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SportsRe: Green Man Finished 38th In Lagos City Marathon 10KM Under 40 Mins! (Photos) by Ask4bigneyo(m): 7:00pm On Feb 15, 2025
Well done
Jobs/VacanciesRe: An Old Nairalander Needs A Remote Job by Ask4bigneyo(op): 9:52pm On Feb 01, 2025
Still searching
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nairalanders I Need Your Urgent Advice by Ask4bigneyo(m): 5:03pm On Jan 27, 2025
Naijametier:
I am a 31 year old nairalander
I have been active on nairaland since 2010
I have a little issue and I need some advice
I had to use this account to post it

So I am working for an indigenous oil and gas firm at Apapa. The salary is poor, I take home 80k every month but I see additional perks like 60k monthly but the job is not fulfilling.
The work environment is toxic, no medical care-I had a serious injury that made me stay at home for 3 months, it was only my 2 colleagues that helped me financially through out that incident and lastly the theft issue is really high. I want to leave but my direct colleagues will be affected and too much pressure will be on them.
I have 2 IT side hustles though that pay roughly x3 of my salary and they are virtual jobs. But I am paranoid because they are one man businesses, anything can happen.
Please what do you suggest I do

I apologize for my grammar
Wisdom is profitable to direct.

I no mind if you can introduce me to any virtual job too. Thanks
RomanceRe: Life As A Bachelor! by Ask4bigneyo(m): 3:36pm On Jan 25, 2025
LoneSoldier:
Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it...
I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family members, some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture.....

A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders....


Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor.....

BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR:

I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items......

CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR:
Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO!

Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...!

So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours!
Well done but the fact that it doesn't favor some doesn't mean it can't favor you. Remember, you can't remain like this forever and don't wait till everything becomes rosy.

Mind you; Can you please introduce me to your remote job. I'm in need of one right now. My contact is on my signature.

Thanks.
CelebritiesRe: Bobrisky: Why Billionaire Men Prefer Me To Ladies by Ask4bigneyo(m): 1:51pm On Jan 25, 2025
Ok
Jobs/VacanciesRe: A Site That Pays For Liking Social Media Pages by Ask4bigneyo(m): 6:00am On Jan 25, 2025
Anthony0505:
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can drop ur contact for me to reach out to you
ask4bigneyo@gmail.com
Nairaland GeneralRe: The State Of Nairaland by Ask4bigneyo(m): 12:29am On Jan 25, 2025
I have been lounging to get MOD job since 2016 but all to no avail... We came from the same state o. Employ your brother. I dey wait for your DM o. It is not funny faah.
FoodRe: ₦6,000 Pepper Soup At Hilda Baci's Restaurant (Video) by Ask4bigneyo(m): 11:38am On Jan 24, 2025
She's selling her brand not peper soup.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: An Old Nairalander Needs A Remote Job by Ask4bigneyo(op): 11:37am On Jan 24, 2025
LiveData:
Wishing you all the best...

But you didn't drop info on the kind of remote job you want....

You want people to assume?
At least out in effort into making people see you as serious
Thanks ... Ranging from Virtual Assistant, Data Entry jobs, CSR etc.

I'm open to learning if the job requires little training...
PoliticsRe: Nuhu Ribadu Decorates Emir Sanusi's Son With New Rank by Ask4bigneyo(m): 9:07am On Jan 24, 2025
Uranos:
I have B.Ed in Human Kinetics And Health Education. Please family how do I go about joining Police
HKHE
Jobs/VacanciesAn Old Nairalander Needs A Remote Job by Ask4bigneyo(op): 8:57am On Jan 24, 2025
Trust we are doing fine. Please, who can recommend a genuine Remote Job for me or link me up with genuine one? I have a laptop to aid my work. The Nigerian economy is not friendly as the matter is getting serious.

My Phone number is on my signature.

Thanks.
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Ask4bigneyo(m): 11:24am On Jan 19, 2025
I no get enough to enter this TRUMP race o, na those wey get enough dey make profit now. Please, which of the COINS can one buy and Hold wey go pump like TRUMP? I Needed list biko.......
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerians Flock UK As Prison Officers, ‘sleep In Their Cars’ To Cut Costs by Ask4bigneyo(m): 7:28pm On Jan 17, 2025
Na wah o
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Ask4bigneyo(m): 5:14pm On Aug 25, 2024
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CareerRe: What Should You Do A Day To Your Resignation? by Ask4bigneyo(m): 9:16pm On Aug 04, 2024
RuddyFusion:
I'm planning to resign from my full time role tomorrow Monday 5th of August....

This role pays me #300k net alongside data and other few allowances. But over the last couple of months more stuffs have been dump on my table without adequate compensation...

I have tried to have a conversation with the management to further review my take home to match the additional responsibilities but it's failing on deaf ears with no commitment to my request all I get is more work...

I have delayed this to accommodate the fears of friends and family but I do have another hustle that pays me in dollars that actually meets my needs so I'm thinking of leaving this Naira one to focus on that one and use my extra time to prepare for something better......

My resignation letter is ready and I will drop it after our weekly meeting tomorrow morning except a divine intervention stops me....

So my people do you have any words for me? I will that if any......
Bros I hail I you o... Please, I m here to learn, kindly be of help by teaching me how to fish, I have laptop n ready to learn. Thanks
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InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Ask4bigneyo(m): 6:55am On Jun 02, 2024
peropoliet:
Which state do you stay. Cos i want to use your service
Ogun state. Talk to me on Whatsapp
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HealthRe: UK Revokes Doctor Oluwafemi Tijion Esho License Over Sex For Free Botox by Ask4bigneyo(m): 9:08am On Apr 30, 2024
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FamilyMost Parents Of Today Are Raising An "Overdependent Generation" by Ask4bigneyo(op): 10:06am On Apr 17, 2024
MOST PARENTS OF TODAY ARE RAISING AN "OVERDEPENDENT GENERATION"

1. You cook their food for them so that they can read and enjoy.

2. You help them to wash their clothes and tidy their rooms.

3. You drop them off in school every day by yourself!

4. You lie on their behalf to get them out of trouble.

5. You arrange "expo" to help them pass their exams.

6. You protect them from every danger and difficulties.

7. You prevent them from any form of pain and suffering.

8. You don't want them to suffer like you did as a child.

9. You hustle around while they watch films and play games.

10. They can't go out alone because you're always scared.

11. You take every decision for them, because you're wiser.

12. You go to their schools to fight for them and prove rights.

13. You defend them even when they're wrong and at fault.

14. You can not stand seeing them starve or go hungry for once.

15. You fight against those who try to correct them.

I PITY YOU

.....YOU ARE BUSY RAISING AN OVER- DEPENDENT GENERATION.

You think you are showing them LOVE ?

SORRY, YOU'RE WRONG!!!!

By the time you're no longer there and they face real life challenges, they will become helpless !!!

At that stage, they will realise the havoc you have done to them and CURSE YOU !!!

STOP RAISING AN OVER-DEPENDENT GENERATION!!!

Allow these children to face realities of life !!!

Be careful !!!

Raising Responsible Children

1. Give your children age-appropriate domestic tasks, even if you have a thousand and one domestic servants at home. It is sheer ignorance to think that doing everything for your children is a mark of honour or a way of bequeathing royalty on them.

2. Teach them to be useful and make their impact felt positively wherever they are found – in the school, place of worship, in another person’s home, etc.

3. Encourage your children to always leave a good impression wherever they go to; teach them to be courteous, respectful, friendly, cheerful and helpful.

4. Teach them good toilet manners – they must know how to keep the toilet neat for the next user, let them know that it is unacceptable to leave the bathroom floor and/or walls messed with soap, foam or any form dirt after bathing.

5. Teach your children the importance of taking good care of their body and their environment; whether they are at home or elsewhere. Remind them that responsible people don’t leave their rooms unkempt or their bed unmade when they get up in the morning; teach them to bath very well and smell fine always. It is unbearable to have a smelly young person around you; let them take care of their armpits, teeth, hair, nail, etc.

6. Teach your children to manage their used clothes and other personal belongings very well, whether in their home or elsewhere. It can be irritating to have dirty clothes or shoes, especially those of a visitor litter every corner of the house.

7. Let them pack their toiletries before leaving home. Your children should not depend on their hosts for their basic toiletries like soap, cream, tooth paste and other essentials.

8. Teach your children to dress well all the time, especially when they are spending time with another family. You probably allow your daughters to dress in bum shots and your sons to walk about with their chest bare in your home, but they may not be safe if they do so in another place. You may not know where a predator would lie in wait for a child.

9. Teach them good table manners; not the one recited in nursery schools rhymes. Teach them to chew with their mouth covered, not to make noise with the cutlery on their teeth, not to talk with their mouth full, etc.

10. Let your children know that washing only their own plates after eating is not a noble idea.

11. Remind your children that jumping into a conversation when adults are talking is a sign of being ill-mannered. Discourage this both in your home and elsewhere.

12. Help your children not to be social birds online and anti-social bugs offline. They should relate well with people around them, much more than they do with virtual folks they meet online. Please, discourage this idea of young people locking themselves in the room hours on end without communicating with anyone in the house – all because they are on phone.

13. Empower your children to uphold your family values wherever they are. But before then, make sure that your family values are credible, empowering, socially and morally beneficial.

14. Teach your children to control their appetite and learn to turn down certain offers, even when such offers come from people they know. And at home, it is not compulsory that they must taste everything they see someone eating. This will help them to take their eyes away from certain things when they are in other people’s home.

15. Always remind your children that they are the window through which the world sees you. If your children’s behavior outside is bad, the general consensus is that they lack home training. And since children are not meant to give themselves home training, it means that you failed as a parent.

16. Finally, make sure your children know God. Salvation is not hereditary; that you are godly or highly spiritual is not a guarantee that your children are saved. You must consciously and deliberately lead them to God

My fellow parents, let us try our best to make sure these children represent us well. I am sure you will feel good if you come to your children’s school and people are pointing at you as the parent of the best behaved child in the school. Won’t you?

THE SCHOOL OR TEACHERS CAN'T GIVE THEM ALL!

MAY GOD ALMIGHTY MAKE OUR CHILDREN RESPONSIBLE AND SUCCESSFUL!!

TravelRe: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by Ask4bigneyo(m): 12:49pm On Apr 14, 2024
toygod2:
Hi guys
Eventually i was able to DIY using the online app.

However Is it possible that i reschedule for date of capturing physically?

While i tried the online option . It keeps saying RESCHEDULE DISABLED FOR THIS CENTRE?

Thanks
NO
PoliticsRe: Armed Men In Military Camouflage Besiege Oyo State Govt Secretariat (photos) by Ask4bigneyo(m): 2:17pm On Apr 13, 2024
E don be
TravelRe: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by Ask4bigneyo(m): 11:08pm On Mar 25, 2024
Revolva:
I want to renew my passport how will i get local govt certificate now and i dont want all dose distance relations to know about this passport cos its only then that are close to village .

So is there a way to by pass that local govt certificate and apply for renewal
You can't bypass it. Why not go for the certificate of your LGA of residence instead since you wanna avoid village people
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InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Ask4bigneyo(m): 4:53pm On Mar 18, 2024
ucmarcel:
which exchange can one get this sir, it’s not on kucoin or bybit
Try OKX
TravelRe: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by Ask4bigneyo(m): 8:33pm On Mar 16, 2024
White0147:
Pls house I lost my passport in 2015 expires same year can I get a new one without mentioning the old with a new details?
You can't apply for fresh one. Let them know you lost it or it was stolen.
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Ask4bigneyo(m): 1:06am On Mar 16, 2024
armadeo:
I longed sol at 20. Took profit at 24. You cannot cry reach me. Besides futures took the profit back.
Chaiii....Omoh u for don dey smile now as beast dey soar higher day by day

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