i really dont mind been single for a while. and the reason i made this thread was because of a girl i met somtimes ago,she was the one actually flirting with me at work and i eventually asked her out and we ve been together for 3months.i dont seems to like this girl really much because shes too jealous for my liking(always complaining im always on my phone when i should give her attention)and always talking about how her parent always advice her not to marry a black man.she came to me couple of days ago that she wanted to break up which really broke my heart.she later send a text yesterday that she ve been crying all day and night because shes loosing me that she never realized how much i meant to her until she broke up with me and asked if we could get back together again..

thanks for all the responses.i think im just the needy,clingy and pushy type who always want attentions..is there any way you can stop yourself from getting attached to girls easily?i cant deny the fact that im a player even if someone shows me true love..

Seems like nearly every girl I date or hook up with I get attached too Quickly And it's just about the only thing that effects me. i fall in love or obessed with them easily and i end up hurting myself.even when i dont seems to like them i always feel hurt whenever they stop seeing me or stop talking to me..i ve had many sexual relationships without anything attached(mostly whites girls)i and i dont show any sign of seriousness buh i get heartbroken when we stop talking..

i ve got nigerian passport..thanks for your help

i was going through the nigerian immigration website and i saw she will need an invitation letter..do i have to write the letter myself?

thanks

we planning to get married in nigeria and obviously she need a visa i just dont know the right visa she required..