₦airaland Forum

Don't feel shame. At 32 most men are stil finding their feet. Look around you and you will see good women. I will also suggest you look beyond the physical attributes. Focus on the strength of her character. Ensure you also do background checks codedly. Good luck.

I can understand where you are coming from. I live in your scenario everyday with my parents. I have vowed not to do same when I get married. Hence I have told my fiance I can support and not carry his load and I have been able to stick to that. I will suggest you fold your hands and not bother , don't nag don't complain just keep looking like he is doing presently. When the meal in your house gets finish I will suggest you pack a weekend bag and go spend some time with your parents . He will sit up when he is hungry and please do not send him money while you are with your peeps. He will look for menial jobs to feed , And before you know it he will also save for your baby. You need to show him tough love without saying a word.

Women like you are just too strong . I love my mum too and I know you are just like her (paying all bills and supporting all her kids dreams). Please try and take a break from your responsibilities, it will help your husband Man up, stop having his back always . It will help him grow.

This is really sad. SON needs to do something about this mess. Buying of sub standard material is becoming the bane of Nigeria.