₦airaland Forum

Preshieben:
Very Bitter and uncultured set of people
Always insulting anyone they come across
Except few Sha
Nairaland girls are so immature
But their guys are something else

MannieA:
Eat the food she prepared,eat it with joy then sit her down and talk some sense into her if she did something wrong...simple

Premiumwriter:
This topic has been on my mind for a long time but I really haven't found a better time to write than today.

I have always been puzzled why girls act the way they do. You know the snubbing, the seemingly high self-esteem and the almost queen-like behavior. It was really frustrating to me and I hate seeing men begging for love and some pussies.

So, early this year I created a female account to run a few tests and my results were mind numbing. I wouldn't say I was surprise because I already have an idea of what to expect but really seeing the result was something else.

I'll first explore a little of my finding.

As a guy, i rarely get pm request from other guys or ladies. Maybe once in a while when i offer to post a freebie or talk about helping someone to do something to make money online, then I may recieve just one or two pm from other people.

On my lady's account however, the reverse was the case. A lot of dudes here kept sending me request to the point i had to schedule my replies to these PMs.

Now just so you know, my reply most times is only a hello to the pm to get an idea of what these people actually want because a Pm may just be a Pm or may actually mean something else.

After the first hello response, a lot of guys start praising how beautiful I am and then proceed to say they like men and would like us to be friends and then request for my whatsapp number.

the second group are those that will say, i seem like a very intelligent lady or that they like the way i comment and would like to get my number so that they can know me more. of course any sensible person here will know that their dicks were amazed and not their brains.

now after they say want to get on with me, I normally respond that i cant give out my number to strangers and most times they will not respond to the message. A few will respond and say that they will really like to know me and try to convince me to hand out my phone number because according to them, "how can we get to know each other more if we don't connect on the phone?" this is where i normally cut off my interactions as there's really nothing more interesting to say.

I n anyway, out of the hundreds - yes you read that well, out of the hundreds of PMs i received, Only one impressed me and actually had a meaningful line of approach. I responded and we actually hit a dead end again after he requested for my phone number.

Here is the bottomline: This ladies are bombarded with average of about 5 PMs per day and more than 35 PMs in a week. If they dont respond to yours, dont take it to heart, nobody is paying them anything to respond to emails. talkmore of responding to 35 new emails per week and then type new response to the previous week's 35 who are waiting for her response.

so dont take it to your heart if the ladies dont resply your PM.

secondly, as a guy, know your worth. I always see Milleniumlady signature saying every dude on NL wants to wife her and then i loomk at myself and say why but now i know why. the below is coming from a lady who has not contributed meaningfully to any guys life here. again, nigga know your self worth
www.nairaland.com/attachments/11602799_screenshot202005251833172_png9005f19ba87aa4a96d192b1bd199bfc7

and this trash below is also coming from a girl who has not contributed to her family not to talk of the world in any meaningful way:

www.nairaland.com/attachments/11602802_screenshot202005251834172_png8a2380b4862be724af2202c60bb343bf

Dudes are giving these girls attentions back-to-back and this only comes back to haunt them. I mean, imagine what 35 new emails from different ladies complimenting you about your handsomeness can do to your self-esteem in real life. It will give you that king feeling and make you feel like you are the new god and you'll end up seeing any new comment as common.

Niggas know your self-worth. Give your attention only when it is actually needed.

Another thing i noticed is that ladies get way more mention than guys. You get response to almost every mention which always ends with the guy saying how beautiful your profile is.

then there are those who will like to proof themselves to you. they will try and tell you that they are very intelligent. I don't know their end goals but it wasn't funny.

and then there are those whose job it is to say, that your profile picture is not you. they will tell you she's too beautiful to be on nairaland and in the end still send you a PMs

And there are those who will be rude just to get a response from you. They try to act tough but i can always see the neediness through their attack and push for me to just respond to them.

And should i talk about the number of followers i get almost daily? Like seriously. this lady is not posting anything meaningful or something that could help you to make money online or address any issue you may have, but she kept getting on average of 3 followers per day, all men, like seriously where are you following her to?

after following, some will start answering all of her comment, attacking her or send a PM.

The thing is a lot of men today are failing one of the most important rules in manhood and dating: Treat a lady like a celebrity and she will treated you like a fan.

Men are simply nuisance on this platform to the ladies and to be sincere that is what i am convinced about. If you are guy that follows every lady, praises and support her every mentions and then send a Pm, you are more of a fan and she the celebrity.

Guys for chrissake, go swallow some redpills. Learn to focus on your goals, your dreams and ambitions. Girls will come with the shelter as an extra. you are the reward for a woman.

I see this thing a lot on facebook and instagram. Go to instagram and checkout any female profile. It is only men you'll see commenting "oh what a beauty" "so beautiful" "you are an angel" etc. like seriously why won't these girls in turn, treat you like trash when you treat them like the air you need.

After deactivating my female account, I have since taken a little break to observe things. No longer chasing women. Just relax now and very observant while working on myself and my ambition.

Abeq,hold one

stanliwise:
personal decision of sex starve nigga. I guess the girl pussy is made with gold! Buhahahahahah out 7 billion people 4 billions are women and in those four billion about 1.5 billion are sexy women but you chose to hang on with a prostitute and postpone wedding

Misplaced priority.

stanliwise:
Then why keep fucking her till you find another? A find out a woman stays at Allen and the best you could do is to snap picture, postpone wedding and keep fucking....
*spits*
Until someday your neighbor will abuse your with it, then you will understand why it is important to do away with evil people as quickly as possible.

stanliwise:
where does the idea erupt from, are you sex starve? You let the worst people stay in your live because of sex

Millenniumlady:
Nigga get the fvck out of my mention

Millenniumlady:
Real What you just type this time slowly

Millenniumlady:
A real man will take her home have a heart conversation with her when she promise she won't do it again he'll then proceed with the wedding....Note Please "man" not boys.

fluffydec12:
Hope u r good sir? Pls don't forget about the mannequins. Just a reminder sir, God bless you.

Ibechris2:
This is not abroad oh!

Why are Nigerians abroad coming back to marry after living and having children with Whites?

sexylassie2:
broke boy

DocAdray:
Sir its baby milk (milk for infants), that can be given to them to take or added to their pap or cereals to supplement breast milk.

DocAdray:
Good morning sir.
You're so kind, God bless you.
Please I really need assistance so I can buy Nan baby milk for my 7 month-old son, he eats so much and we're financially empty at the moment. Please help

khaffi2:
AstroG send me sef something please. God bless you

SafariBoy:
AstroG please help me too. For the past two days I have been pleading for assistance here but no response. I pray God will touch your heart to help me, my siblings and aged parents. There is no foodstuffs to eat at home and we have been managing to survive for two days now. Please i want you to believe me and show us mercy. May you never lack any good things in life! O.A.A, 2001690611, zenith bank. Thanks

Johntemmy:
bro AstroG please kindly help me i have two kids but nothing to eat now any amount can go along way sir.thanks may God bless you..
alabi Johnson gtb 0128950147

Davash222:
You get paid being a Redpiller??
Besides, I'm not dragging any Redpill with you.

Davash222:
Desist from making unnecessary expenses for girlfriends.. It's investment of no returns!

Davash222:
She's even hyping the guy by calling him a wine seller. The guy is just a car washer... You dey wash car, another person dey drive am.
Spending 80K on a girlfriend's birthday. A girlfriend that will still fucck your friend without thinking twice.
He should take his L in peace.

Am highly Disappointed in You DAVASH

Eberechi24:
Lol. Na format you want use get my Pm. No wahala I no dey disappoint na