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Laveda:
Well if you feel it is.

But I'm just curious, what happened? Did he change or something? You woke up one morning noticed the relationship has ended already, just like that

at first it was just little things like zoning out during conversations... and then our conversations became sorta copy and paste

firstking01:
Then the problem might just from you...

i think so too

asuo27:
Firstly, i'm not a guy/man but a girl.

To answer your question, if a guy i started dating within 2months doesn't call me for a wk, is a sign of unseriousness on his part, 3days i could feel he had a busy schedule.
The communication should be mutual, is like you stopped calling him?.

i'm sorry about the error
i didn't...most times he was unavailable or didn't pick up

Laveda:
Just 2months?

Too short mehn

so ..... not worth fighting for?

asuo27:
If he's no longer interested in you, don't force it.
But you can call him to know what's going on.

alright, ill do that asap. thanks
but as a guy/man ..... if you haven't spoken to your babe in 3days/ a week is that enough to raise a flag?

firstking01:
Seems you guys are not compatible cos a relationship of 2 months is just too short to be having issues but in any case, according to you, you still love him, if he loves you too then i 'll advice you to have a heart to heart talk with him...but if you find out that he doesn't love you no more m, abeg take the next available flight.

that's another thing i have not even said the L word to him yet

saintfellow:
communication is this key.
sit him down, and talk to him about the problems in the relationship.

i'll try that. thank you

asuo27:
Base on what you said, the relationship has already ended b4 it actually started.
2months is such a short time for you to be having issues already.

i agree its short that's why i am tryna find ways to make it work

asuo27:
You're not being fair o!, EFCC should do something for you.

just 2 posts because i am new
think its over because our communication atm is 0
telling you because i wanted several povs
i wouldn't say i am
i am not

my current bf and i have been together for about 2 months and recently I've been feeling like our conversations are becoming platonic. i think its over but i don't want to pull the string on the relationship. i still have feelings for him but i think the novelty is lost. any suggestions for what i can do to end it or ignite the spark again?

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