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RomanceRe: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by ayettymama(f): 12:42am On Mar 27, 2010
i laugh in japanese

cos these fools are funny
RomanceRe: Would You Marry A Workaholic? by ayettymama(f): 11:22pm On Mar 26, 2010
every man should understand not all women are the same

some are actually ambitious!

but when its time to have a family

then u need to make time for them too!
RomanceRe: Things You'd Love Your Partner To Do And Stop Doing by ayettymama(f): 11:16pm On Mar 26, 2010
ahhh maeden ive missed u!!!
RomanceRe: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by ayettymama(f): 11:13pm On Mar 26, 2010
lolz

no formin here

if the money is plenty why not share?
RomanceRe: Pet Names And Phrases Guys Use On Girls And Girls Totally Detest by ayettymama(f): 11:03pm On Mar 26, 2010
if i dont know u from anywhere

or we dont really talk

pls pls pls DO NOT adress me as

angel
honey
sweety
cutie
darling

the list is endless!!!

this is the reason i dismiss most conversations without prior warning!
RomanceRe: 10 Things Men And Women Do That Destroy Relationships by ayettymama(f): 11:01pm On Mar 26, 2010
theres a subtle way of askin where a guy is unno

lolz

there is also a subtle way of askin who the dude is talking to
RomanceRe: Guys, What Do You Think! by ayettymama(f): 10:59pm On Mar 26, 2010
[quote author=tayo_ast link=topic=420344.msg5775658#msg5775658 date=1269639851]2yrshuh? bhoi. .

wu dey mention your namehuh[/quote]u are askin me?
RomanceRe: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by ayettymama(f): 10:56pm On Mar 26, 2010
bawomolo:
like what? paying for the aso ebi grin
whoever is wearing the clothes will pay for it and eat akara?? abi??

according to my tradition the wedding is hosted by the brides family

obviously most times people want to make it extravagant so they add thier own inputs

@diva

abi-

i love trads anyways its gna be hard explaining to my persian husband why he has to fork out soo much|!!!

@bawomolo

if u can afford many wives and have the heart for plenty trouble why not??

the family is bigger grin grin grin grin grin
Music/RadioRe: What Are You Listening To Right Now? by ayettymama(f): 10:48pm On Mar 26, 2010
Neyo- thats entertainment

dayuuum i must marry this man!!!

kaiiii- hes too good!
RomanceRe: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by ayettymama(f): 10:46pm On Mar 26, 2010
bawomolo:
and you wonder why men treat you like property after marriage. those same in-laws chasing your man away won't help with the wedding bills.
according to some traditions

they do!

how about that!
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Nairalanders by ayettymama(f): 10:45pm On Mar 26, 2010
^^ ah ah

allow the guy get his jigolo on noow!!!lolz

@poster

good luck to u- we wont be attending ur funeral when ur struck down by

thunderbolt!. . . . . . . . . . AIDS!
RomanceRe: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by ayettymama(f): 10:42pm On Mar 26, 2010
bawomolo:
shiit most of my freeloading in-laws would be locked out from my reception at dodan barracks grin
exactly

its not a necessity

dunno why some men must complain abt absolutely everything that requires spending money!
RomanceRe: Guys, What Do You Think! by ayettymama(f): 10:36pm On Mar 26, 2010
ah ah

why is my name always mentioned everywhere??

*runs away*

they do chat alot of jazz though!makes sense

all brawl no brains *kanye shrug*
RomanceRe: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by ayettymama(f): 10:31pm On Mar 26, 2010
lolz

im just saying!

its one thing i find intriguin about yoruba culture
bawomolo:
why not just avoid the whole bride price?

would a one dollar hallmark card be considered a gift? cheap and still fulfilling tradition grin
well if its how u want to present urself to ur inlaws then of course!

[quote author=Diva 2.0 link=topic=420268.msg5775413#msg5775413 date=1269636987]Exactly! I mean killing twins was once tradition too and that didn't make it right.[/quote]killing twins wasnt tradition it was a fetish vodoo practice

lets not get it twisted here
chic2pimp:
That's what we keep saying. 'Tradition, Tradition, Tradition'

Most times it has less to do with tradition and more to do with the greediness of Inlaws.
Some peeps 'Bride Price' list are just Insane shocked shocked shocked
]
yes but not all times is it greedy

sometimes its an opportunity for the new 'in laws'

to show off

nobody will force anyone to pay anything

its just a fun part of our culture

if u dont agree with it marry how u want! simple
RomanceRe: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by ayettymama(f): 9:48pm On Mar 26, 2010
^^ its not commodity

its tradition

certain things are done when certain things are done
u give gifts to people to show u appreciate them dont u??
RomanceRe: 10 Things Men And Women Do That Destroy Relationships by ayettymama(f): 9:44pm On Mar 26, 2010
^^ woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooort

shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
RomanceRe: Intelligence Or Well Behaved by ayettymama(f): 9:43pm On Mar 26, 2010
intelligence
PoliticsRe: Armed Fulani Strike Again In Ekiti, Kill Police Corporal, Two Villagers Wounded by ayettymama(f): 9:41pm On Mar 26, 2010
FL Gators:
Oh well, too bad, I care. kiss
I guess thatz gonna be what matters till Oni starts caring [as if Oni cares about MY ppl sef] cool
grin cheesy grin
no mind him ooo

Even i have soo much to say to him!!!

stoipid man!
RomanceRe: Guys, What Do You Think! by ayettymama(f): 9:37pm On Mar 26, 2010
lol

@OP

i will say this and run away

IGBO MEN ARE FULL OF SHIT!!!!!!

*runs away*
FashionRe: Who Totally Loves Chuck Bass by ayettymama(f): 9:36pm On Mar 26, 2010
wow

my fellow lovers

i luuuuuuuuuuuuuuurve chuck bass

and chace crawford is just dreamy . . . . . . *sighs*

its gettin abit ridiculous now

serena has officially and succesfully dated all of em
wot a slag!

wat a slag

vannessa and blair tie with 2-2

cant they do great stories without them all bangin each other??
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Gentlemens Club.....you are all welcome. by ayettymama(f): 9:32pm On Mar 26, 2010
cute angel got it wrong cool

it means the person is loosing respect for u

ie genny fell my hand for dating dbanj!

grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Guys, What Do You Think! by ayettymama(f): 9:31pm On Mar 26, 2010
moyolla that ur profile pix is too much

almost spat lucozade on my compurer!
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Gentlemens Club.....you are all welcome. by ayettymama(f): 9:29pm On Mar 26, 2010
its in the romantic section soo people can discuss romance without the thread bein locked cos the title is unspecific
RomanceRe: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by ayettymama(op): 9:27pm On Mar 26, 2010
lolz

*kanye shrug*
RomanceRe: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by ayettymama(f): 9:26pm On Mar 26, 2010
^^ it depends

its a more traditional thing so im guessin if u dont do trad or go to the village u wont need to pay

my parents had to dish out almost 100k wen my uncle was gettin married IN KOGI

i was dazed!!! GREEDY PIGS

im not sure if its cos we are 'special' or if its the norm!
RomanceRe: Do She-males Truely Exist? by ayettymama(f): 9:23pm On Mar 26, 2010
lolz

i dont no any personally- well i hope not anyways

but yes they do exist

hermaphrodites

its caused by hormonal imbalance

take the south african sprinter for example

sumeya
RomanceRe: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by ayettymama(op): 9:21pm On Mar 26, 2010
^^lolz

i wasnt actually talkin abt casual sex

but i mite open another post abt it

thats anuva hawt topic

hpefully it wont be polluted with bufoons

but yes ur rite

like a good friend of mine says

'if your going to hell u mite as well go in style'
RomanceRe: Co- Habitation Is It That Bad? by ayettymama(f): 9:18pm On Mar 26, 2010
na2day im gna ignore u

u can follow me from here to timbuktu

i wont pay u any attention

at the end ur following a username on a forum

ur all immature and pathetic losers

lolz

take the message to ur little wankin buddies on yahoo messenger

i dont no anyone here from adam- lest they start gettin excited

silly little boiz lookin for a mommy

kmt
RomanceRe: Is Possible To Love Someone And Cheat? by ayettymama(f): 9:01pm On Mar 26, 2010
no its not

love comes with respect and faithfulness

if u cant then u dont 'love' the person

persons just a convinience in ur life

people always get it confused and the word 'love' is used too loosely
RomanceRe: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by ayettymama(f): 8:58pm On Mar 26, 2010
i have a loooong story to write abt this but no time

'not liking it' is not a good enuff reason for one to drop his or her ambitions

its a complicated situation attimes

but personally i wont
RomanceRe: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by ayettymama(op): 8:56pm On Mar 26, 2010
lolz

u guys turned this thread 360

*kanye shrug*

i now see why nigerian women like pretending lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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