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Some men think 'dirty talks' is romantic. It is a put off too.

Sex is supposed to be a pleasurable experience between couples. However there are some factors which can inhibit this. They include:

* Dirty underwears. This can be a big turn off whether on the part of the man or the woman.

* Dirty body or body odour

* Too hard about it. This concerns mostly the male. Some do it as if there will be a prize for being so hard.

* Quick release or taking too long to release can also put one off

* If one of the couple is not 'responding' or is acting like a 'log of wood' this can be an inhibition.

* Sleeping off immediately after the act is not good enough.

* It is a bad act to compare your partner with a previous lover or another person.

* Failure to understand the mood or the desire of the other partner

* Some are boastful about the act. This is not a 'conquest' thing.

* Some are too conservative about sex. Some see it as if it is a sin or a taboo. As long as it is between couples that are legally bound to do so, then enjoy the ride.




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In many African cultures the bride price remains essential traditional obligation towards the contract of marriage.
Some people have however come against bride price. Some say it is like trading off the bride. Nigerian foremost feminist writer Chimamanda Adichie recently reiterated that she was not a fan of it .

What do you think? Do you believe the bride price is still relevant in the contemporary world?



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The only effect is that it will make you cum inside her without fear.. immediately you cum, your eyes go clear.

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Does Alcohol have Effect On Sex Performance?

It depends on how one looks at it. Definitely, alcohol has one effect on the other on sex. Sex therapists are of the opinion that alcohol may not actually improve sexual urge, but it can 'wet the ground for it.' This means Alcohol lowers our restraints. Though it doesn’t actually increase libido, alcohol does lower our cautions. It can ease our anxiety and help us move past the issues that have kept us from being sexual.

Body image concerns or worries about pleasing a partner or reaching orgasm can be relaxed with a glass of wine. Alcohol may also make erotic talk seem easier. Focusing on performance suffocates a man’s instinct to initiate, and a small amount of alcohol can reduce his fear of a poor outcome and increase his sexual courage. If performance problems are psychogenic, his “going with the moment” and the lack of anxiety will improve his erections or his staying power.
Another seemingly positive effect is that alcohol can help us focus on the present.

Stress is one of the most common reasons for lower sexual frequency. Alcohol’s depressant properties slow down the neurons in our brain temporarily, lowering pressure and tension from our worries. And optimal sex requires us to focus on the sensations in the body letting go of our stressors and endless to-do lists.

Alcohol Increases feelings of being attracted to our partner. Studies show that people rate others as more attractive after drinking than when judging the same people without consuming alcohol. Attraction is actually a variable quantity that is influenced by how we are getting along, our feelings of connection, our own state of mind as well as what our partner looks like.
It makes us want to be close to someone.

The effect of alcohol on our prefrontal cortex, which governs our emotions, can urge us to get close to our partner. It can make us more talkative, which includes becoming more open about our loving feelings. If a partner needs their spouse to open up in order to make it emotionally safe to feel sexual, small amounts of alcohol may increase their relatedness.

Unfortunately, in larger amounts, alcohol can nearly do the exact opposite of what is mentioned above.

Alcohol carries inherent risks as a substance. For some people the risk of alcoholism is very real and any drink might cause them to fall back into an addiction. Certain health conditions and medications have a contraindication for alcohol. And some research has suggested a possible link between regular alcohol consumption and cancer and other diseases.

Impaired judgment. If we are not with a safe partner, alcohol may cause us to make poor decisions about having sex with someone inappropriate or make us vulnerable to having unprotected sex. Obviously, not having clear consent with a partner means that drinking and attempting sex can also risk a misunderstanding or even an accusation.

Poor sexual performance. Too much alcohol often causes poor erectile functioning. For women, it can dehydrate the vagina, causing penetration to be uncomfortable, even painful.
Separate us from reality and our partner. Being inebriated is sometimes a passive way to not be present with our partner or able to understand their sexual and emotional needs.


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Importance of Money in Romance

Money is important in every human endeavors. In relationship, there is no need to pretend that money plays pivotal role. While money should not be an end in itself, as a means to an end, it is an indispensable commodity.

Ladies need not pretend that money is not important. Yes, there is need to show restraint for its quest but denying its necessity is like denying the necessity of air to life.

Now, this is not an endorsement of getting money by any means. Neither is the write up urging that ladies should become leeches that must drain men. Nonetheless, a sweet romance means there are wherewithals to facilitate it.



Read interesting romance stories:

ABOVE THE SHADOWS
https://publish.okadabooks.com/book/about/above_the_shadows/29529

Importance of Money in Romance

Money is important in every human endeavors. In relationship, there is no need to pretend that money plays pivotal role. While money should not be an end in itself, as a means to an end, it is an indispensable commodity.

Ladies need not pretend that money is not important. Yes, there is need to show restraint for its quest but denying its necessity is like denying the necessity of air to life.

Now, this is not an endorsement of getting money by any means. Neither is the write up urging that ladies should become leeches that must drain men. Nonetheless, a sweet romance means there are wherewithals to facilitate it.

Read interesting romance stories:
ABOVE THE SHADOWS
https://publish.okadabooks.com/book/about/above_the_shadows/29529