my current bf and i have been together for about 2 months and recently I've been feeling like our conversations are becoming platonic. i think its over but i don't want to pull the string on the relationship. i still have feelings for him but i think the novelty is lost. any suggestions for what i can do to end it or ignite the spark again?

communication is this key. sit him down, and talk to him about the problems in the relationship.

Why do you have just 2 posts?

Why do you think it's over?

Why are you telling us?

Are you hurting?

Are you crying?

Base on what you said, the relationship has already ended b4 it actually started.
2months is such a short time for you to be having issues already.

EmperorLee:
Why do you have just 2 posts?

Why do you think it's over?

Why are you telling us?

Are you hurting?

Are you crying?

You're not being fair o!, EFCC should do something for you.

asuo27:
You're not being fair o!, EFCC should do something for you.

just 2 posts because i am new
think its over because our communication atm is 0
telling you because i wanted several povs
i wouldn't say i am
i am not

asuo27:
You're not being fair o!, EFCC should do something for you.

sleep don catch me already na, everywhere just dry so make I dey find trouble around threads

asuo27:
Base on what you said, the relationship has already ended b4 it actually started.
2months is such a short time for you to be having issues already.

i agree its short that's why i am tryna find ways to make it work

saintfellow:
communication is this key.
sit him down, and talk to him about the problems in the relationship.

i'll try that. thank you

Seems you guys are not compatible cos a relationship of 2 months is just too short to be having issues but in any case, according to you, you still love him, if he loves you too then i 'll advice you to have a heart to heart talk with him...but if you find out that he doesn't love you no more m, abeg take the next available flight.

avrilamzy:

i'll try that. thank you

you are welcome.

firstking01:
Seems you guys are not compatible cos a relationship of 2 months is just too short to be having issues but in any case, according to you, you still love him, if he loves you too then i 'll advice you to have a heart to heart talk with him...but if you find out that he doesn't love you no more m, abeg take the next available flight.

that's another thing i have not even said the L word to him yet

avrilamzy:


i agree its short that's why i am tryna find ways to make it work

If he's no longer interested in you, don't force it.
But you can call him to know what's going on.

avrilamzy:


that's another thing i have not even said the L word to him yet

Some guys are just too funny.

Just 2months?

Too short mehn

asuo27:
If he's no longer interested in you, don't force it.
But you can call him to know what's going on.

alright, ill do that asap. thanks
but as a guy/man ..... if you haven't spoken to your babe in 3days/ a week is that enough to raise a flag?

EmperorLee:


sleep don catch me already na, everywhere just dry so make I dey find trouble around threads

But she needs your advice not trouble. Advice her.

Laveda:
Just 2months?

Too short mehn

so ..... not worth fighting for?

avrilamzy:


alright, ill do that asap. thanks
but as a guy/man ..... if you haven't spoken to your babe in 3days/ a week is that enough to raise a flag?

Firstly, i'm not a guy/man but a girl.

To answer your question, if a guy i started dating within 2months doesn't call me for a wk, is a sign of unseriousness on his part, 3days i could feel he had a busy schedule.
The communication should be mutual, is like you stopped calling him?.

avrilamzy:


so ..... not worth fighting for?

Well if you feel it is.

But I'm just curious, what happened? Did he change or something? You woke up one morning noticed the relationship has ended already, just like that

avrilamzy:


that's another thing i have not even said the L word to him yet

Then the problem might just from you...

asuo27:
Firstly, i'm not a guy/man but a girl.

To answer your question, if a guy i started dating within 2months doesn't call me for a wk, is a sign of unseriousness on his part, 3days i could feel he had a busy schedule.
The communication should be mutual, is like you stopped calling him?.

i'm sorry about the error
i didn't...most times he was unavailable or didn't pick up

firstking01:
Then the problem might just from you...

i think so too

Laveda:

Well if you feel it is.

But I'm just curious, what happened? Did he change or something? You woke up one morning noticed the relationship has ended already, just like that

at first it was just little things like zoning out during conversations... and then our conversations became sorta copy and paste

avrilamzy:



i'm sorry about the error
i didn't...most times he was unavailable or didn't pick up

And he didn't call you back on seeing your miss calls?.

avrilamzy:


i think so too

Dnt always be in a haste to end relationship esp if you knw your partner loves you cos there's no guarantee that the next relationship would be better...so, goan do the required...

avrilamzy:
my current bf and i have been together for about 2 months and recently I've been feeling like our conversations are becoming platonic. i think its over but i don't want to pull the string on the relationship. i still have feelings for him but i think the novelty is lost. any suggestions for what i can do to end it or ignite the spark again?

Tell us the main reason why you're still clinging on. His money abi na his kondo?

Waiting for everyone to comment before I pass judgment..

Same thing here, except that mine isnt two months buh six years

avrilamzy:
my current bf and i have been together for about 2 months and recently I've been feeling like our conversations are becoming platonic. i think its over but i don't want to pull the string on the relationship. i still have feelings for him but i think the novelty is lost. any suggestions for what i can do to end it or ignite the spark again?

Just two months and you want to leave. You seem indiferent on the outcome of the relationship. Maybe you have another toaster that is disturbing you.

Is it that he is not givng you money

Or

His dick is small ?