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Cecediva:
hahaha. If falcao cnt succeed in united is it in chelsea he will perform? Another waste of money

Especially with Mourinho in charge. I am not trying to be sentimental but a move to Arsenal would have been better. Under Wenger, he has a better chance of rescuing his career.

Cecediva:
Hahaha am not bullied o . Am the only daughter sha, so am surrounded with guys.

So I was technically write. Perfect. Waiting sha.

I thought it the ladies who enjoy bringing their friends along? No sensible man does that nonsense.‎ Women ( those between 23-27 especially) are fond of that nonsense.

Cecediva:
How can GEJ planned to relocate boko haram terrorist in less than a year after winning the election? There's no way peter obi will support such thing considering the fact that the prison is very close to his home town. Terrorist (Prophet) mohammed buhari is the brain behind this relocation.

I got ur post i wil reply u soon.

And yes I am waiting for that reply. And was just thinking about our conversation yesterday, how on earth are you a female and like football and politics? I am guessing last born of the family and the others are boys and you got bullied into liking what they like?

Cecediva:
How can GEJ planned to relocate boko haram terrorist in less than a year after winning the election? There's no way peter obi will support such thing considering the fact that the prison is very close to his home town. Terrorist (Prophet) mohammed buhari is the brain behind this relocation.

I got ur post i wil reply u soon.

It is enough that you are on the opposite ( wrong side) by being a Manchester United fan, I won't take you on when it comes to politics. Let's leave it like that.

What I know for sure is that you and I will be happy with a better Nigeria. Where things work. I am Nigerian first Arsenal fan second, tribe/religion is divisive to me, I don't regard both.

imhotep:
Why are you attacking me for statements made by your slave master Sanusi?
Ok, since you are tired, relax by reading this website ==>

http://pointblanknews.com/pbn/exclusive/yorubas-are-the-problem-with-nigeria-says-sanusi-lamido-sanusi/

You are so keen to drag me to you level cos you know once we get to your level you will win, my man, it isn't happening, give up already.

You will hopefully find out one day that igbos are not better than yorubas and yorubas are not better than igbos.

Cecediva:
So you believed that rubbish report? There's no way peter obi will be in support of relocating those animals to anambra state. How can you sign something since 2012 and its taking effect in 2015. Obiano and terrorist buhari is behind this rubbish simple.

Oh well, I may be wrong and I may be right as well. Politics is a dirty game, never underestimate what these people can do.

And I never said Peter Obi ( whose fan I am), the report mentioned GEJ approved it but couldn't be implemented due to the elections hence my comment.

Any way, still waiting for that mail or BBM request.

Falcao at 28 is a risky investment and although it is a loan deal with an option to buy for Cheap and the player is taking a pay cut, my problem with this deal is Mourinho.

Someone should please tell me which player Mourinho successfully bettered or rescued his career.

This is my main fear for Falcao. Also, will Mourinho give him a proper chance with Diego Costa in the team

khalifanino:
Sooo!!! Hw much u borrow dem? U must b an Arsenal fan...

What has been an Arsenal fan got to do with it?

This is just very like Chelsea, you want to at all that seen as better than Arsenal in everything. Get medication.

imhotep:
Now you are posting irrelevant ideas.
Abi you don tire?

yes, I am tired of discussing with a retardeen who has been lost to bigotry and hate.

I am honestly tired. You know the saying? "Don't argue with a foool he will drag you to his level and beat you with experience" ? That was utilised for you.

CharliParker:
Enemies of progress ,for Gods sake They should withdraw that case, Tribunal for what after massive rigging from PDP in Imo State,most of this bribed kings are kings today because of Rochas.

If he didn't rig, then he shouldn't be afraid? I am pro APC but pro -the truth, if he has nothing to hide then he should have nothing to fear too.

At least the government of the day at the central is APC hence no fear of PDP using the courts.

imhotep:
Your gambari slave master (Sanusi Lamido Sanusi) said this about Yoruba people.

If only your father had pulled out or wore a condom. If only.

So GEJ did something but Buhari must be blamed for it? Is Obiano a northerner? Did he not say it was GEJ's orders and not Buhari's?

Why not at least take on the shoeless man ( he probably has some shoes now ) and then compel Buhari to reverse it?

Some people are walking blindfolded with regional/ethnics sentiments and bigotry.

imhotep:
"In sum, the Yoruba political leadership, as mentioned by Balarabe Musa, has shown itself over the years to be incapable of rising above narrow tribal interests and reciprocating goodwill from other sections of the country by treating other groups with respect. Practically every crisis in Nigeria since independence has its roots in this attitude." - Sanusi Lamido Sanusi

https://www.nairaland.com/2297511/yorubas-problem-nigeria-sanusi-lamido

So you agree with me that I was right in calling you narrow minded? You just proved me right.

Anyone who believes their tribe is better than the other tribe is just narrow minded. So I was definitely right Mr bigot.

Atlantian:
Everyone seem to professional in advising about sex and relationship these days. Dont we have inventive and manufacturing ideas for products and services in this country ? Why is sex such a talked about issue ? Na wa o

you are in this section for this discussion and this discussion is justified but your complaint is misplaced.

If you don't want s*x discussed why don't you stop visiting nairaland sections where it is very likely to be discussed? Just an advise.

imhotep:
You are suffering from narrow thinking Tunubulized oduduwa confusion

Wait a minute. I am suffering from narrow thinking? I am thinking of Nigeria, a Nigeria where everyone is a Nigerian not like we have it not but you are thinking of splitting us and strongly believe you are being victimised whereas it is in your head not fact.

Who is narrow minded between you and are? Or did you just see another nairalander using that line and you decided to use it too?

Layema:
Dear Nairalanders I am a regular user on this forum but I decided to use an alternate account for this.

The truth is there is a lot going on in my life that I have no control over. A lot of things that when I think about them I just feel so hopeless and sad.

I have been depressed and in pain for quite some time now and I have tried to do things that make me happy just to provide an escape from the steel cages of depression.

Nairaland has helped me to forget the pain and sadness that I am passing through, but it seems it isn't just enough.

I know some people will say things like draw closer to God and all that, but the truth is, I did that and God forsook me. He left me when I needed him most and he left me to suffer shame and reproach.

My family and friends don't have an idea of what's going on
All they see is a happy, intelligent lady who seems to have everything she wants.
But how long will I continue to wear the mask of happiness when there is a heavy tumoil brewing up on my inside.

How does one escape from a situation that looks like there is obviously no way out?
What's the point of being alive when you already feel dead?

Suicidal thought flood my thoughts all the time. Whenever I feel sad or I am in a bad mood, all I can see is the image of me stabbing myself with a knife or me standing in front of the road waiting for a car to hit me and end my miserable life.

Right now, I feel worse than ever and I don't know if I can bear this till the end of this week.
Please I need advice.

Super mods please do this for me and send this topic to the home page.
I posted this on this section because it has more active users

Cc
Ishilove
Lalasticlala

Do you feel better now? Do you have someone you can talk to? If need be, I will talk to you re this. Talking to someone always help and someone who you probably will not get to see but is willing to listen to you may do it for you.

Don't shy from talking to people. Relieve yourself by speaking up, you may even find solution along the line.

imhotep:
Myopic Yoruba politricking

You are suffering from my "region syndrome" get medical help and asap.

Orikinla:
Tackling Boko Haram is more important than NASS crisis.
Once our political leaders enter that Aso Villa, they seem to get confused.
Please, join us to pray for Nigeria.

Part of the president's job is to multi task. You want him to concentrate solely on the miscreants?

castrokins:
So He Reneged On The Promise Of Non-interference?

How exactly has he meddled ( because you actually meant meddled and not interfere).

He is the president and automatically the party leader, it is his duty to step in and quench the fire Tinubu, Saraki and the other greedy bastardos set.

Not totally true and I am beginning to think late coming is in women nature.

Had similar last month. Been wanting to meet this lady for sometime and all of sudden she called to say we she meet at a restaurant 5pm, I got there 4:49pm, she didn't show up until 7pm despite she clearly been told before hand I wasn't feeling too fine only coming out to meet for the first time. It was sort of a "not planned" meeting for both of us but she was 2 hours late

And she didn't have a genuine excuse. Big crime to me.

Facebook, nairaland and twitter.

Nairaland and facebook helps the more. All my followers on twitter are football people, they help for some sort of boredom not all.

emperorchedda:
She's a bit right. I don't beat females but I know guys who beat their girlfriends do it out of uncontrollable emotions.

If a guy doesn't love a girl he doesn't give a fvck about whatever wrong she does, he'll be like afterall it's her business.

I'm against it though

Beating a woman is a sign of cowardice and very unmanly. A real man is to protect his woman at all time.

Back then, when my ex f*cks up ( and she is EX'd because she got recalled by the almighty so don't get it twisted) and it is often capital f*ck up, I just look at her like my younger sister ( and she was 3 years older) and say she just needs to be corrected and when she does worst, I blame it on her EXes. I one day told her " you have been with proper idioots all along hence we have this problem" it hurts her but it is fact and with time she adjusts. I know how to be tough with my words without wounding her spirit more than necessary, she then seats down and thinks about it and adjust - well, a mature lady ( not kid) knows when her man is been sincere and not spitting.

There are way too many ways to beat a woman without actually beating her physically. A real man learns how to be a level above her woman. You are to healthily "out think her" to correct her.

If you have a mother, will you be happy you mother gets beat? And be honest? How many times has your mom f*ck up? It is in women's nature to be sorry to say but fact, a goat once in a while, it is you that will know how to tame them.

Kingspin:
Bisi Akande, letter to leaders in the north said it all.

Didn't read this, care to point me to it?

Layema:
Dear Nairalanders I am a regular user on this forum but I decided to use an alternate account for this.

The truth is there is a lot going on in my life that I have no control over. A lot of things that when I think about them I just feel so hopeless and sad.

I have been depressed and in pain for quite some time now and I have tried to do things that make me happy just to provide an escape from the steel cages of depression.

Nairaland has helped me to forget the pain and sadness that I am passing through, but it seems it isn't just enough.

I know some people will say things like draw closer to God and all that, but the truth is, I did that and God forsook me. He left me when I needed him most and he left me to suffer shame and reproach.

My family and friends don't have an idea of what's going on
All they see is a happy, intelligent lady who seems to have everything she wants.
But how long will I continue to wear the mask of happiness when there is a heavy tumoil brewing up on my inside.

How does one escape from a situation that looks like there is obviously no way out?
What's the point of being alive when you already feel dead?

Suicidal thought flood my thoughts all the time. Whenever I feel sad or I am in a bad mood, all I can see is the image of me stabbing myself with a knife or me standing in front of the road waiting for a car to hit me and end my miserable life.

Right now, I feel worse than ever and I don't know if I can bear this till the end of this week.
Please I need advice.

Super mods please do this for me and send this topic to the home page.
I posted this on this section because it has more active users

Cc
Ishilove
Lalasticlala

I can relate to this. Nothing seems to work for you or so it seems and like they say, when it rains it pours, everything negative seems to happen to you right now.

It will pass. I have been there. I understand how you feel. Depression is worst than cancer. I have suffered it and can give a first hand account.

In one and half year the first love of my love, the person I wanted to marry, married someone behind my back while we were planning marriage, had a person tragdy that almost claimed my life, later got into a serious relationship with my then best friend but lost her just 3 days to the day I planned to engage her ( I told the story on here), went deep into depression, had a nairaland practically ruin my business but it been a while now, and I am standing, shining, ready to love again and a better person.

Don't give up, life will be sweet again and you will remember today and be proud. Seek medical help ( a nairalander here, not sure if she will want to be mentioned) was one of those who really helped me overcome this.

Cry if you feel like it, but me, I got better when I embraced gratitude. See, I am not trying to sweet talk you ( I just can't go into full details on here) but I have been through a lot, I have had times I just hated GOD but like I told friend who just lost her first cousin, we run away from GOD in situations like this when it is he who can help us.

Have you tried gratitude? Have you tried to thank GOD first and look for the reason later? I bet you, it works. I will tell you a story of how gratitude works -

One day, just few weeks after I lost my fiancee, I had an appointment with a doctor, a Nairalander who is a doctor herself ( Dolly maybe you can help here? ) compared me to see the doctor to help with my depression. I didn't want to. I was bitter. My ex's mother called me, and she was like "my real name, you have not called me today, you are thinking again, just give thanks" (Me and her were/are very close) I was like what the f*ck is this old woman saying, well you sha do not know what your daughter was to me ( and she agreed to date me at my very worst, I had money and everything but not happiness, I call her my unlikely angel), why exactly should I thank GOD. Then something happened that changed my life and thinking towards GOD. I was to see a doctor that day, I needed some money to go with me, went to the bank ( and it is far from me), on my way to yaba to see the doctor, I broaded a bus to an eatery where I would have my breakfast ( if you are in lagos and know Sango well, the place I am saying is toll gate bus stop, I was coming from Sango where my bank was and was living at Alakuko ), the conductor complained of no change and because he was rude. I decided to stay, I ignored all his shouting and cursing. Then my phone rang and I needed to call the person back, got off the bus to get card with the hope of coming back to take my front seat only to find out the bus had move. I like quarrel pass fight and it was an opportunity to show the conductor.

10 minutes later, I saw the bus already had an accident at toll gate bus stop and the person who took my seat for sure did not make it or if he did, he will be permanently disabled. That was when I started remembering all that GOD has done for me.

You may not be fortunate to have this example to appreciate GOD but when things are tough, just say "thank you father" reasons will come. Being a french catholic brought up ( I am partly Nigerian not fully) , I kiss the back of my hand, and point to the sky and say " thank you father" for no reason then reasons actually come later. It works. Try it.

If you want to discuss this one on one, mention me on here and we will talk.

Hang in there, a set back is only a set up for a big come back and when you fall, if you can look up, you can get up. I am cheering for you, you can do it, you are the best despite the challenges.

iyatrustee:
If i marry that kind husband ehn? he go hear am!


I would make sure i include items that i dont need till jesus comes!

Xynerise

But you know you can change him by loving him truly? You make him an animal by being forceful like you yourself claim you will. When you reciprocate evil with good, you systematically correct people.

If you truly love him, you will look for ways to his heart ni.

Although I am a baba fan, I mean one of his biggest fans but I can't blame those complaining of the regional nonsense. PDP got us here in the first place. We should be talking about the best person for the job and not their region.

However, not only the north have intelligent people and I think it is bad PR making this appointments now especially when you know they are going to be all from the north. Things look currently like it is all north government and people are going to get apprehensive and rightly so.

People just need to note that we have the west in APC, the south south and the south east, if people in the APC are not complaining then it is because they feel he is still on track.

I am a big fan of the president but this madness is just getting "maddening" now. There is definitely other regions in the map of the country not only the north.

Cecediva:
@arsetalks. Lmao @ being a man in disguise. I like soccer alot hence my knowlege abt the game.

Well, i think is only united that has the ability to produce a good 2nd eleven in EPL.(early last season came to mind).

Rafael, smalling, jones, shaw. (DF)

Blind, herrera. (DM)

Young, fellaini, mata,

Rvp/falcao.
That's our 2nd team. Can you compare those players to these ur relegation bound 2nd eleven? NO.

More over schneiderlin is just 25yrs and a france international, getting him at £25m isn't bad. United is a massive brand so we dnt need to be pricing players like shithole clubs.

I saw ur contacts, i will contact you when due. Let me knw u first.

Babe, Falcao left already. He signed for Chelsea and he is likely to be unveiled on Monday if not by tomorrow. And Smalling and Jones in the centre? Seriously? Even other United fans will argue with you on this.

They can't be compared to Gabi and Chambers or Zouma and Ivanonic at Chelsea.

And Blind/Herrera combo hasn't worked and doubt will ever work due. Young, hairman and Mata isn't bad but RVP in attack when he is 99.99% of the time on the injury table? Agree, RVP was/is a fraud.

You honestly think that can beat the Arsenal team I laid out to you before?

Re Contacting me? Hmmm, Don't know what to say.

Cecediva:
@arsetalks You mean PM? I can't get it cos am having problem with my mail. Dnt knw.

None of those three players are natural DM, they cant operate well in that area.
More over rojo and blind are left footers which is nt what LVG wants.


Schneiderlin is a very good DM.

We never wanted to sign gundogan cos of his fitness issues.

We only need a CB to partner rojo. Blind and shaw will play LB while Rafael and valencia will be at the RB. Carrick and schneiderlin will be our DM. While depay and di maria will play by the flanks. Herrera, mata, fellaini or arda turan will play behind rooney.

That will make up a formidable team. I strongly believe turan will come to united.

Thank GOD you also confirm they are useless. They are merely expensive squad additions, definitely not first team players.

If LVG does not want them, why did he sign them? LVG is not good with transfers, he proved that with Bayern and Barca. He is only good promoting players from within, Bastian and Muller at Bayern are examples and Mcnair, Blackett ( I swear I play better than this guy, but I have no agent and now I am not past the age ).

Schneiderlin is very good but not more than 20m at most. I won't pay 21m for him. I will take Carlvaho over him any day. Good luck with him. Just note that you go collect with that defense. Until someone is brought in. You missed a trick with Ron Vlaar. Very good player who is underrated.

Why LVG is not trying to Mascherano I do not know. He will be almost impossible difficult to get but not impossible especially as Barca seem to be sure their ban will be lifted and are already making moves for players or how do you explain the Ardan move.

Problem with Da Silva is he is very good but Diaby/Les King in disguise. Valencia A cattle rearer or footballer?

Your analysis makes me think you are a man in disguise. You know more than a woman should know. However, you forgot there has to be a bench? Do you have a quality second team like Arsenal and Chelsea?

Szczensy


Bellerin/Debuchy Gabi Chambers Gibbs

New DM coming in Wilshere Ramsey

Theo Welbeck Rosicky/new comer

Thats Arsenal second team and Chelsea can come up with something very good as well, can United?

Wanna keep in touch via email? admin@arsetalks.com ( don't want to post my personal email publicly ) or 2BAFBEC4

Cecediva:
@arsetalks. I followed you back.

Comparing Rojo,Blind and Herrera with those set of below average british players is a big joke.

This is the day 2 of transfer window, so many talented players will be coming to old tratford dis season. Morgan schneiderlin and Arda turan will sign 4 united in next 7 days. Expect more signings 4rm united b4 august.

Honestly i don't see arsenal winning the EPL any soon. These two manchester clubs will be the ones going 4 the title dis season. Which am tipping united to win.

I DMed you. Is that allowed?

In my humble opinion, nothing special about those trio. Let me ask you, if they are so good, why is United trying hard to buy a DM? Before it was Gundogan, now it I Schneiderlin at an inflated price. All 3 can play the DM role but still LVG is in the market for another DM?

And sorry to bust your bobble, Ardan is off to Chelsea or Barca contrary to reports ( as a matter of fact, a friend of mine who is Turkish and friends with his agent is almost certain it will be Chelsea until the Barca interest) but we shall see.

And like I said before, it is not about more signing, it is about cohesion/stability. United I suspect will end up buying 4-5 players before the window closes but do you honestly think this players will blend to the team and adapt to the league so fast? Especially considering the fact that there is likely to be changes in the defensive department ( you are likely to have 4 new faces in defense - a new keeper, new right back, new centre back and new DM) that will affect the team. It is inevitable.

I can take a bet on city fumbling next season. And I am not a gambler but I am sure of it. If Liverpool was not stupiid with their transfers, they would easily sneak back into the top four next season in replacement of City or sorry to say United.