coolsegun2002:


My guy.. looks like u have entered one chance....


how will i go and work for 6days, come back nd u will say u want to have sex ...u want to kill me..


It’s not good to jump into conclusions but this one has another man outside that is kpanshing her steady...99% sure, the remaining one percent is for the benefit of doubt.....’U are just the guy that offered marriage first...and she ddnt want to miss the opportunity

Why must you people always come with this logic? And you're even saying 99%. SMH.

You haven't seen medical doctors or nurses that visit home once a week?

At my former place of work, i know some married people both male and female that sleep there and go home only on their off day.

Now in as much as this isn't how marriage should be because it will take away that love and affection, and make the couple see themselves as strangers. You saying is cheating is wrong please. Not every thing is cheating.

Now OP, you and your wife should contribute money and rent a house closer to her work place. And if it will be much far from your own work place, then let her be the only one staying there. Then you can visit like four or five times a week to keep the marriage fire burning.

askings:

Her reason is transportation fair

Yes, we all know that transportation isn't "fair" in Lagos. Is she older than you are? Did you marry her because of her position, money? Did you impregnate her before being forced to marry her? Was it an "arrangee" marriage? So many dots are not connecting here.

ABANGWABOI:



Bro no waste better advice for were this Weakling of a Boy dey..
If you tell them to be in charge as a man Dem go talk say na misogyny abi na patriarchy.. now this weak Ass beta male cannot handle his affair and is already crying like a kid that had his candy taken away from him..
It would definitely end in premium tears for him..

You don't have to blame him. He's been conditioned to act that way around women by our ever changing egaliterian equalitist bullshit of a society. He has sacrificed his masculinity on the altar egalitarianism. He played the mr nice guy card just to stay on the good books of his wife without knowing he was giving her too much power on their relationship. I'm a propagandist for self love. If you love yourself more you wouldn't take bullshit from nobody.

askings:

Point of correction, this is not porter pattern of work. And all I know is night shift!! But staying a week is not part of our discussion.

Whilst dating, did she stay a week over at her employers beck and call..........

You did not know and understand, the woman you married.........

You hav the capital... Get her a shop and start her a buisness...

If you hav any connection get her a job close to ur home

If not endure
Till u find a solution... Don't let her quit now... The economy ain't sharp and employment is competitive...

Pray and God bless
Goodluck

You must've forced her into marrying you
Else l don't see how a newly wedded wife will feel comfortable living out without her husband's presence or touch in a whole week

Guy yawa dey , but use ur brain and don't jump into conclusions without facts

Lights up my kpoli in peace

But bros you saw all this things before you got married now, or is it different now? If it is now, she has to stop working but handle the issue with care.

mrblessed:
Yes, we all know that transportation isn't "fair" in Lagos. Is she older than you are? Did you marry her because of her position, money? Did you impregnate her before being forced to marry her? Was it an "arrangee" marriage? So many dots are not connecting here.

Sorry, "fair" is a typographic error! Its clearly "Transportation Fare". Please can you first give advice before asking these questions?

Shortyy:

Why must you people always come with this logic? And you're even saying 99%. SMH.

You haven't seen medical doctors or nurses that visit home once a week?

At my former place of work, i know some married people both male and female that sleep there and go home only on their off day.

Now in as much as this isn't how marriage should be because it will take away that love and affection, and make the couple see themselves as strangers. You saying is cheating is wrong please. Not every thing is cheating.

Now OP, you and your wife should contribute money and rent a house closer to her work place. And if it will be much far from your own work place, then let her be the only one staying there. Then you can visit like four or five times a week to keep the marriage fire burning.

Read the ops situation again.and analyze


Why are u saying...?? What has doctor gotta do with this issue... it doesn’t matter the proffession... how can u be living in lagos and working in lagos ... yet saying u can’t come home till Saturday... a newly wed... she’s sounds uninterested in her marriage...
A person that’s interested in her man and excited in her marriage won’t hide such condition if it was that important

coolsegun2002:


Read the ops situation again.and analyze


Why are u saying...?? What has doctor gotta do with this issue... it doesn’t matter the proffession... how can u be living in lagos and working in lagos ... yet saying u can’t come home till Saturday... a newly wed... she’s sounds uninterested in her marriage...
A person that’s interested in her man and excited in her marriage won’t hide such condition if it was that important

I just gave example of some married people in my former place of work. And they all live in Abuja.

Go back and read my post. This time around, complete it.

askings:

I have told her but she still insisted

If u can afford it, why not tell her you will take care of the transport fare

askings:


She didn't tell me she spending a week until after wedding

You are a pussy

Burgerlomo:
If you think what I am thinking please raise your hand.

Madt ooo

askings:
Sir/Ma,
Please we just got married recently. She is a non teaching staff at unilag. she told me she would coming home only Saturday night. She said her reason is transportation fair.
I told her how would a lady stay out home for almost a week. And now she already away for a week now.

Please I need to hear your advice before I start taking drastic actions. Thanks

this matter should have been settled before the marriage, you guys should have agreed on it first.
now as its stands, it either you look for an apartment near her working place or shr resigns but the later shouldn't be the case because a working woman is a plus for a successful family.
it's not good for her to be away for a complete week like this, it is gonna affect the family in a long run.

askings:
Sir/Ma,
Please we just got married recently. She is a non teaching staff at unilag. she told me she would coming home only Saturday night. She said her reason is transportation fair.
I told her how would a lady stay out home for almost a week. And now she already away for a week now.

Please I need to hear your advice before I start taking drastic actions. Thanks

why not get her another Job

askings:
Sir/Ma,
Please we just got married recently. She is a non teaching staff at unilag. she told me she would coming home only Saturday night. She said her reason is transportation fair.
I told her how would a lady stay out home for almost a week. And now she already away for a week now.

Please I need to hear your advice before I start taking drastic actions. Thanks

you too go and be staying with her in the staff quarters there... If she can't come then you go. marriage is all about sacrifice

Shortyy:


I just gave example of some married people in my former place of work. And they all live in Abuja.

Go back and read my post. This time around, complete it.

where in Abuja do you base? Apo or Gudu or Wumba.

askings:

Her reason is transportation fair

pay her transport fare bro.
get an envelop
label it sweet heart transportfare.
and put the complete transport fare inside
hand it to her.

case solved

This case shows that she married you and not the other way round

Mrscarter:


Try find out if she's really at where she's saying she's at.
Take it from there.
If was me newly married to my hubby I'd wanna be with him every day

before nko easy ain't goan take this typa sh!t

Shortyy:

Why must you people always come with this logic? And you're even saying 99%. SMH.

You haven't seen medical doctors or nurses that visit home once a week?

At my former place of work, i know some married people both male and female that sleep there and go home only on their off day.

Now in as much as this isn't how marriage should be because it will take away that love and affection, and make the couple see themselves as strangers. You saying is cheating is wrong please. Not every thing is cheating.

Now OP, you and your wife should contribute money and rent a house closer to her work place. And if it will be much far from your own work place, then let her be the only one staying there. Then you can visit like four or five times a week to keep the marriage fire burning.

some of them will never grow up,the idea is good to me if you must to get married at your glory age and still chase the money together if we kno wat we're doing,since not all're rich

joinnow:
pay her transport fare bro. get an envelop label it sweet heart transportfare. and put the complete transport fare inside hand it to her.
case solved

finally someone is talking sense

Why do I have feeling OP's wife is older than him

Seriously this is confusing.

I don't even know what to say as am still single but how on earth did you married her without noticing this,

Shay na a week una meet and got married the following week?



Walahi am confused sha

Lol,,, was there no discussion/agreement about life after marriage before you two got married

HomerTimpson:
before nko easy ain't goan take this typa sh!t

Lol watchu mean

askings:


She didn't tell me she spending a week until after wedding

You better be joking. You don't know your wife's routine before marriage? You don't know where she has been sleeping? Are you for real or just chasing clout? If what you wrote is true,I am afraid, you are both strangers and a whole lot is yet to be uncovered.

I pray you find the grace and understanding to survive this trying time.

askings:
She is senior porter at unilag

Even at that.

interesting...

interesting...very interesting...

Mrscarter:


Lol watchu mean

I meant mr ezzy carter the realest og since before instagram won't take sheet from nobody. Just a dry joke anyway

HomerTimpson:
I meant mr ezzy carter the realest og since before instagram won't take sheet from nobody. Just a dry joke anyway

Lol now I grab