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mrblessed:
Yes, we all know that transportation isn't "fair" in Lagos. Is she older than you are? Did you marry her because of her position, money? Did you impregnate her before being forced to marry her? Was it an "arrangee" marriage? So many dots are not connecting here.

Sorry, "fair" is a typographic error! Its clearly "Transportation Fare". Please can you first give advice before asking these questions?

Lexusgs430:
What yeye drastic action?......


You knew before marriage, this was her pattern of work.......

Your only solution if you still want to remain married.......... Get her something else to do...... Put your money, where your mouth is....... Let your pocket talk, not your mouth........

Point of correction, this is not porter pattern of work. And all I know is night shift!! But staying a week is not part of our discussion.

Humanoid01:
She didn't have to. You should have discussed this with her beforehand since it was so obvious her workplace isn't close to your home.

Her reason is transportation fair

onyidon22:
I'm speechless �
This is one of those issues both of you ought to have sorted out before getting wedded.

Well, you have to sit her down and let her know that you can't tolerate that

I have told her but she still insisted

chatinent:
What happened when you guys were courting?


You didn't look out for these signs?

It's either you talk it out with her or find her a better paying job.

BTW, what job in Unilag keeps one for a week!

Courtship failures are marriage failures.

She is senior porter at unilag

raphretle:
You no know Before

That what?

Humanoid01:
Wahala!

Both of you should have talked about this before tying the knot na.

She didn't tell me she spending a week until after wedding

Sir/Ma,
Please we just got married recently. She is a non teaching staff at unilag. she told me she would coming home only Saturday night. She said her reason is transportation fair.
I told her how would a lady stay out home for almost a week. And now she already away for a week now.

Please I need to hear your advice before I start taking drastic actions. Thanks

hefeeluv:
probably big body is not your thing.dont force what is not there.
pls can you mentor me on programming.
am an undergraduate

Which aspect of the programming language do you like to learn?
I do android and ios(java and xml for native android apps, flutter for hybrid,etc) and web applications(HTML,CSS, JavaScript and its frameworks, cheap and popular backend language used in nigeria like PHP, etc). But this is not for this purposes. Please if you need any assistance on software development you can mail me using nairaland

trueguy573:
Looking down on yourself shows that you have low self esteem. Happiness is not out there for you to find. It is within. You tend to create problems that aren't there for yourself. I'm sure height would be the last thing on the mad man's mind. Be greatful for the privileges you have and be happy.

Thanks brother.

UDUJ:
Abeg no vex, just allow me laugh small at the boldfaced

Okay I am done laughing. You can start going to the gym and lifting weights, avoid cardio. Do the full body exercises (the man makers) like deadlifts, squats, overhead presses or military presses and bench presses. Then start taking Apetamin. Cheers bro

How do I get this drug? Can I find it in any pharmacy!

Xeeex:
Drink a glass of milk after every meal. Every meal.

You'll gain mass in no time, thank me later

Thanks in advance. I think this is only thing that has been helping me to gain small weight. Do you have other ways!

femi4:
Start using a walking stick

Wear big clothes like agbada, suits. Say no to t-shirts and jeans

How do expect agbada to make one big? All the same thanks for your contribution.

Dear nairaland,
I am seriously depressed. There are some occasions I couldn't talk because they would see me as small boy. And I am a 30+ year old, a programmer and a millionaire with some assets. I really have many challenges related to my small body. There was even a time I went to a bar to just have some pepper soup and these hard drinks, all sums to 25,000 naira. The lady attending to me was like who send you come buy these stuffs.

Please is there any help you can render that can make me grow big? I have used a lot of drugs and eat much goodies. I think there is a lot advantages with big bodies. Please i need a mature response and advice.

Gracealone:
Your immediate family first. Your parents and siblings. Then perhaps one or two uncles/aunts that you are convinced that they mean well for you.

I have done all these. I have taken her to see my immediate family. And I have taken her to see one of my aunties (extended family). But he insisted, he want ALL the uncles and aunties to see her before the introduction.

Dear mature minds,
I am being frustrated on taking my fiancée to see almost all my family before introduction. My father said they ALL need to know her before introduction.

Please ma/sir, what is the importance of introduction, if I should take her round the family before any introduction. I think Introduction is meant for families to know each other. I think he is just frustrating me.

Please I need a mature advice. Thanks in advanced.