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Romance / Re: 7 Essential Things That Men Find Attractive About A Woman by Aybee92(m): 3:21pm On Feb 08, 2015
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Celebrities / Re: Daddy Showkey Posted On Instagram That His Glue Rat Killer Caught An Owl by Aybee92(m): 2:58pm On Feb 08, 2015
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Family / Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Aybee92(m): 2:56pm On Feb 08, 2015
use her learn boxing some women deserve datundecided









just kiddin ogrin
try talk to her or as my bros suggest take her to d bedroom for some rounds
Romance / Re: Guys Y Do U Always Stare At Ladies In Church? by Aybee92(m): 2:48pm On Feb 08, 2015
just appreciating the handy work of God noting more...I really feed my eyes today for church sharegrin
Celebrities / Re: Linda Ikeji Reveals Cleavage In Recent Photoshoot by Aybee92(m): 8:56pm On Feb 07, 2015
Sarimah:
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Jokes Etc / Examples Of Natural Disaster In Nigeria...very Hilarious(pix) by Aybee92(m): 8:03pm On Feb 07, 2015
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Religion / Re: Does God Choose For Us Our Life Partners? by Aybee92(m): 8:32am On Feb 07, 2015
johnydon22:

Very good you agree its just belief not certainty...
I believe flying horses exist
hmmm u need special deliverance grin
Religion / Re: Does God Choose For Us Our Life Partners? by Aybee92(m): 7:18am On Feb 07, 2015
frank317:


Yes everyone is entitled to his own believe, and that is why the God ideology can never be a fact. If it was a fact, everyone will subscribe to his creator. Even if you are not doing his will, you will know and the difference will be clear on your life.

Now u accept its about our opinion and not about fact. If God is a fact why do I have the opinion he does not exist? Why have I never felt him nor seen anyone that has told a verifiable story about him?

Well, be sure you trust that everyone to his opinion.... Don't ever preach to us that he selects spouse for us again since you know its all about opinion. Good night
God exist is a fact
u may say he doesn't exist because you choose to and you have never given him the opportunity to...give him the opportunity to come into your life I promise you will never regret it.

I never said God chooses spouse for us I said he only guards and directs us so we don't make the wrong choices mind you God is not desperate that why he gave us free will.

I believe God Exist
I serve , trust , and love him
I've seen him work tremendous things in my life
he never deprived me the right to make decisions
he guards and direct my ways
he's always there when I need him
There has never been a time I regretted accepting him in my life.
he is the best thing that ever happened to me

GIVE HIM A CHANCE

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Programming / Re: Programmers In The House, Pls Come To My Rescue by Aybee92(m): 9:05pm On Feb 06, 2015
I did basic programing and c++ during my year 1 in school sha
Programming / Re: Programmers In The House, Pls Come To My Rescue by Aybee92(m): 9:03pm On Feb 06, 2015
braindollar:

Like I said earlier Am new to programming and I was to write basic because it's an assignment I don't hv a choice dan to write d basic. Tnx
what are u studying?
Religion / Re: Does God Choose For Us Our Life Partners? by Aybee92(m): 8:59pm On Feb 06, 2015
johnydon22:

His take is that whatever decision or thing we do here on planet earth is sorely our decision and our responsibility.... #Simple
dats where you guys get it all wrong... if u trust and believe in God he will direct and guard ur decisions

any ways everybody is entitled to his own beliv after all God gave us free will either to allow him guard our decisions or we make it our self
Religion / Re: Does God Choose For Us Our Life Partners? by Aybee92(m): 8:52pm On Feb 06, 2015
frank317:


No God does not chose a partner for anyone neither does he direct us to anybody.. Marriage is what we make of it. Its a life time commitment and a hard one for that matter.

It requires patience, tolerance, understanding, and sacrifice.


There is no perfect marriage and this alone indicates the absence of a supreme hand. Every choice me make about marriage is ours. That is why we must be carful in selecting a spouse. Blaming ur selection on God does not make it perfect neither does it stop u from putting in ur best.

Its time we realize that the choice is ours, no magical person directs anybody to anybody.

Before Christianity in Nigeria or Africa, there have been successful marriages and failed ones. If u are determined to make it work it will work.

If u marry a bad woman or man, its just you making a bad choice and you must face responsibility of ur bad choice.

If you are waiting on God, that means you don't know the kind of woman to marry. But deep down every man has a heart desire, every human can also fall in love with someone that makes him happy.... Why bring God into it?

Hmmmm that's my take. Religion is making us not realize we have a responsibility to live up to.

what fate do u profess?
Religion / Re: Does God Choose For Us Our Life Partners? by Aybee92(m): 7:25pm On Feb 06, 2015
frank317:


you said so bro... u insinuated it in your response. pls go back and read my first questions and re read your reply.

i even as you to take know of your fourth reply when answering the first two responses because i know it will implicate you and you will try to escape with this very response. what do you mean by they are bound to make a lot of mistakes? how did you come about that? i know so many people who are not Christians that are successful.

let me quote my questions again

now look at your reply


you even implied that God directs only bornagains. so dont change your statement except you dont know what u are talking about.

further, if both bornagains and non bornagains are under the mercy of their decision, what again it God's impute in our lives? I ask this becasue all the marriages that i know that claimed they were directed by God, are struggling just like those who are not born again.
so you what's your take on the topic since you refuse to concur with anybody here
Religion / Re: Does God Choose For Us Our Life Partners? by Aybee92(m): 6:11pm On Feb 06, 2015
frank317:
While you are giving example of people you have never met but read in the bible, I know of so many people that are not Christians that have made the right decision without God. But let me go through ur points one by one.



So in other words everyman that have made a right choice in life followed God"s directive. Our forefathers, all ex presidents, milloniars all over the world, happy Hindu worshipers in China, rich Saudi Arabians, well to do fornicators in USA, all took direction from God to be successful.
Well this is false thinking man. And I don't believe it. USA I'd an organized society filled with Gays, lesbians and sinners of all sort. Pls explain how their organization is as a result of following Gods directive.






If we are not capable of taking the right decision without God, then my pagan grandfather's marriage wouldn't have been successful. Sweden, an atheist country wouldnt have been in better condition than Nigeria. Pks can you explain to me why we have so many happily married and successful Muslims and pagans and atheists.






Then its useless... If his direction depends on our decision... Then we are nothing but on our own. If he gives me a wife to marry, she is not perfect, I still need to be patient, tolerant, etc. If I don't get it right, the mairrage will not work. I can marry a prostitute and make the same effort to make it work. His directions makes no sense.







Have this in mind when responding to 1 and 2 above





Thanks but respond to the above, then I can let you know if I am satisfied or not.
God made d rain to fall on d just and unjust alike....I never said every person that made a right decision or choices followed God bt dey a bound to make lots of mistakes
God created d world according to some laws and principles (his will) if u walk according to them then success is assured
Religion / Re: Does God Choose For Us Our Life Partners? by Aybee92(m): 3:27pm On Feb 06, 2015
frank317:


No, I don't get you.

Directing us makes no sense if the decision is still for us to make.

Let me ask you...

1. Are we capable of making the right decision?

2. If God directs us and we still don't follow his directions... Is there a possibility we might make the right choice despite not following Gods direction? I.e can we make the right choice without following God's direction?

3. Why is God's direction dependent on our decision? I.e why does Gods directions dependent on us before it can make sense? I ask because most Christian say even if we marry the wife God gave us, we still need to make the right choices before we reap the benefit of our Good wife.

4. How does God direct us?

Pls answer these four questions for me. Be on point and don't gonin circles.l
Answers to ur questions

1.King David in the Bible fought numerous battle and won all because he never took any decision on his own he always ask for God's opinion"shall I pursue,shall I over take ,will thou deliver thy enemies into my hands". also Sampson met his destruction, his vision and life was cut short because he took a decision on his own or outside the will of God by reveal the secret or source of his powers to Delilah...if we make decisions without the direction of God you are bound to make disastrous mistakes that we will live to regret for life

2.No..take example with king soul he lost his throne because he choose to ignore the decision of God to follow his own 1samuel15:1-35.ignoring God's decision for us only leads to destruction

3. God's direction is dependent on our
decision because he created us and gave us free will ie he will never force us or make us do anything he wants under compulsion, he only directs or guard us to making the right decision. study Deuteronomy 30:19-20

4. First for you to have God's direction you have to be born again and submit your will totally to him ie u no longer live for your self but for him alone...
how he directs is by his word (the bible) and the holy spirit inside of us etc.
hope u satisfied wit d answers?
don't mind my composition pls am typing from a mobile platform

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Religion / Re: Does God Choose For Us Our Life Partners? by Aybee92(m): 1:28pm On Feb 06, 2015
lastmessenger:

I have never heard the voice of God since I was born except the one That is in the bible. I keep wondering how those who claim to hear his voice achieve that.
der r different way we here from God through his word (d bible) ,through dreams, revelation, prophecies etc
Religion / Re: Does God Choose For Us Our Life Partners? by Aybee92(m): 1:25pm On Feb 06, 2015
frank317:


U Christians are fond of contradicting yourself with jargons. U reject a statement and still turnaround to accept the same statement. How does the above make sense to u.

If God has no business finding a partner for us, what is he doing directing you to a partner? Pls differentiate between directing you to a partner and finding a partner for you?
bros God created man and give him free will either to walk in righteousness or unrighteousness that's why Joshua said to s Israelites that I set before your life and death and he said choose life that u may live....DAT is exactly wat God does he only directs us by showin us d ryt part BT d decision of following d ryt way solely depends on d individual....hope u get me
Religion / Re: Does God Choose For Us Our Life Partners? by Aybee92(m): 11:56am On Feb 06, 2015
Sanchez01:

Thank you for this. This also explains why I said we're in the dispensation of the Holy Spirit. He walks with those who are ready and is willing to make the choices for you. The power to reject or accept falls on the fellow, not God.
yea bro now u get my point
Religion / Re: Does God Choose For Us Our Life Partners? by Aybee92(m): 11:55am On Feb 06, 2015
ammyluv2002:
well, you're right to a point....God, didn't choose for Issac and Jacob rather He directed them. I believe they're guidelines in the bible for any believer that wants to get married but Sanchez01 is right, once we let Him decide/choose for us then He comes in and decide a particular spouse especially if He's really interested in your case
yea bt I can't remember or have not read before or have not seen any occasion in the bible where God choose a wife for anybody
Religion / Re: Does God Choose For Us Our Life Partners? by Aybee92(m): 11:51am On Feb 06, 2015
lastmessenger:
Any girl that my heart accept will be wife.how can I tell that God gave her to me?
Isa 30:21 say Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, "This is the way; walk in it...how u will know is there will be a conviction in your spirit.mind your u cannot know d will of God if your lyf is not pleasing to him and his will should have a higher priority than yours by this d lord will direct you to choosing the right partner

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Religion / Re: Does God Choose For Us Our Life Partners? by Aybee92(m): 11:39am On Feb 06, 2015
Sanchez01:

Sorry to say you're wrong! God can and that is IF you place your hopes on Him in getting one, rather than have a mindset of who what the lady should look like.

God always chooses for His own. He has been in the business and He is still in it. Many will claim He stopped since the days of Adam because Adam blamed God for his misfortune "The woman that thou gave to me..." Regardless, He led Isaac, Hosea and several others. True, the Sriptures says "He who finds a wife..." but that still does not imply that we must never ask Him to decide for us, hence, the prayer "let your will be done" comes into play.

Most people today already have a picture of how they would love their spouse or partner to be like and they would never allow a thing to compromise that perfect picture of they have in mind. Such persons may never find the right one because when God sends that person who would compliment them, they may overlook God's choice because they perceive it's below par. God will always choose for those who throw everything to him, particularly in this dispensation of the Holy Spirit.
I agree with you to some extent BT mind you God did not choose eve for Adam as a wife he only brought her the way he brought oda creature to Adam to be named.study genesis 2:20-24...I still stand on God don't choose for us he only directs remember God created man and gave him a free will.

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Romance / Re: Question For Guys by Aybee92(m): 11:29am On Feb 06, 2015
mizkeleke:

Kai
yea base on wu I be grin
Religion / Re: Does God Choose For Us Our Life Partners? by Aybee92(m): 10:57am On Feb 06, 2015
God don't choose for us he only directs us so we don't make the wrong choices and for you to be directed by him your lyf has to be pleasing to him Ecclesiastes 7:26. If you read the book of Genesis 2:20-24 when God created the woman he brought her to the man (never impose her on him) and the man accepted her. you see God brought and man accepted dats direction

and the bible also says he who FINDs A WIFE has found a good thing and shall obtain favour from the lord....u see God has no business finding or choosing a partner for us but he only directs us...hope my answer helps

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Romance / Re: Question For Guys by Aybee92(m): 10:39am On Feb 06, 2015
hmmm....wat comes to mind is guy go push attack no tym wasting dis is a rare gem

....as my pastor will say procrastination is dangerous and a lazy man's apology wink
Jokes Etc / Re: Did You Eat Any Of These Biscuits As A Child? by Aybee92(m): 9:54am On Feb 06, 2015
waw I don eat all especially DAT cokonut biscuit make sence lyk craze grin
Politics / Re: Assuming You Receive This Text From Your Bank by Aybee92(m): 8:53am On Feb 06, 2015
na to block Oga jona for koro o...im must refund my money o
Celebrities / Re: Why D’banj’s 10th Year Anniversary Concert Was A Failure & A Disaster by Aybee92(m): 8:38am On Feb 06, 2015
deriod:
I don't y a lot of Nigerian journalist derive pleasure in someone else misfortune ,are u guys not tired of breaking d bad news always ,dbanj dis dbanj dat ,dbanj.
dey capitalise from it (bad news) bro. people don't lyk reading goodnews so na d bad one dey sell pass. don't blame dem man gat to chipgrin

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Programming / Re: Programmers In The House, Pls Come To My Rescue by Aybee92(m): 8:28am On Feb 06, 2015
d op said basic language e.g Qbasic, power basic, liberty basic etc. java and c are not basic language na

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Health / Re: HELP: Am Addicted To Coke. by Aybee92(m): 10:24pm On Feb 05, 2015
nawa o people dey de addicted on drugs ur own na coke


ur own strong no be small grin
Romance / Re: 6 Key Signs To Know A Broke Ass Girl. by Aybee92(m): 9:02pm On Feb 05, 2015
Nneka123:
hmm
op hit u hard abi? grin
Politics / Re: Jubilation Over Death Of Top Ranking Terrorist Boko Haram Commander by Aybee92(m): 4:35pm On Feb 05, 2015
pix or I don't believe
Politics / Re: Jets Bomb Boko Haram In Nigeria’s First Major Offensive by Aybee92(m): 4:31pm On Feb 05, 2015
pix, source or video or I don't believe

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