Romance › Re: Squarely Facing These Seven REALITIES About Relationships! by Arnold4Ever: 4:22pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
vhickky: hustling guys are evil, u are their taste till they make money and dump You to upgrade for someone they feel is better......... say no to love use your brain! By their utterances you shall know them.... |
Romance › Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by Arnold4Ever: 3:55pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Empero1: The truth is that , there is a difference between education and illiteracy . There is a higher chance for someone who's informally educated in a multi-ethnicity country like ours to be illiterate in our national lingua franca . Take for instance , an informal educated building technologist ( brick layer ) , let me assume that your local dialect is Igbo language same as the this guy . Now , this kind of person may lack the ability to express himself properly in English language , so also would he find it hard to present his acquired knowledge in the filed of building technology in the queens language . But , I bet you , when you engage him in discussion in your local dialect and hear him talk and lecture you about his specialized field of knowledge in the local dialect in which he was taught the work , you would be amazed at the level of knowledge and wisdom he has . This is also applicable to roadside car mechanics .
Summary of my analysis above is this ; one can be illiterate in a particular language and at the same time be educated . So , life is all about packaging - education and wisdom does it all . You can package that illiterate man in English language , to become the literate man you want him to be in any language of your choice , as long as he has wisdom and is educated ( formally/informally ) . South African president , Jacob Zuma comes to mind , he never had formal education , but you dare not tell me that someone like him is an illiterate , no . I hope you get my drift . You are absolutely right....unable to communicate in english does not necessarily mean you are complete illiterate...shikena!!! Education can be in any language ....french, german, spanish, arabic.........Is only in this country that inability to speak english means illiteracy. Quite large numbers of Nigerian graduates.. so called LL.B, BSc, PHd holder are miseducated and illiterate just like our Presido -Dr. Jonathan. Lots of guys out there if given education in their dialect will come out better.....check out chineses, japanese, koreans...... |
Romance › Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by Arnold4Ever: 3:44pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
divalindiway: I would say no. Reasons....The level of reasoning might be diff. My Problem is nt neccesarily the fact dat the person is an illiterate. My problem is the person might be ignorant. e.g we hv a quarrel,and am right and i know i am right and i know that the wrong decision would lead to grievieous consequences. This person might not want to agree cos he feels 'eh all these people wey go sch wey tink say dem no everytin' Then again, lets say i hv a social function to attend wit my girls e.g a baby shower. He might start to say 'which one is baby shower again' Most times its not d title but d attitude. A guy once asked me if i wud like to marry a business man dat is a secondary sch drop out. I sed no problem and den i asked him,if years go by in the marriage and suddenly mayb my Classmate becomes the president of Nigeria and asks me to join his cabinet, would he allow me? He kept mute. explain better so that she can understand if she's ignorant...shoki!!! that's deviation...illiteracy and ignorance are 2 different things |
Romance › Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by Arnold4Ever: 3:38pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
true talk Empero1: I for one , the two categories of illiterates I cannot marry are ( 1 ) One that glosses her ignorance with mastery of the queens language all in the name of acquired formal education , but lack basic knowledge about life education and wisdom . ( 2 ) The second type is the one that outrightly lack both knowledge of life education and wisdom ( this type is dumb ) .
Meanwhile , I will marry that woman whom those that fall on my number one list of rejection above , tag as illiterate all because she lacks formal education and has no paper certificate , whereas she has full knowledge of life education and wisdom albeit informally , and can speak fluently her local dialect through which she acquired knowledge about life education and wisdom ( and knows a bit how to read and write both basic local dialect and lingua franca ) .
In summary , the word " Illiterate " means different thing to different people . |
Culture › Re: Sleepless Ordeals Of Nigerians.. by Arnold4Ever: 10:24pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Naija we aid u.... |
Politics › Re: Nigerians Will Praise Me After Leaving Office - Jonathan by Arnold4Ever: 10:19pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Oga jonatan don finish oooo. The law of the land will surely judge you and determine whether you deserve to be praised or life imprisonment. Yeye dey smell!!! |