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neche2007:
This is the handiwork of the cabal now. Truly Buhari is dead or incapacitated. It's like osibanjo has secretly agreed to resign. Now with charges levelled against saraki and Ekwerenmadu might convict them by fire or by force. Now the country will go for a new election. Which the north hoped to win.

You people truly dont know the meaning of Power! Nobody and Nothing on Earth can Make Osibanjo retire! Rather he will Fire people and put in his own men. Power can change a man overnight

Mujtahida:
Those who believe always follow those who know. Why not do some bit of research on the lead I gave before settling in to your beliefs? The Internet is awash with information. Read, read my bro

Read my post again, The Museum is right here where I reside! My Country here was occupied by the Germans and I have been watching Documentries on this stuff yearly for more than 15yrs... So you can understand why it's a bit hard to believe just one man or couple of books when the real people are here... I am not arguing with you oh!

Izen:
Hi guys. I'm in an emotional dilemma and I think the pressure of yet another Valentine's day without a boo is getting to me. Please as much as my write up might piss you off, please try not to insult me. I'm trying to avoid a total meltdown. Thanks in advance.

So there's this guy, we've been very close friends for six years now. There has always been romantic feelings on my part and I used to have the tiniest bit of hope that it was mutual. This was until he started dating a mutual friend. What hurt the most was that he tried to hide it from me despite our closeness. He claims it wasn't his idea though.

Let's just say I borrowed myself brain after that or so I thought. I started avoiding him as much as I could but he wouldn't let me be. He eventually asked me point blank if I liked him and after much beating about the bush, I answered in the affirmative. Apparently, other friends of ours had had to call his attention to my crush on him cos dude was clueless, "according to him". I asked him if he felt the same way and he told me that I was like a little sister to him. Alas, I was sister-zoned. Note that the age gap between us is barely more than a year. He told me he wouldn't lose me as a friend because I was special. Why wouldn't he just let me go?
Fast forward to a year+, he broke up with the mutual friend though I remained friends with both of them. I had nothing to do with the break up o. I was more comfortable rekindling our close friendship then since there was no longer a conflict of interest. It took me almost two years to get over him so at that time, my heart had moved on to other prospective guys.

Years down the line, I had to change locations to another state. It was one he was familiar with and had and still has a lot of business dealings in. Let's just say I still get to see him a lot.

We both dated other people. I got badly burnt by my ex and he was there for me. The tough love kind. As we spoke about my ex, that was when it hit me. This guy has always and probably will always have my back. I felt so comfortable sharing details with him. I knew then that I missed him a lot. I've been wondering what could have been between us ever since then. In fact, I started referring to him as my best friend. I know it's only a matter of time before it's necessary to let go of that bond tho. He's gone get married to his true bestie one day.

The thing now his, he's changed a bit. I know this because we've been friends a long time and I know him well. The calls have been more frequent, longer, etc. He always tries to see me when he can, same with me. This has got me wondering if this is the way normal friendships between the opposite sex are. He now says things like, "You're this and that and it's probably why you have an issue with XX. You do the same to me but I've come to accept it, there's nothing I can do about it". I interpreted this as him sticking with me flaws and all.
At one of our discussions, he told me he would love to marry someone he's known for a long time and he used us as an example. I went on the defensive immediately and told him I couldn't marry him. That bothered him a lot and he didn't stop until he pressed me for a reason. I threw his question back in his face and asked him if he could marry me and he said yes. I pushed harder and asked if he would marry me (not as a proposal lol), he laughed about this. I eventually told him I couldn't marry him cos he hasn't proposed to me and I cannot propose to him. When he tried to form, "so you'll marry me if I ask you to", I just asked to drop the topic totally.

I know I'm supposed to be elated but instead I'm hurt. I feel like I've been emotionally played and I'm still being played in my best years. How can he do this now? Does he know how much it cost me to try to get over him the first time? Apparently, I never fully succeeded. He's toying with my emotions again and I believe he knows that. I wanted to remind him that he sister-zoned me but I held back. I can't do this again guys. Please, I just can't.
Do you think he now has romantic feelings for me but he's deliberately holding back. Do you think he's trying to give me hints? I'm tempted to shut this friendship down totally. I can't go through this heartbreak again. It hurt the first time and I'm sure it'll hurt more this time. I know shutting down this friendship will be like a break up for me cos he's been such a huge part of my life but I think that's the only way I can truly get over him. I may or may not tell him but I plan to gradually withdraw. No calls, no texts, until he gets the memo. I really need to heal cos my relationship with him has indirectly affected other relationships I have. I'm falling madly in love with him again and I need it to stop.

So guys, please should I let go now or should I hold on to a little hope that he comes around based on his recent actions.?

The Craziest part of this is, you are very Comfortable telling Total Strangers (Us) all these, but you couldnt tell it to someone you called a good friend? You wasted so many Years beating around the Bush hiding something (your Feelings) and yet you want us to believe you truly care about this guy? I have seen girls that truly Love and care about Guys, they break with norms of Society, Go after the guy! Spill their hearts out and Win the Love they so desire. So you might want to excuse me if I say your description or story is just Childish Puppy Love! And whenever you deside to grow up, you will go after him if you truly Love him, and not only going after him, you will also Win him over by pouring your Heart out with this very story you just told us. Worst case Scenerio, he will say NO! and then you will know for 100% and then move on with your life

LeView:
Life is simple we just complicate things.

Instead of having a relationship with him in your head you could just speak to him. All this we are so close crap yet you can't tell him what's important. Lol! Us women are soo crazy! I love where you blamed him for doing something he doesn't even know he is doing! When will we quit this victim card we pull out whenever we are emotionally confused! Tell the man what's eating you up! Tell him with a smile that you need a little space to clear your head because your friendship is making you feel a connection that might not be there.


Ps for future reference! Men and women who are attracted to each other can never be friends! Maybe If there were no feelings especially from you because you are the one who complicated things here by befriending a man you love.

Stop being a coward if he's such a great friend he will understand. Although your relationship /friendship sounds a bit fake. Anyway, do the right thing and not the easy thing that's my advice to you.

Thank you!

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Nick4life:
Hah waiting this Sahara desert guy dy do?? E dy protest abi e come apologize to Gej The guy nah first class zombie as at 2015 and upper first class zombie after Gej lost the election. The guy zombism pass sarrki own self

A lot of people just don't get it... The Sahara Reporter's guy is doing what he is supposed to do! Sahara Reporters helped in the Fight against Yaradua's Cabal to make sure Goodluck Jonathan was sworn in! They played one of the Greatest Role.... Soon as Yaradua's Cabal was gone and Jonathan became the President, their Focus Zoomed in on him and started fighting his bad policies etc.. Untill Buhari came in, (And I told everybody back then, that soon as Buhari becomes President, Sahara Reporters will start fighting his government and bad policies) And that is exactly what is happening now! It is not the duty of journalists to Take Sides with Government, rather they take side with the People and Fight even the Best government. It is because most Nigeria Jounalists are Lazy or compromised that is why it looks as if Sahara Reporters seems to be the only one out there.. In the Western World they are always fighting the government non stop so I don't know why some Nigerians believe Sahara Reporters etc should have taken it easy with Goodluck Jonathan's PDP or whoever for that matter.

Mujtahida:
Explorers please I respect your top notch research on a host of very intellectually stimulating topics but would you mind if I suggested that you do some bit of research on the holocaust beyond the accepted historical narrative? For a cue goggle Ernest Zundel, Robert Faurisson, Fred Luetchner, David Irving and read on what they have written about the famed holocaust. Do you know that denying that the holocaust ever happened is a crime in about 17 countries? Do you know that the memoirs of great men who were central to the events of the second world war such as Winston Churchill, Charles de Gaulle, Dwight Einsenhuower does not even mention the holocaust? Do you know that the famed Anne Frank's diary has been busted as fake by Robert Faurisson? Do you know that the numbers of people alleged to have died at Autscitwz was reduced in recent times? There's more to the holocaust story than has been let out. Please be wary of the danger of a single story.

Hmmm!!!! ANNE FRANK cant be fake if we have the Museum right here with us and hundreds of people visit it every year if not thousands! Unless Robert Faurisson is also saying the Museum and everything in it right here in Amsterdam is Fake! And if that is true, to what extent did they create this Fake? To make money off the Museum? To change the Cause of History? Naaah!!! I dont think so cos every year during "Bevrijding Dag" (Leberation day) when Holand was Leberated they show so many different documentaries on TV and you see Close neigbours, Families and even some people that are still alive give account of so many things... anyway I don't believe Anne Frank's Diary is Fake... You cant fake that!

maxisaso:
http://www.thearticle.com.ng/2017/02/nigeria-is-now-in-trouble-ffk-says-as.html

He said this few minutes ago




https://mobile.twitter.com/realFFK/status/828282707188776961

So Childish! Don't these people ever get tired? Buhari is Sick! Buhari is on Vacation! Buhari is never coming Back! Blah! Blah! Blah! Bottomline is he followed the constitution and handed over to his Vice.. So Nigeria has a President (Acting) and he is doing his Job. As long as Buhari has not broken any law I don't see the need for all these alarm! If anything at all, people like Fani Kayode that doesnt like him should be Happy that somebody else is the President (at the momment) Everything doesnt have to be about sounding Alarm!.... When Yaradua was Sick for a long time, they didnt hand over to his Vice (Jonathan) but a Cabal was in charge.. Today we have the Vice taking over (Reason why that office was created in the first place) so why all these?

Great move. its always nice that Nigerian celebrities are signed on as Abassadors of Nigerian businesses

True! Government has no right to stop people from protesting, as long as it is a Peaceful Protest