I was just goofing around on Facebook and saw one pretty sister and that was how the Casanova spirit inside me pushed me to send her friend request which she accepted after two days.
Some days later, I sent her that hand wave on Facebook messenger, she responded and that was how it all started. Something in me was saying take it easy, but this spirit of Casanova was really prepared to deal with me.
After I applied some pressure, she accepted and she even told me she did not want any unserious fellow but I keep assuring her I am different that my love is here to stay
Deep inside of me, I only came for the tithe and offering.
Last weekend she visited me in her Rav-4 and we spent the weekend together.
On Sunday morning, she asked me to drop her off at home which I obliged.
We drove close to Artillery Barrack where she pointed at the Army gates and she asked me to drive in.
I thought she was joking, but she was not. We got to the gate and the soldiers at the gate were saluting her.
At that point I didn't know if the car's AC went off or I accidentaly turned it off, but I began to sweat.
Luckily she did not notice. I dropped her off and she pecked me and told me to go with the car and use it as she would come to my place after service to discuss about our marriage. I managed to drive out of the gate.
Later in the day she came as promised and ask if she surprised me. I said not really; that I was proud of her...meanwhile I had peed like 20 times already.
Just this morning, she fully introduced herself as Major ENE her only two brothers are Lt Colonels in the Army and she is the only girl of her father who is a retired General.
I know I am dead, but I don't know how dead I am. My wife and kids are due to return next week.
Danielfx: My first relationship was a cloud 9ish type of relationship and when the lady finally tossed me off, it took me over 7 months to get over it.
It was the most or one of the most painful feelings i had. I was in 200level then and the lady was not even a student. We were just making out from my home town then. When she left, things became a bit tight. I must say i was footing my bills including school fees and it was a miracle how i managed to do this jumping from one idea to another. My family, well, they cared less and even though they had money they never for once call me to know how well i was faring and this lady in question was fully aware that aside God, the only person i had was her, yet she broke me to pieces....
In one of my holiday as an unhappy student, i met a nerd lady with a ferocious big eyes and moderately attractive. We became acquainted and i even went as far as being partially honest with her during our friendship. For one thing, i was in three hundred level then while she was in her fourth year and i had to lie to her about me being in 400level( it could be due to inferior complex).
She helped me gain myself, prayed for me and with me and had the thought of my ex out of my head. She was nice even though i had no money to offer her. She was using her money to get me nice meals and was always there with me whenever i got bored. It didn't take long before i got on feet again and was introduced to Forex trade, i must say she was a positive impact to my life.
Before i forget, her dad was a former commissioner in Delta state. One day, i was going through her phone( she was in the kitchen) which i always did, it was there that i saw a well known yahoo boy in my department that was in 400level as well( my department and hers offer similar borrowed courses). The message stated her begging the guy to allow her visit him. I was angry when i saw this and even though we weren't dating, i had became too close to her and her self acclaimed dignity that i became disappointed. I left her place without notice, leaving the phone on the bed for her to see the message too....
Few minutes time, she came to my place and quietly excused me from my room mate. She came to explain and what came out of her mouth made me more angry. According to her, it was a chat about her telling one dude she was going to send him card from his boyfriend (Daniel). She told me she was only trying to make the supposed friend know that i was supportive. Creepy right ? Because we weren't even dating....
So it became clear, she had lots of germs on her palm. I angrily told her to shut up, she turned to observe if anyone was around before she finally said goodbye and left. I deleted her number afterwards and i guess she did same to mine too.
Few weeks later, i met her friend and then she told me about the guy being a friend to her too. I went back to the lady to apologize and she proudly said i should leave her house.
After about few months, she called my line and was trying to act cool. I was as rude as she were so we didn't get along fine before she finally stopped calling me.
So, as fate had it, i grew owning few millions in my account and a pretty nice place and to complement my life i decided to add a serious relationship, that was when i looked for her number again and started begging her. She was completely rude and even insulted my friend that was talking to her on my behalf. Later on, she finally called me to tell me she has forgiven me. We started talking on phone since she is now in Lagos due to corona issues while i am in Delta State.
First, she has changed so much. So much that i was completely loosing interest. She doesn't call me except i call her and she told me she can't date me for three reasons, one being that i am an Urhobo(this lady na still Urhobo gal too). 2ndly that we are in thesame school and thirdly that she doesn't feel the telemondo fire around me.
Right now, i don't even know what to do and the path to take. Someone please help me straighten my head.
PS: I am a good looking guy, the kind of guy that most ladies always stare at more than once but i have this pride too, not to approach a lady and also i am on tramadol diet. It helps me keep my Forex trade going too.
KulKid: I've sent the EFCC dude about 22k already, only for him to turn out to be fraud too. The picture you see is the picture of the idiot that ran away with my 600K plus.
HoldGod: please forgive me, if I can help myself I won't be begging I've been looking for help on nairaland please My name Anthony am 28 years old from Edem in nsukka local government area Enugu. I have been suffering from paraplegic spinal cord injury for the past 12 years now, I only able to survive only because my ageing mother look after me but life is too very hard for us. My mother is diabetic my hand are partially affected and I have severe UTI infection due to unable to change catheter we find it hard to feed or buy healthcare. Please am appealing to well meaning Nigerian to help have mercy please help us, nothing is too small and to any NGO that can accept my condition please. Almighty God bless you. More detail
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