₦airaland Forum

slivertongue:
There is no standard price list. price differs from place to place. they fluctuate like NEPA light. so b specific

So Im asking can you give me a breakdown of what to normally expect in paying a bride price

nanauju:
Go to her village and ask her father!

Wow! This is the best answer you can give.

I recently asked a question on what is the youngest age a bride would be for a 40 year old man. One of the comments mentioned about paying the bride price. I am now asking what is the typical bride price and how is the price calculated for the type of girl you may be interested in?

What are the best small businesses to start in Lagos?

Shugarlord213:
I pray you get sense. There are nice women offline. Any Nigeria woman you meet online is a complete writeoff

Everyone knows this. Don’t be a fool

Who said I am online to meet women. I didn't know that. I thought I came online to ask a few questions. Conduct a survey. In the process I am meeting people who are helping me to understand and appreciate the diversity of your culture and thought. But I never said I am online to meet people. However, I do thank you for your concern towards my welfare.

Stalemate:
I have attempted to send you a mail but couldn't figure out how to do so.
However my email address is bakaresegun11@gmail.com

Did you get my message

UyaiIncomparabl:
I replied, but still got no message. I thought you just wanted to shrug it off, but then, it's all fine!

Im interested in anybody who wants to talk to me. I am a man of God and a corporare figure. I do not shrug people off. I try to find value in all things. Be blessed.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Please tell him so, Sir.
He is so sarcastic and insults everyone on every thread. He tends to throw shades on all women.

You're doing it again.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Alright Sir. I copy. I'll try to be Of good behaviour henceforth! But you didn't reply my my E-mail, Sir. Any reasons?

I thought I did.

I have had 35 views on this post and only two replies. Come on brothers and sisters. Let me hear you boast of your home.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Amen Bishop.
Though I do not get the whole drift of your message, but I'm cool. Could you enunciate further please? Like just break those words alil. I can't comprehend.

Meaning you dont ever have to defend yourself against anything that you do not believe describes who you are. When you react in a negative way you are only enlarging the conflict. That is not the way to put out fires. We should not major in trying to "have a show down" on who can insult whom better. Life is about empowering and creating a better version of ourselves and assisting those who desire to do so as well.

Shugarlord213:
I hope you can see the kind of person you want to deal with. Brother over 98% of Nigerian women are nothing to write home about talkless of the ones you meet online. They only need your money and off they are gone. (That is if you don’t get stabbed at the end)

Beware!!

Brother. Women are always a reflection of the men that leads them. I pray your vision of the beauty that comes from you will change and increase for the better.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol.
You're very mad, Shugarlord 213. For your info, we've sealed the deal, so stick your tongue down your shitty throat.
Everything you know is about maga, pussy and the rest nonsensical bullshit. You really need to be flogged. Lol!
Continue with this shitty attitude of yours, and I'll report for you to get banned!

If life people will respect you and disrespect you. That is just the mentality of mortality. How you respond to both is a sign of your own growth and maturity. Whenever you fan a fire it will always create a bigger fire. Therefore, we learn from the master teacher that the best way to turn negativity into an assest is to water it with patience, love, undying forgiveness, and peace.

I pray this will be your portion.

tukdi:
sincerely speaking, there absolutely nothing to love about Nigeria when it's compared with where you are staying (United States of America) or any other developed country. I will advice you to stay put wherever you are or at most, you just come for a very short visit and go back!


If you were staying in a third world country like Cameroon, my answer to your question above would've been different anyway!


Cheers!!!

Well the question did not ask you to compare it to any other country. It was simply asking what do you love about your country?

yanabasee:
I love our native foods.... Ewedu and Amala excluded.....


I love the fact that we are ethnically divided.... With multiple languages that seemingly is a blessing to us....


I also love the skin inferiority mentality.......


I love our backwardness in politics!!!

Well thank you for your response. All your answers seems like life in the United States.

Can any Nigerian tell me at least ONE THING that you LOVE about your country? This is the time to boast. Let me hear you!

Stalemate:
I have attempted to send you a mail but couldn't figure out how to do so.
However my email address is bakaresegun11@gmail.com

Ok i will email you directly.

Stalemate:
Your mindset is legendary and commendable.

if you don't mind, I'll like to be part of your team(if you don't mind) but I'm in the final year of my undergraduate studies.

Back to your question. I'll advise you to be extra vigilant as opportunist may want to leverage. However, this does not suggest that you can't meet a genuine lady who soothes your taste. May God see you through your quest to finding a home builder(Wife).

Once again, I commend your vision for seeing beyond the current predicament bedeviling the country.

Thank you for this reply. I am looking forward to meeting more people like yourself once I arrive to Nigeria. Please contact me privately so we can talk. I am interested in learning more about you and your abilities.

Noloss:
Wao, may GOD guide and prosper your way. Some of the advice given is necessary. All the best.

Thank you. I am truly excited to come to Nigeria. God has equipped me to speak and empower the emerging population for their best life yet. Hopefully when I come there, I might see you at one of my LIVE EVENTS!

thorpido:
PM is like a direct message(DM).

Thank you. I know what a PM is. I'm still trying to figure out how to send one on this site!

KOPT33:
Hi there, let me chip in something for you.


1. Nigerian women are adventurous and always very faithful if treated well. Yes, loads and loads of our women will jump on your oyinbo ass. They are not cheap but they like cheap thrills. The way you speak alone will attract a horde of women that you won't know what to do with.

2. 27 - 32 years old women: Nigerian women give birth well into their late thirties.

3. 25 - 33-year-olds

4. Without any hesitation but there might be slight resistance at first. All you need do is to prove yourself. Invite your prospective father-in-law to your office and show him around. We are practical people and once we know that our daughters will not suffer, we gladly pour our blessings out.

Very well argued. Thanks for this contribution.

Zinny25:
It's amazing to know that people are trying to relocate to this my country Nigeria, when I'm looking for means to run out of it. Chai bro can we just exchange Like come to Nigeria, (I get wife for u free sef) let me go over there to the states..

Why are you amazed? Stop believing the hype that westerners are trying to sell you about America? Love your country. America is no different than your country. Whatever problems you think you are escaping in Nigeria, you will face right here in America and probably even harsher. It's not location that will change your life, its your mindset. The only thing that I can say about America that helps to make this country a great nation is the fact that her citizens are patriotic.

pa·tri·ot·ic
ˌpātrēˈädik/Submit
adjective
having or expressing devotion to and vigorous support for one's country.

When one becomes patriotic to their country, then they invest in themselves which in turns adds to the value of their country. This can only lead to surplus in their private and public lives. Stop trying to escape Nigeria and become patriotic towards Nigeria.

Just my thoughts!

presidential:
@ avled I am impressed by your love for the world most populous black Nation, Africa largest economy and largest democracy.
Many citizens of this country do not know how opportuned they are to be Nigerians.
What foreigners see from afar, many here do not notice. This is the easiest country in the world to be a billionaire.
We must love our country and do the hard work that will make Nigeria great.
@ avled, I run a private firm in Lagos. because of your strong interest in Nigeria, pls do me a mail in case you need any guidance. bensonkelvin80@yahoo.com, when you copy the mail, pls notify me to delete.

I have copied and sent you email

Noloss:
R u a missionary?

No I am a Bishop

thorpido:
Thorpido.You can give me a mention.

oh. is that what PM are on this site.

annie74:
@OP. I guess this post is about you so here's my response

1)Sure! As long as you are responsible, presentable and have good intentions towards her.

2) Since you want children, it is advisable you go for someone below the age of 30. Severe birth complications are more common with older mothers. However, with proper medical care, it shouldn't be too much of a problem.

3) 25-32

4) It all depends on the type of family she's from. There are families who won't accept a man from other ethnic groups in Nigeria talk more of someone that's not a Nigerian. There are also others who don't care about ethnic group, nationality etc.

Finally OP, never ever flaunt your wealth. It will attract the wrong set of people.
I pray you find a good woman.

Thank you

thorpido:
Nice one.
When you do come around,holla.

Sure. Who Im I hollaring at?

Dyt:
Every where


Sorry I might be the wrong person you looking for
Maybe i am anyway

What Im I looking for?

Cadec007:
@OP Like the lady above me said...don't flaunt ur wealth try to gain trust 1st!

Thank you for your response and your concern. I would like to believe that I live a very modest life compared to my status. I was just answering the question about money stating that whatever is needed for the woman I choose to marry would not be an issue.

Lalas247:
the ans is yes

Yes to what?

mikejj:
hustling bro....

ok. So what are you currently hustling?

From YouTube videos, I see many young upcoming churches especially in Lagos and Abuja embracing the concept of a westernized black american church. How would Nigerians respond to a Bishop who has successfully built numerous churches in America coming to launch a church full-time based on Black American contemporary model?