Hi Nairalanders,

I hope am not going to tell what someone had experienced but it my story. After catching my gf doing some nutty things behind my back, even though she pleaded that such won't repeat itself again. I don't know if the problem is with me now cuz I feel so unsecured and each time we are not together or she is going out alone, I feel she is going to f**k or something. I try as much as possible not to ask too many questions about her movement as it maybe embarrassing sometimes. I must tell u, its really bothering me.

Please can anyone help in this situation

sorry

Guy u get time o! men dey think how dey go take get work or pick cash , u dey, dey think wether your babe dey go lash or to go shit. if she leave u go lash anoda guy nuttin spoil. no be babe u call am, abi u don marry am. Hommie dont b a sucker 4 luv,

no you dont have a problem shes the one that broke the trust between you two and she is just going to have to rebuild it so you are not crazy nor do you have a problem.

Thanks for ur swift response. Am still expecting more views.

@ Gustopop, If u work and have all the monies, I wonder what u will use for them without babes. If u don't love then u can't trust .

@Ashcake, thank you ver much for your point. You are the chick and I think u r vast in term of experience ad relationships.

More views pls>>

Is normal for you to feel insecure, just take your time and hopefully u will be able to build the trust again.

Just today she confessed to have repeat the same thing that happened before. Although she shed her crocodile tears and begged for forgiveness but I just can't stand it. I just hope I will be able to talk to her again and moreso, I have reconsidered future plan concerning her. I don't think am going to be really serious with her again. Am just going to do the minimum and let her be.

Nairalanders, its relieving to share life situations with someone that really cares and I thank all Nairalanders for all their views and I hope we will have sweet memories of this things.

Thanks

She did it again??

Please show her to the door, what does she take you for sef?? What yeye crocodile tears?? Is it that her pants can't stick to her bum bum or her "thingy" scratches 24/7 or that you aren't man enough, or she derives some pleasure from doing it with other men not minding the agony she's subduing you too??

That girl is a piece of work, she's a bad name to women, gosh!!

I think you should dissmiss her gently and let her go have it with the whole world if she so damn desires), keeping her just for vengeance puts both of you on the same level (degrades you to her rotten world), and might jeopardise your chances of finding "that someone that pleases your soul", you're better off without her rotten self.

Go and find someone who'll yearn for you, and you alone. Some dissappointments are blessings in diguise you know

@topic
i don't blame you for feeling insecure, she broke the trust, and as someone said above she just has to rebuild the trust, and if you think you love her, you want to be with her,you got nothing against her again, and your sure she is changed. then please try to trust her so the relationship can move forward, but if she breaks the trust again. drop her silly ass.

y put urself under such an uncomfortable state, while u can just dump her, no trust, no lovin, no relationship

what is d thin dat u caught her with abi d thin no get name

its obvious nau, what else will it be that will make him lose trust 4 his girlfriend, taht everytym she is going out, he thinks she is going to f****k. definatley not prayer meeting

@ Poster.

I'll only advise you to star cheating on her back. That's one sure way to win your self confindence back. Please believe me and don't start to think that am silly. If you start to cheat on her, she'll get to know and tables will surely chand. Moreover, you get to think less of her because other babes you are seeing will come with their baggages.

@ poster
bros eey!

why are you trying to kill urself over this babe? Shey she jazz u ?
You've tried to make it work , havent you? and your mind is never at rest when she goes out right?
wouldnt it be wise then to find someone you'll be more at rest with rather than die of STROKE one day.
Try looking elsewhere and you'll discover that there's a whole bunch of better women out there to pick from.

I'll only advise you to star cheating on her back. That's one sure way to win your self confindence back. Please believe me and don't start to think that am silly

Even when you are serious you still sound silly, I guess what they say about Names translating to personality and in turn destiny is true.

@ poster

I think it's a good thing you have communication and an open relationship going with your girl. At least she confessed, some others will eat and clean mouth. I believe you should discuss further with her, find out what her motivation to cheat is, if it's something you can't change or live with. Please drop her off at the next bus stop and move on.

abeg bros if u diont trust this girl let go and move on!!

@ poster,

she would probably do it again. perhaps she doesn't take you as seriously as you take her. so move on and find someone you can trust cos sometimes, trust is even more important than love.

This may happen again o! But it is avaoidable
Since it gives u much concern and you love her crazyly i suggest u go ahead and marry her and get her arse in your home and have total control over her.

Well. ma guy, its no use taking her serious anymore. I guess she's a dog that has gone back to her vomit. She has proved that she can't be trusted. Imagine having a wife who you can only be rest assured is not freaking somewhere only when the two of you are together. :sad::sad::sad:

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lol lol lol lol but serious

I think she would change if u marry her
remember why she behaved so was that she wasnt really sure that u are serious with her .

We are human being bro, so there is still posibility that she will change.

Do you have a problem? Yes

And why is that? Because your babe need a REAL MAN that can provide "Financial' for her,which obviously you don't have .

@ PEOPLE IN DA HOUSE

Try reading all comments before posting, the guy's third post says she confessed again to repeating the act . . what actually is there to forgive??

The guy hasnt recovered from the first trauma, he's still insecured of what went on, then she throws him on a second missionary journey


Will you wave it by and forgive?? Please be realsitic . . the girl made her bed, and now has to lie on it. We all deserve second chances, no one is perfect and all that but she on the other hand is being INHUMAN

omoeko
I disagree with u, true the babe need a real man that will shag her well well. but I dont believe she is doing it for money. the babe just get what  we guys call HOT PANT. SO @POSTER u need to take viagra so that u can lash her to satisfaction

Omo Eko:

Do you have a problem? Yes

And why is that? Because your babe need a REAL MAN that can provide "Financial' for her,which obviously you don't have .

Thank you all for ur views and comment but we are not talking abt money cuz thats not a problem cuz I work in a good place and travel abroad at least twice a year.

For lashing am too good not boasting, very good, I mean in all areas.

We are beginning to solve the problem cuz its more like we guys that once we have f**ked a babe we always believe we ca n always f**k her as long as she enter our roof, I hope u understand. Am not giving her my full commitment again she knows things can't be same again at least for now.

Once again thank you.

wales7479:


. . . because its more like we guys that once we have f**ked a babe we always believe we ca n always f**k her as long as she enter our roof,

What exactly were you trying to say, couldnt make a sentence out of it . . what does "sleeping with a girl when she enters your roof", have to do with her cheating on you over and over again??

Or there's something you're not telling us??

cute-ass:

What exactly were you trying to say, couldnt make a sentence out of it . . what does "sleeping with a girl when she enters your roof", have to do with her cheating on you over and over again??

Or there's something you're not telling us??

Cute-Ass, I dont think u understand what I meant. Am trying to tell u that Guys normally believe that once they f**ked and babe they can always f**k her especially when the girl is visited him. Am not trying to make plea or something but citing what guys normally believe. I hope u understand now!!!

So are you saying she isnt cheating on you afterall, that you assumed and jumped into conclussion that she was becasue she came to visit you and refused to sleep with you??

You said she confessed to cheating on you on two different occassions?? Or you're changing your mind??

No, i still don't understand . . please help me to!!

cute-ass:

So are you saying she isnt cheating on you afterall, that you assumed and jumped into conclussion that she was becasue she came to visit you and refused to sleep with you??

You said she confessed to cheating on you on two different occassions?? Or you're changing your mind??

No, i still don't understand . . please help me to!!

The story is fakeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Cute-Ass and Omo-eko,

I can come and cook up something that is not real. She is really trying her best to make me trust her. I just told her that she is not in my plan now and all that but she is still hanging on. I don't know what to say now. Its like u guys don't believe me then its better to stop this topic. I thought sharing it with u guys will make me feel really better but u even don't believe me.

Anyway, I will still thank you for ur views and comments.