o. No wonder some of my guys are surprised when I bring up marriage talks. They dread it like mad!!

It is well... Wot can we do... We don enter, we don enter... But if truly there is a nxt life... Omo... I wont do Dat mistake too...

The single men can see how the so called serious men who married early are suffering..... Due to the one sided mentality of Nigerian women....
As a man:
I pay for rent... Which is Goin up yearly
I pay school fees... Also Goin up yearly
I feed the family... Also Goin up yearly
I dey execute a project, wit zero support from her....(somtin the whole family will benefit oo).
She will become manipulative If I dnt give her money for hair and her upkeep(even when she earns too but she has been conditioned to think it my responsibility to care for her) .... Saying I dnt know how to care for a wife...
I must also Com back from a 7-7 work and help with the house chores... If I dnt, am not a caring husband...
.... Single guyz sees and hear all these.... They are not willing and ready to commit...

Go check the Stat...most times.... Who dies first.... Nigerian married men or their wives....

When I was a single guy.... My pay was 35k as a graduate, working as an admin officer at a university..... I changed job, got married... My pay is now 250k with 2 kids ....i dey borow money before month ends...

Gues wot, a single guy colleague on same level at my previous job and stil there ... Now earns 100k... But stil single, looks fresh everyday..... Him dey pity us wey rush to marry...

Newsmills:
Just politicians'tricks to instill fears,if you know you know,it is government sponsored brigandage to intimidate people against 2027.

How pls.... Na WA oo

franchasng:
...and the person is absolutely correct. Nigeria can never become a developed nation of our dreams like Japan, Korea, etc, not going to be possible except Nigeria breaks up into smaller countries.


We only want excellent, accountable leaders like Peter Obi to lead us in order to set some things straight so we can continue with our normal Nigerian mediocre life


All I want from the next President is:

1.) End this madness of insecurity that have made Nigerian highways and almost every part of Nigeria a risk

2.) Implement electronic voting and other things that will make our elections free, fair, credible to at least 90% so Nigerians can start electing their desired leaders, and so that politicians can start delivering on their campaign promises knowing fully well that only their performance will reelect them and not relying on tribal-religious rhetoric and gimmicks like Bola

3.) Cut down cost of governance in Nigeria.


These three things are the only things I expect Peter Obi or next President to tackle head on



But as for Nigeria becoming developed like this Japan, Korea, Singapore and co, its not ever going to be possible again, sadly

See... Even with obi as president... All this Wil stil be impossible....... Cos obi can't do all these in isolation.... He will need the senate.... The house of rep... Governors.... Even ordinary aids can be sabotouers.... Cos of greed... Our average politicians are greedy.... Another problem is the northern ideology of u must do want we want.... Even when it draining the country..... And if he doesn't dance to dos tune... Him Don buy job be Dat..... Military would have been the better option... But even our military guys are greedy and selfish.... So we are in for a long ride

This country is funny.... We blame wike for holding tight to fubura's led rivers state, sayin he made him governor... We all call wike names...

Yet we stil blame tinubu who try not to be ordered around by ppl who claimed to have made him president...... Same ppl who former president, Jonathan worked with but all stab him at the back.

This country is funny.... We blame wike for holding tight to fubura's led rivers state, sayin he made him governor...

It is a good one.. But we need to be proactive in things like this... Cos our ppl are also funny... Things like this should be done earlier.. Before market prices soar... Cos our ppl once dem increase prices of goods... Dey won't revert back price even with such government intervention

Atimes I believe those calling Nigeria a zoo.. Cos all through our education system.... U will be traumatized by people, lecturers, teachers, Li, Zi, ordinary universities admin staffs... Cos dey occupy a position or an office.... I cannot forget how a uni admin staff almost made me slept in d forest overnight... How a lecturer made me cry... How my Li fulstrate my stay.... All these and u expect a nice, gentle n God fearing graduate!?..... The funny tin be say all these people sef go dey blame ppl in government..... Whereas their wickedness in Dat small office dey occupy is legendary....

happney65:
Shey ori niyen?

At the twilight of the end of your term you are now shouting state policing. Our people are being killed yet he no concern you

Trump might be a crazy Man,but Man pushes forward with his plans and promises. But what has this negha done except to dey promise and promise and talk say he dey do one coastal road..

He can't even do it sha. He and his followers fears the North like mad and those ones do not want any state policing. They like the current status quo

Awọn oluya

He fear North. He fear norht
Malami dey detention
El rufai dey detention
He stopped dollar black market... ABOKI business
He stopped subsidy
I Wish previous governments could fear North like this

This trend proves and again affirm the obvious.... Nigerians only condemns bad behavior if it not been done by their tribe.... We can all see how not even one of his tribe has Come out to condemn the act..... But if it was done by another tribe... U would have been seeing curses and insults.....
Same thing would have happened if the offender was a yoruba man......
We are not realy ready to make this country better... We are only pretending..... Wen it my tribe... U hear... Abeg make una free am jare..... But wen it another tribe... U will hear... Kill him

Tenses:
Not real. 98% of Igbo politicians are in the APC.

Very funny... No wonder 98% of Igbos were singing luuupee from top to bottom last election.... Same way Apc cleared 98% of the votes in the Eastern states..

Tenses:
Yorubas go tell you say northerners dey pull this country backward but nah them dey drag this country backer ward.

If no be their greed for power wetin concern buhari for aso rock?

The same greed for power is driving south east to join force with atiku and El rufai...

Winterhaven:
As long as blacks keep reacting and giving these racists attention, then racism will never end...

Completely ignore such racists and give them zero attention and watch how racism due to skin colour will gradual fade away.

You no well

Winterhaven:
As long as blacks keep reacting and giving these racists attention, then racism will never end...

Completely ignore such racists and give them zero attention and watch how racism due to skin colour will gradual fade away.

You be idiot
Apologies for the foul word... U never deserve that..... Just a test to see how u will react.... Since u dey advise us to ignore racial comment and gesture.

Solape1:
Nice one, if you have any family members working in the civil service of any parastatals in Nigeria and they are making things difficult for us Nigerians, it will not be well with them.

U see that na very few ppl like... If na curse for ppl in government now...millions for Don click like.... Note, am not exonerating those idiots in government ooo... Am only saying many of our people sef no dey try, particularly those in civil service and it shows they will Do worse if elected into political offices

autoez:
Good decision but Chukwueze must never play for eagles again

The will... Cos he is stil one of our best winger.... Simon is old and will leave soon

verminnel:
Get a partner and get married ,that should help.

Lol... The next post u will be reading will be from the wife.... '' I need help.. My hubby won kill me with sex"......
Then you will advise the wife to tell her hubby..... Sex is not food....
All am sayin is getting married will not solve it.... Ladies only pretend to like sex when u dey court dem.... Once u marry dem.... U go dey hear... Pls not tonight.... Pls.. I have headache.... Pls we need to talk abt this sex issue.... Is not food na... Smiles..

plessis:
Amaechi built railway to Niger Republic but did nothing for river and igbo people.

And do you know how many igbo and rivers people using that rail for business and for som other purpose ... We should out grow scoring their performance based on what they did for their tribe or locals...

Adakintroy:
Now I know we don't deserve to be at the world cup. Against a much tactically organize team That were willing do the press Structurally We just had no answer. Could not play out from the back. No wing play enough to bring out cross. Our target man was more or less a box man. Can't drop deep to pick up possession and run with it. It was just a repetitive long balls from the defense to the attackers hoping something drops luckily. Against an even more organized Europeans that press in unison. We stand zero chance of even coming out from our half. We lack a really technical holding midfielder. Iwobi de try. But he is not a natural 10. Against average team he will strive. But against natural central attacking midfielders., he will struggle to find his bearing as well as indidi Who has pass his prime. The best they can pull off is what they have. Against distinctively average teams. They not good enough against well drilled side.

Fact!!

Dpsychologist:
Let’s drop the sugarcoating and speak plain truth. Dating a single mother is not romance movie material. It’s real life. If you’re not built for it, you’ll suffer and she’ll suffer more. This isn’t hatred. It’s honesty.

I’ll keep it simple and relatable.

1. You will never come first. Ever.
If her child is sick and you’re having a bad day, guess who waits. You.
If school fees are due and you want a weekend getaway, plans are cancelled.
If you need to be number one in a woman’s life, this lane is not for you.

2. Her past is not theory. It’s active reality.
That baby didn’t fall from the sky. There is an ex somewhere.
Co parenting calls. Family ties. Old wounds.
If small jealousy already dey choke you, this situation will finish you.

3. Responsibility will find you, even if you run.
You say “I’m not the father.” Fine.
But wait till school resumes, rent is due, or hospital bills show up.
Reality doesn’t respect motivational quotes. Pressure will knock.

4. Her time is scheduled, not spontaneous.
You can’t just say “I’m outside” at 11pm.
You can’t randomly disappear and reappear.
Her life runs on routines. If you hate structure, you’ll feel trapped fast.

5. Emotional stress comes in bulk.
You’re not just dealing with her moods.
You’re dealing with a child’s emotions, an ex’s influence, and family opinions.
One small misunderstanding can turn into a full-blown crisis meeting.

6. Stability is not optional, it’s required.
Inconsistency is cute when you’re 22 and carefree.
With a single mom, it’s an instant red flag.
If you’re still “finding yourself,” please find yourself elsewhere.

7. You don’t gain what you think you gain.
She’s not there to build you.
She’s not there to fund you.
She’s not there to emotionally babysit you.
If sex is the main attraction, both of you are just passing time.

8. Manipulation can happen if you’re not sharp.
Some will gaslight you with “you knew I had a child” anytime accountability comes up.
Others will weaponize guilt.
If you’re emotionally weak, you’ll be confused and drained.

9. Society will talk and you’ll hear it.
Friends will whisper. Family will advise.
“You could have done better” will start ringing in your head.
If you’re easily influenced, pressure will push you out anyway.

10. Love alone is not enough here.
This setup needs patience, money, maturity, and thick skin.
If you don’t have at least three, you’re not ready.

Final truth:
If you can’t handle responsibility, structure, delayed gratification, emotional stress, and public judgment, don’t date a single mom. Not because she’s bad. But because you’re not ready.

And this applies beyond single mothers.
If you can’t handle real life complications, don’t date anyone seriously.

Dating is not sympathy work.
It’s readiness.

Be honest with yourself.
It will save you, and it will save her.


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Feminine gender is just something else... They are single and dey feel you have to go out of ur way to make dem feel like a woman... They are single mother... Another wahala... Making demands on you.... The demands they couldnt make on their baby daddy....... And to think they can't accept all these long espitles from a single dad oooo