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Yes I do have two children but I am work at McDonalds while I am going back to school to better my life so that my childern can have everything that they need and want in life. So if I didnt have time for a man or if I thought that he was taking time away from my kids or my schooling then yes I wouldnt have one but I know I have time for one. And he knows this because he helps me sometimes with my school work if I need it. So I have time for everything that is in my life right now.

Okay to answer your questions. He is a very sweet person and yes he has done wrong in his past but now he is trying to make things rght again. As for my kids I would never try to replace their father but both of my kids love him. He is very good with children and would never do anything to them or put them in harms way. I would of loved to have have him for my kids father. And as far as the husband part I would say yes because I love him for who he is his past and all. I just dont want to make a mistake. Well 2 of his offences were that he was driving on a suspended. Then the last one was that he didnt pay his child support so they started taking it out of his check. Its just I know exactly how I feel about him and we have had long talks and I have asked him to tell me exactly how he feels about me and what it is that he want to come of us. So I know what it is that he wants but I just wanted another womans outlook on what it was that he was saying to me to make sure that it wasnt just my heart and mind believing what they want to believe because I know that I'm in love with him.

no you dont have a problem shes the one that broke the trust between you two and she is just going to have to rebuild it so you are not crazy nor do you have a problem.

You are so right if you dont have those things in a relationship then it will not work. I can say that by experience because me and my babys daddy didnt make it cause we were lacking a lot of those things that were listed.

no we are not. all the guys that i have tried to date in my age group are inmature and act like lil kids and i dont have time for that. Cause if i wanted a kid i would just stay by myself with my two girls that i have.

Well I know why he's working there because they dont do any back ground checks and he has been to jail like 3 times. We were friends before we even did anything with each other and I dont know wether to take it back to just being friends. But I get what you are saying and I thank you very much for your advice.

I am involved with a 31 year old man and I am only 22. We met at McDonald's where we both work at now. We started dating and then things became more . We live apart but when I am away from him he calls me just to make sure that I am okay and to see what I am doing. He says that when he is missing me he will call the radio station and ask them to play "When I See You" by Fantasia. That was the song that I told him was from me to him. But he told me something and I am kinda confused about it. He said that his heart aches for me. I dont know if he is just saying that so that me and him will continue to have sex or if he is being truthful but I have never known him to lie to me about anything. I just dont want to be a fool and fall for someone else and get hurt again. So please somebody tell me what you think!

Yes a man and a woman can be best friends with no attachments or sexual incounters. I have a man that is my best friend in the whole world and i love him to death but to do anything with him wouldnt be right to me. I mean some people can have a best friend of an oppsite sex and they are best friends with benifits. Then i think that it would be different. It just depends on the two people and the way that they tell each other that they want their friendship to be.