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thorpido:
Just curious.You've never lived here and yet Nigeria is where you decide to settle.
Interesting.

When I moved to America, I never lived there either, but I moved there. Been here 30 years. I do not understand the fear that most people have with making a decision to carve their lives in the best interest of whatever passion drives them. So yes, I do want to settle in Nigeria. Why? Because I believe God. He told me to go there so I go. If I love God, then I trust Him. Therefore, because I trust Him to direct me to where He desires me to be, I prepare for that journey through research. I didn't become the individual that I am because I allowed the unknown to decide my future. The key in amassing wealth is RISK. Those who are not RISK takers, will never break into riches. So because I am a RISK taker, God has been able to use me to do things that most won't do and also reap the rewards of those risk initiatives.

mikejj:
. i base in Fct bro...how about you

Ok. That sounds great. I am based in Atlanta, Georgia. What do you do in Abuja?

Dyt:
Verily
With a big grin

Where in Nigeria do you stay?

mikejj:
. naxo..thunder of day b4 yesterday is still available

So explain this to me please

mikejj:
so my man,my advice for you is simple,go for love, marry for love,love will keep you strong,.. we have beautiful and good ladies in Nigeria search well..and one day u will even want to invite your brothers from Jamaica to come and marry here,,Nigeria women are not like america women OK..even in their forties they can still give birth thank you.

Even in their forties...i love it....all my brothers are in America....And honestly, they would have to come to believe it. America has sold a very incorrect image of Africa and most Americans, especially African Americans or anyone that has roots in Africa who live in America has believed the false news of Africa. But the 1% has a plan for this transfer of negative image power. It is my prayer that the 99% will one day experience Africa and fall in love with HOME.

Where in Nigeria are you located?

QueenSuccubus:
Uummmm ...Oh okies...

Well, good luck in ur chosen path...

Thank you so very much.

mikejj:
. 5...if you know you don't have enough money don't go to the east..happy married life

lol. Money....I doubt that will be an issue. lol

QueenSuccubus:
Yeaaah...I agree with you...

Btw, why u chose Nigeria ? I mean what attracts you that made u fall in love & decided to settle down there?

The answer is simply for this one. God told me to go to Nigeria! I accepted the assignment. After that, I researched the country and extremely fell in love with the country.

Dyt:
Wow
I am so impressed

Standing ovation

lol. Are you Nigerian?

UyaiIncomparabl:
I'll rather we make this a little discreet, so as not to derail the thread. You can send me a PM to my E-mail, I'll reply afterwards.

What do you think?

Great

QueenSuccubus:


Well, let's say i observe...

And not only that, there's alot of Nigerians here in Asia as well..

lol. Nigerians are everywhere. They are great migrants.

QueenSuccubus:
Im from the Philippines... #ProudAsian

Nope, i never been to Ng. So, i have no idea what it looks down there..

LOL. Ok. Im wondering how you could answer the original question with any intelligence.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Oui, that's a phenomenal idea.
Oh, and errh please, when you chose to bring the resources and begin the process, just holla at me. I'll love to be part of your team. I also believe Nigeria can be great again. It begins with US.

Well, tell me about your abilities, talents, training, etc. I would like to know your value. What could you add to a dynamic team?

Hiploko:
Very helpful. I sent you an email

I have returned your email message.

QueenSuccubus:
Well, I'm not a Nigerian so i have no idea when it comes to their female mindset of giving birth after 30 ...I think it's all depends on every individual regardless of her race & nationality...

What nationality are you? Do you live in Nigeria?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Firstly, na now him day break to settle down?
Whatever did he do with his 'hey years'?

Back to the topic.
1) An emphatic Yes! Why won't a Nigerian woman consider marrying him? Abi him carry plague for body? As long as he looks presentable and he is very worthy of keeping a marriage, then all that follows becomes inconsequential. Most women do not attach 'Tribalistic/Interracial' tendencies nor conditions to finding a potential MAN.

2) Safest age? There's no limit to which one can desire. But I'll advise he goes for someone very young, as long as she's above the consentual age, no problems are attached. Childbirth is less-likely to be uncomplicated and infancy mortality is unlikely to be bound.

In my opinion, 23-29 should do, as long as 'He' isn't an ageist.

3) Fall back to the 2nd answer. 23-29.
Even after the children, she might not lose her elasticity and value. Flexibility comes with the aforementioned age grade.

4) Oh Yes! Not every parents are insane to not consider the choices and wants of their daughters. Whatever makes them happy!
As long as the Man isn't looking older than the 'supposed' girl's parents, is sane, and highly respectful, then 'A happily ever after' bliss is next to happen.

In conclusion to this, why will he decide to settle down in this shithole of a country amidst other sane climates. He had better rethink this. It's not a joke. Nigeria is a mess, I pray we only get better.

'E go be'.

Thank you for your answer. He spent his years building his empire. Now he is looking for a queen to sit on her throne in his kingdom. (smile). Secondly, Nigeria is a beautiful country. Nigeria is situated in her best of times for a prosperous future. Wealth is determined by the ability to have long term vision. The truth is, Nigeria is an exciting emerging market, that is set for explosion. Those who invest into this ground can expect at least an 79% minimum ROI in the next 10-20 years. That is very exciting. Also, as a beautiful African country, Nigeria can accomplish this, but definitely not when its own citizens keep downgrading her ability. I plan to bring resources with me to empower this millennial generation to begin to see the economic, social and political value of their nation. I LOVE NIGERIA and yes, YOU SHOULD TOOO!

Hiploko:
Good day all.

I am about to share a unique experience in the life of someone close who ran to me because he is very confused about life now.

Jayden(not his real names) met me few days back and told me he wanted to visit a native doctor for help.

At first i was confused because i know him and his family to be good Christians. Infact they church about daily,weekly infact all second.

When i asked him why, he took time to explain several things to me after which i was left confused. He lost his dad to stroke some years ago. His uncle too died after returning from a village trip,got paralysed and died strangely.
Since then, it has been one strange event or the other. One of his sibling developed some mental issues, then came to turn of fatal accidents, then good job losses etc. One calamity to the other.
He said they have jumped from one church to the other in search of solutions. They have gone to Chosen,MFM, used TB Joshua anointing water, gone to Champions Royal Assembly etc done SEVERAL family liberation prayers spending hundreds of thousands on Naira with several pastors and prophets yet no way.

The more scary part according to him is that the efficacy of Prophecies seem to have failed in their family. All the good prochecies given to them seem to have seized. Most of the men of God they visited including a known 'strong 1' in Abuja will give them prophecies which hardly gets fulfilled. Infact he is tired of praying though believes that God didnt fail from Genesis to Revelation so it is not in their family issues that it will appear as God has failed.

Now he is worried and lacks the strength to pray anymore. It is so dire that he is considering other solutions to seek for the cause of their problems.

I have been praying for him and wishing that the Almighty God of Israel will prove himself before his glory is shared.

He seems very weary and confused and needs urgent help.

What exactly could be wrong? when i suggested the need to pray even more,He said he has fasted,prayed,sowed seeds, done midnight prayers etc.
and is tired.

He needs to exercise DOMINION. This is the power of Jesus. Prayer from other people will cover you, but if you do not wear it through your own strength, then it is weakened. Demonic powers are not afraid just because you have been prayed for. They are afraid of the one who exercises dominion over them. You must be know this power, move in and operate in it yourself. This is the ultimate gospel of the Kingdom. The gospel Jesus preached. I could say so much more on this topic, but I will leave it at that.

Hiploko:
Send me a PM, we have a lot to work out together

How do I send you a PM. I just joined this site tonight and I am honestly having a bit of problem navigating through it. The coder made the site extremely too busy and hard to navigate.

QueenSuccubus:



Are u talking about yourself?

1. Definitely u will find the woman you desire the moment u relocate yourself in Ng.

2. Juz dont go below 30.

3. 30 & up, depending on ur preference .

4. I think u have to build their trust first, not bcoz ur a foreign it doesn't mean ur intentions are pure & u have u be ready for the bride price as well..

Good luck in ur search & may u find the best lady that will u love for the rest of ur life..

Thank you for your reply QueenSuccubus!

Yes, I am relocating to Lekki November this year. I have decided to build my international headquarters for my companies there in Lagos. I have totally fallen in love with Nigeria and have decided to make it my base. Now, after years of building, I am ready to settle down. So I have seen this 10 years age appropriate difference on other posts. Bride price? I seriously dont think that would be an issue! I am more concerned with finding someone who can compliment who I am. But I really want to have children too, and I do not want childbearing to be a burden on her body. That is why I was asking the appropriate age. In America, females frown on having children once they have passed thirty. Is this the same mindset in Nigeria?

Thank you for your reply QueenSuccubus!

Yes, I am relocating to Lekki November this year. I have decided to build my international headquarters for my companies there in Lagos. I have totally fallen in love with Nigeria and have decided to make it my base. Now, after years of building, I am ready to settle down. So I have seen this 10 years age appropriate difference on other posts. Bride price? I seriously dont think that would be an issue! I am more concerned with finding someone who can compliment who I am. But I really want to have children too, and I do not want childbearing to be a burden on her body. That is why I was asking the appropriate age. In America, females frown on having children once they have passed thirty. Is this the same mindset in Nigeria?

A successful Jamaican born United States citizen minister and entrepreneur male who has been living in the United States for 30 years of his life desires to relocate to Nigeria. This Jamaican man wants to start a family and raise them in Nigeria. He is 41 years old, never been married, and has no children. However, he would like a female who could obviously love him and build a life with him, but also give him children without risk. Here are the questions?
1. Would a Nigerian woman even consider marrying this man?
2. What is the safest age for him to consider in a wife?
3. What is the youngest age for him to consider and the maximum age for him to consider?
4. Would a mother and father bless an union with their daughter to this man?

Please, keep it professional. I really appreciate the honest feedback. Always trying to learn and understand the culture!

A successful Jamaican minister and entrepreneur male who has been living in the United States for 30 years of his life desires to relocate to Nigeria. This Jamaican man wants to start a family and raise them in Nigeria. He is 41 years old, never been married, and has no children. However, he would like a female who could obviously love him and build a life with him, but also give him children without risk. Here are the questions?
1. Would a Nigerian woman even consider marrying this man?
2. What is the safest age for him to consider in a wife?
3. What is the youngest age for him to consider and the maximum age for him to consider?
4. Would a mother and father bless an union with their daughter to this man?

Please, keep it professional. I really appreciate the honest feedback. Always trying to learn and understand the culture!